Will you return to Virat's life if you were Sai? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Exactly time and again he has gone back on his words. What is the guarantee he won't do that again. I was defending Virat till yesterday but after today's episode its a No No from me.

Pakhi has huge influence on him. The way he listens and agrees to her and quickly comes in support for her. Only a person you are really attached to or love can have that power on you. Virat is still not over Pakhi and the feelings are much more than friendship. That is what I understood from his behaviour today towards Pakhi.

I was also defending him until the point where they showed he wasnt opening the door for her. I am shocked about what you are saying about Pakhi. I think it is just plain trust, she is held in high regards now because he is angry with Sai. I am yet to watch the episode, as I have mentioned.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

If I was in place of Sai, I would have fought against the marriage with Virat, Feminist in me, wouldn't have allowed me to marry someone I don't love for sake of society, I am a topper and daughter of a police officer, I don't need someone's name for protection, If she had fought back then she wouldn't have to ask for permission before breathing today, She is rebellious and fighter who fights for most insignificant breach of her privacy and rights, it just doesn't make sense that she allowed society to take such a huge decision for her

Now, if I was in this situation, I wouldn't have abducted his sister and got her married against his wish without him knowing when he promised that he'll investigate again, I will put my trust in him and tell him everything

Now after abducting his sister and getting her married against my husband's wishes, I wouldn't approach him before he is in a situation where he can understand where I am coming from, it doesn't happen when one is angry

Now, if he threw me out of his house, No, I won't return back to him

Abducting his sister? Okay, got it.

Seedha vaar? I like it.

See,laksh ,let me say what I feel as a human being. Mein single hoon, toh spouse status toh poocho hi matt. Cuz,I have no answer in this regards. I don't know how this goes,I'll be honest,I'm a bit afraid of all these in real as well. So, let me put out how I feel. It's complicated, even I don't understand this sometimes,but just keeping this pov.

I guess, there is one point of life ,that your heart hits you,hits you hard. And it gives you another end of the situation ,whether it exists or not, and who ever feels this ,we cannot guarantee that or their decision. And if this happens with Sai,then we can say, but we don't know what that person is feeling for someone ,their way will always be blank for us.

Reagrding your major question, should she return? No, she shouldn't, Cuz I won't. You might be shocked if I say so,but I am a bit rebellious, I'll just say fate has it sealed, and walk out of there. Cuz,what Virat did, or if any human does this, IT IS WRONG. I believe nobody can deny you what is your right,if hunger is yours,than none should deny you food.

But,there are some instances of life ,where I can't escape. I let others ,but I myself get stuck there. For instance, I had some people in my life whom I once called friends, they questioned my existence infront of the class, for a petty project, and I broke,and I was young then. They stay in the same locality as me,they have genuinely changed,but I can't let myself to speak as I could earlier. As its harsh. And these I have known for years.

And I have another friend, have ,had,whatever you like to call it, the worst phase of my life is known by a handful,and she was one of those. But,she left me,unexpected, was not as harsh as the above,but not smallas well,was enough to leave a spot and scar. But, don't know,this one ,I can't let escape out of my heart. Still, she makes me smile,still I have an anticipation that all might be okay one day. Might meet out of nowhere, and all okay.Like before. Now what should I call this? People exist infront of my eyes,and someone who I don't know currently of, but I choose latter,but i don't know why?Both gave damage ,but I am choosing wrong at the end, cuz I don't know why.

And what Sai gives the name to this situation also matters,Virat has no right,we know, he is such a guy,who doesn't even realise what he is doing currently, doesn't make him less of a culprit, he is wrong. But,what is all this to Sai? Morally, Sai should be freed, she needs to move out, she deserves the best, but what does Sai want here? What does she make of the situation here. What does she gives name to Virat here,is he a monster according to her or is he a mislead according to her? So,some things can be said, some things are parallax don't know they exist, but they do. Think it's there, but it's not. So,we just have to see.

Sorry,if it was a bit long, or confusing. Just wrote what my heart is saying out here.

