Will you return to Virat's life if you were Sai?

Hey guys,

Haven't watched the episode, read some updates and watched a scene on Insta when Virat locks the main door. I didn't check anything else after what I saw.

I want to understand something. Let us not look at if as Sai or Virat. In general, for however grave mistake a person that you have done, will you be able to forgive your spouse him/her if you were not allowed to enter your house. Will you be able to forgive and get back with he person if you were turned out of the house.

When I say mistake, please let's exclude murder or any harm done to someone else.

Will any amount of apology be enough? Anything done, can it undo such an action?

It is not like a small anger which subsides after some time and then you let your spouse in. The door was closed with a firm decision that it is closed forever for her. Even if the door opens, the decision of asking her to leave still holds true.

Let's just say that Sai remains thankful to him always, never forgets what he has done for her. She also feels guilty to have betrayed his trust, getting his sister married without letting him know.

How many of you will be able to forgive such an act if you had to go through it? Sorry if my question offended you. But if we were in the place of Sai, what would we have done?

Also, can you please answer the below.

What would want a person to go back to their spouse after this? What would make a person go back?

Let's not get into the story where we all know that Sai goes back because he is injured.

Would we have also done the same? Would we have gone to the hospital but not return to his/her life?

There is one thing that I know that could compel a person to return and that is the love for the person. If we love that person, after he/she apologises one might consider to go back warning not to ever repeat it again.

How many of you would do that if you love the spouse? Or even the love is not enough to accept the spouse after such an action?

Please can I request not to bring anything from the past or other things from the episode too.

Just that Sai has got married Devi like this and waiting outside the door and Virat not letting Sai inside the house.

I only want to know how we would feel if we have to face such circumstances. If the doors were not opened to us, if we were turned out of the house in a similar situation, after doing whatever Sai did, how would you feel?

Nope Never. The way he said that Sai will be go back to the place where she came from 👎🏼😒 and UM will laso leave with her. It was so sad to hear it. What about your promise dude? He has broken all the promise he has made.

Also, I highly doubt he loves Sai. No one who loves you will close the door for you in the middle of the night and will ask you to leave.

Virat's anger is justified but his the decisions that he is taking is not. I am not even sure if he can redeem himself.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Nope Never. The way he said that Sai will be go back to the place where she came from 👎🏼😒 and UM will laso leave with her. It was so sad to hear it. What about your promise dude? He has broken all the promise he has made.

Also, I highly doubt he loves Sai. No one who loves you will close the door for you in the middle of the night and will ask you to leave.

Virat's anger is justified but his the decisions that he is taking is not. I am not even sure if he can redeem himself.

The way he said, Jaha se aai thi wahi Jayegi.. so so demeaning. And also the way he treated usha Maushi today.. Did not expect that ..

@bold no he does not love Sai yet.. I have said it even before we reached this stage. He is extremely insecure. How easy it gets for Patralekha to gaslight him by mentioning again and again, apni pati ki baat nahi maani, us pati ne jisne itna kuch kiya uske liye.. How it took Shivani to remind him that Sai has done so much for her, when Patralekha kept saying Sai doesn't care about the family and family members, she has done nothing for them till date...He had the look that he agrees to each words of hers..

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Nope Never. The way he said that Sai will be go back to the place where she came from 👎🏼😒 and UM will laso leave with her. It was so sad to hear it. What about your promise dude? He has broken all the promise he has made.

Also, I highly doubt he loves Sai. No one who loves you will close the door for you in the middle of the night and will ask you to leave.

Virat's anger is justified but his the decisions that he is taking is not. I am not even sure if he can redeem himself.

That's very sad. Haven't watched the episodes, didn't know these details. I agree he is hurt, but that doesn't mean he reacts this way.

@bold I am also lost here. What kind of love is this? Even when we are very upset or angry, looking at the love of our life, we would never let them go through it.

I would understand if be wants to divorce her or cut ties with her, completely understandable but not this.

The promise? It would have been better if he never married her rather than marrying her to fulfill a promise made to Kamal and leave her stranded. He broke another promise for his promise, was in pain and turmoil as how to break the promise given to Pakhi. The conditions in the marriage itself was set due because he didn't want to break the promise and also because he wanted to take care of Sai. This is very upsetting.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

NO!!

Not even after hospital visit?

I think that was stupid of Sai to return with him. She got carried away by emotions. People do that. They don't remain firm in their decision. It is not like he doesn't deserve a chance, but how can one trust that he wouldn't repeat this is a big question.

Originally posted by: laksh

Not even after hospital visit?

I think that was stupid of Sai to return with him. She got carried away by emotions. People do that. They don't remain firm in their decision. It is not like he doesn't deserve a chance, but how can one trust that he wouldn't repeat this is a big question.

You know today I am more angry with how he behaved with usha Maushi, who is a mother to Sai.. So I am caught by all that.. Since I have not seen KD I am not sure how she will return.

This question is too subjective to be answered by anyone else, save sai. It all depends on what she cares about more: her self-respect or him.

Originally posted by: laksh

Not even after hospital visit?

I think that was stupid of Sai to return with him. She got carried away by emotions. People do that. They don't remain firm in their decision. It is not like he doesn't deserve a chance, but how can one trust that he wouldn't repeat this is a big question.

Exactly time and again he has gone back on his words. What is the guarantee he won't do that again. I was defending Virat till yesterday but after today's episode its a No No from me.

Pakhi has huge influence on him. The way he listens and agrees to her and quickly comes in support for her. Only a person you are really attached to or love can have that power on you. Virat is still not over Pakhi and the feelings are much more than friendship. That is what I understood from his behaviour today towards Pakhi.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

You know today I am more angry with how he behaved with usha Maushi, who is a mother to Sai.. So I am caught by all that.. Since I have not seen KD I am not sure how she will return.

Is it? I haven't watched it. Why did he behave with her that way? The thing is anyone whom he knows can be spoken to that way, he speaks. It is not chauvinism, he knows with whom he can speak that way?

If I was in place of Sai, I would have fought against the marriage with Virat, Feminist in me, wouldn't have allowed me to marry someone I don't love for sake of society, I am a topper and daughter of a police officer, I don't need someone's name for protection, If she had fought back then she wouldn't have to ask for permission before breathing today, She is rebellious and fighter who fights for most insignificant breach of her privacy and rights, it just doesn't make sense that she allowed society to take such a huge decision for her

Now, if I was in this situation, I wouldn't have abducted his sister and got her married against his wish without him knowing when he promised that he'll investigate again, I will put my trust in him and tell him everything

Now after abducting his sister and getting her married against my husband's wishes, I wouldn't approach him before he is in a situation where he can understand where I am coming from, it doesn't happen when one is angry

Now, if he threw me out of his house, No, I won't return back to him