Sorry, if my answer sounds irrelevant because I'm going to rant🤣

When I was in High School, I did not like it at all. I felt different than everybody else and was made fun of. I did not feel like I belonged. I asked my parents to change my school but they didn't. With time I started adjusting. One day during a game with two of the girls, I was losing😆so unable to bear my defeat, I called her maharani🤣she became offended and stopped talking to me. But alongwith her the whole class boycotted me. I became completely alone. I was made fun of, left alone and ridiculed. One girl befriended me in alone and refused in front of others making me feel stupid to think someone can wish to be my friend.🤪And all I could think of was I was wrong, so I deserved to be treated this way. I deserved to be left alone. I deserved to be ridiculed. I apologised to that girl. But I could never feel happy with anyone. Apart from her there Were

a few girls who I considered my own group who left no chance to make me feel lonely time and time again. And I used to try and make them happy. Because I thought I had made a mistake so I deserved to be treated this way not only by that girl but by everyone else even though those girls had no special love reserved for that girl.🤪 I thought if I just become a good girl, not do anything against anyone keep my opinions to myself, let others treat me whichever way they want, I will never be left alone again.

Those days were the beginning of a lonely life. I became a people pleaser. I always believed that and I also saw how alone I become in groups. It took me years to think someone can want to be my friend. To realise that I can voice out my opinions and that's not the end of the world😆, that people will still get offended even if I didn't do anything wrong😆. Only recently did I start the journey of self love.

I tolerated all kinds of treatment because I didn't want to be left alone again. But now I know. There's nothing beyond your self respect. Even if I could make others happy by tolerating nonsense behaviour, I could not make myself happy. Because Deep down I hated myself for tolerating everything and not saying what I felt. At the end of the day you should be able to look at yourself in the mirror without hating yourself. It's a new feeling and I love every bit of it❤️❤️

You might get my answer in this rant😳

Originally posted by: laksh

Abducting his sister? Okay, got it.

Was Devi involved in marriage planning?

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Seedha vaar? I like it.

See,laksh ,let me say what I feel as a human being. Mein single hoon, toh spouse status toh poocho hi matt. Cuz,I have no answer in this regards. I don't know how this goes,I'll be honest,I'm a bit afraid of all these in real as well. So, let me put out how I feel. It's complicated, even I don't understand this sometimes,but just keeping this pov.

I guess, there is one point of life ,that your heart hits you,hits you hard. And it gives you another end of the situation ,whether it exists or not, and who ever feels this ,we cannot guarantee that or their decision. And if this happens with Sai,then we can say, but we don't know what that person is feeling for someone ,their way will always be blank for us.

Reagrding your major question, should she return? No, she shouldn't, Cuz I won't. You might be shocked if I say so,but I am a bit rebellious, I'll just say fate has it sealed, and walk out of there. Cuz,what Virat did, or if any human does this, IT IS WRONG. I believe nobody can deny you what is your right,if hunger is yours,than none should deny you food.

But,there are some instances of life ,where I can't escape. I let others ,but I myself get stuck there. For instance, I had some people in my life whom I once called friends, they questioned my existence infront of the class, for a petty project, and I broke,and I was young then. They stay in the same locality as me,they have genuinely changed,but I can't let myself to speak as I could earlier. As its harsh. And these I have known for years.

And I have another friend, have ,had,whatever you like to call it, the worst phase of my life is known by a handful,and she was one of those. But,she left me,unexpected, was not as harsh as the above,but not smallas well,was enough to leave a spot and scar. But, don't know,this one ,I can't let escape out of my heart. Still, she makes me smile,still I have an anticipation that all might be okay one day. Might meet out of nowhere, and all okay.Like before. Now what should I call this? People exist infront of my eyes,and someone who I don't know currently of, but I choose latter,but i don't know why?Both gave damage ,but I am choosing wrong at the end, cuz I don't know why.

And what Sai gives the name to this situation also matters,Virat has no right,we know, he is such a guy,who doesn't even realise what he is doing currently, doesn't make him less of a culprit, he is wrong. But,what is all this to Sai? Morally, Sai should be freed, she needs to move out, she deserves the best, but what does Sai want here? What does she make of the situation here. What does she gives name to Virat here,is he a monster according to her or is he a mislead according to her? So,some things can be said, some things are parallax don't know they exist, but they do. Think it's there, but it's not. So,we just have to see.

Sorry,if it was a bit long, or confusing. Just wrote what my heart is saying out here.

I am sorry for whatever you faced with your friends dear 😒.

@bold hmm, she anyway never returned, came back only from the hospital. So i dont know what she might be thinking.

Originally posted by: laksh

I am sorry for whatever you faced with your friends dear 😒.

@bold hmm, she anyway never returned, came back only from the hospital. So i dont know what she might be thinking.

Arre,chodo, meri roller coaster zindagi🤣Zyaada hi ajeeb blueprint daala gaya hai uparwaale ne mere liye,shayad bohot fursat mein the🤣

@bold

Ae,maine KD nahi dekha, details chahiye mujhe🤣

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Was Devi involved in marriage planning?

Was Devi not aware of where Sai was taking her? Was Devi taken against her own will? Did Sai use force to take Devi out of the house?

Originally posted by: laksh

Is it? I haven't watched it. Why did he behave with her that way? The thing is anyone whom he knows can be spoken to that way, he speaks. It is not chauvinism, he knows with whom he can speak that way?

Well while they were collectively planning to punish Sai, Usha Mausi wanted to put forward a point that She knows Sai since she was a kid and she would not do something without a reason, to hear Sai out before conluding. SHe was brashly stopped by Kaku, who said you were no one to talk in family matters and today not just Sai , you too will get out of the house. Here Virat says nothing to at all.

Now when he shuts the door.. he says no one will take her name and she has no place in the house or my heart. Usha Maushi teary eyed "very politely" asks where will that orphan child of mine go, he says angrily "jaha se wo aayi thi, apne gaao Gadchirauli. " [Now he is not worried about Sai's safety in GC]

At that Kaku says she had put the honor of this house at stake, spoil our name, what did she think we will quite. This is Nagesh Chauhan's House, Jo hamari izzat kharab karega hum uski zindagi kharab kar denge.

At that Usha Maushi vehemently says , Sai ne kisi ki izzat kharab nahi ki hai aur wo na kisi k baare mei aisa soch sakti hai..

Virat at that says, Maushi usne aisa socha bhi aur kiya bhi..Sai is ghar mei nahi rahegi.. baat khatam. Aur haan aap bhi abhi ke abhi jaiye yaha se please . (showing his hand towards the door)

He being a "responsible police" officer [in hindi we call it " kartavyabadh "] throws out two women of the house who has no place to go. 👏👏👏

This to the woman who was respected as a family member by his mentor his guru. A woman who was always treated as a maid by his Kaku and he mostly failed to stop it. A woman who has been nothing but respectful towards him and his family even after being hurled with random abuses. A woman who has also reprimanded Sai for this family. A woman who is Sai's mother.

And on that he has the audacity to ask Mohit to behave with his "badi" vehni, who was stating facts to Pakhi that not everyone in the family is against Sai, when she kept on saying that Sai has done nothing good for the family and the family is against her... The badi Vehni who can talk in the same tone with his mother

He also disrespected his mother but then some people suggested he is like that with his mother when angry.

But honestly he only speaks to people who are weak in this tone...

I was a bit upset today that it was so easy for him to believe that Sai burnt the letter and that Sai has done nothing for his family.

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

Sorry, if my answer sounds irrelevant because I'm going to rant🤣

When I was in High School, I did not like it at all. I felt different than everybody else and was made fun of. I did not feel like I belonged. I asked my parents to change my school but they didn't. With time I started adjusting. One day during a game with two of the girls, I was losing😆so unable to bear my defeat, I called her maharani🤣she became offended and stopped talking to me. But alongwith her the whole class boycotted me. I became completely alone. I was made fun of, left alone and ridiculed. One girl befriended me in alone and refused in front of others making me feel stupid to think someone can wish to be my friend.🤪And all I could think of was I was wrong, so I deserved to be treated this way. I deserved to be left alone. I deserved to be ridiculed. I apologised to that girl. But I could never feel happy with anyone. Apart from her there Were

a few girls who I considered my own group who left no chance to make me feel lonely time and time again. And I used to try and make them happy. Because I thought I had made a mistake so I deserved to be treated this way not only by that girl but by everyone else even though those girls had no special love reserved for that girl.🤪 I thought if I just become a good girl, not do anything against anyone keep my opinions to myself, let others treat me whichever way they want, I will never be left alone again.

Those days were the beginning of a lonely life. I always believed that and I also saw how alone I become in groups. It took me years to think someone can want to be my friend. To realise that I can voice out my opinions and that's not the end of the world😆, that people will still get offended even if I didn't do anything wrong😆. Only recently did I start the journey of self love.

I tolerated all kinds of treatment because I didn't want to be left alone again. But now I know. There's nothing beyond your self respect. Even if I could make others happy by tolerating nonsense behaviour, I could not make myself happy. Because Deep down I hated myself for tolerating everything and not saying what I felt. At the end of the day you should be able to look at yourself in the mirror without hating yourself. It's a new feeling and I love every bit of it❤️❤️

You might get my answer in this rant😳

Hey,felt like I am seeing a mirror ,I too became lonely, I get you,same fate here. But,the thing is ,I used to be calm before such drama, afterwards I just thought of leaping back instead of being blamed😊