Does pakhi love virat ??? - Page 2

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

1. She didn't trust Virat because she thought she was not important enough for him to save her number, not because he didn't recognise her voice. I agree about the lipstick mark. And the drama she created after that🤢

2. Yes, her lack of trust and insecurity came out as soon as he made that promise. It was like as soon as he made that promise she became obsessed with that promise as she had staked her entire life because of that one promise.

I beg ur pardon pakhi never trusted virat even sunny said in d episode it's common people do get rude with unknown number , see haldi episode when virat said he send her voice msgs she again called him cheater untill he saw her voice noise which could not received voz she block d number & sorry virat dint abused her that she can't call him back .

She was instigating sai when virat was not picking her call .

3. Agree. She didn't bother about Virat's feelings for Samrat. She was more interested in having alone time with Virat.

4. Wholeheartedly agree. Even her father said the same thing to her before she was going to get married to Samrat. She wanted Virat to suffer because if her his while life. She didn't understand that love sets free.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Yes, he didn't spoke rudely... I am just saying Didi ke bezatti harmons thab se hi Shuru hogaya🤣when she mentioned to her friend that virat spoke rudely, I am like what the hell, when did he??🤣

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

And as far as Sunny saying that people do get rude with unknown number. That is exactly the point I made in point number 1. She thought Virat would have saved her number. She herself searched for his number and when she called him, he didn't know that it was Patralekha because he hadn't saved her number, not because he didn't recognise her voice. Her number being an unknown number for him was the whole point. She didn't know that he had lost her number.

So she had no way to trust him again unless he gives her some evidence, after she thought he didn't even save her number when she was waiting desperately. She thought he had completely forgotten her. And she was the one who had found his number and called him first.

Sorry, if it comes out like I'm supporting all her behaviour, I'm not😆. My original post and this one are completely objective.

No. She doesn’t. Pakhi doesn’t truly love Virat.

Love. It’s about giving and not taking. True love is selfless. Love wants the best for the person and when there is a desire of possession attached to that, often times it is derived from a coexisting lust, but in its purest form, you only want to have the other person to yourself because you believe no one else can give them what you can. No one else can sacrifice and suffer for the sake of your beloved like you can. And if you think someone else can sincerely do it better, then you’re happy to see your beloved with the other. Love is about breathing life into another heart, even if it means sometimes smothering your own.

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

yes, I think you are right. She did have her trust issues before. Good catch. But my point was something else. Perhaps it didn't come out the way I wanted it to. What I wanted to say was her insecurities became more obvious and suffocating after the promise. I replied this point specifically to the point number 2. That she used to call him in GC again and again. So I made that point because after that vada, she thought it was her right and at the same time she was scared of getting that right snatched away from her.

And as far as Sunny saying that people do get rude with unknown number. That is exactly the point I made in point number 1. She thought Virat would have saved her number. She herself searched for his number and when she called him, he didn't know that it was Patralekha because he hadn't saved her number, not because he didn't recognise her voice. Her number being an unknown number for him was the whole point. She didn't know that he had lost her number.

So she had no way to trust him again unless he gives her some evidence, after she thought he didn't even save her number when she was waiting desperately. She thought he had completely forgotten her. And she was the one who had found his number and called him first.

Sorry, if it comes out like I'm supporting all her behaviour, I'm not😆. My original post and this one are completely objective.

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I am jealous slightly cos I can not be objective at this point, even if I want to. I know it’s just a story but my opinions have a biased tint so it’s hard for me to answer neutrally when it comes to Pakhi especially.

Originally posted by: SathyaT

Pakhi felt an instant connection with Virat as he resembles how she would have expected a life partner... He was all soft spoken, polite, caring and poet too 😜 She started loving him... She didn't get a chance to explore her/their love... It didn't went through the phases it has to be to truly converted into that love which is selfless and much more... It broke before it starts... It would have been easy to move on in reality in Pakhi's case (this my thought)... But Virat rejection siting Samrat and family hurt her ego and her will be satisfied until she is the only love in Virat life... And that turned into obsession... She cannot let her ego hurt and face the reality.. She don't even have the courage for that..

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

so very beautifully written❤️

Thank you 😊😊

Btw I disagree with the first 3 slides of the IG post.

Not sure how they claim that as love. Also, if a girl loves a guy, it doesn't mean she cannot trust anyone else more than him. It doesn't work that way.

More than any of these, for me it is your 4th point.

Forget all the phone number and other things, if she had loved him, she would have never accepted the promise from her. If she loves him, she would be helping him to move on in his life.

She will wish for his happiness, not wish for only her to be a reason for his happiness.

Thanks for tagging me dear. Sorry, I seem to have missed it.

Originally posted by: laksh

Btw I disagree with the first 3 slides of the IG post.

Not sure how they claim that as love. Also, if a girl loves a guy, it doesn't mean she cannot trust anyone else more than him. It doesn't work that way.

More than any of these, for me it is your 4th point.

Forget all the phone number and other things, if she had loved him, she would have never accepted the promise from her. If she loves him, she would be helping him to move on in his life.

She will wish for his happiness, not wish for only her to be a reason for his happiness.

Thanks for tagging me dear. Sorry, I seem to have missed it.

Don’t you think that’s an idealistic sort of love?

Realistically most ( I can’t quantify ) don’t wish wel for their ex until they themselves have moved on to a better position in life. That bitterness will be there even if you love them.

But here I can’t connect with her bitterness because they weren’t in a relationship in the first place. It was mere infatuation and she herself took the first step in moving on even before the vada.

If she was being neutral I would understand her to a point but she is being vindictive and bitter over a relationship that never came to fruition . So for me it never was love it was infatuation slowly turning to obsession.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

Don’t you think that’s an idealistic sort of love?

No

Realistically most ( I can’t quantify ) don’t wish wel for their ex until they themselves have moved on to a better position in life. That bitterness will be there even if you love them.

There can be disappointment, hurt, yearning or wish but bitterness or not wishing for them, I doubt so. How two people end their relationship or part ways or the reason they part ways might play a role in creating bitterness or hatred, but even then I don't think not wishing well should ever come into picture.

But here I can’t connect with her bitterness because they weren’t in a relationship in the first place. It was mere infatuation and she herself took the first step in moving on even before the vada.

I agree, they failed to show it. Thank goodness, they didn't show it. 😂😂

Her bitterness is because she wants to be the only person Virat should ever love. She was about to get that love from him and she couldn't get it and she still wants to get it and doesn't want anyone else to get it.

See it all is about get, not at all give. That is why we say she doesn't love Virat.

If she was being neutral I would understand her to a point but she is being vindictive and bitter over a relationship that never came to fruition . So for me it never was love it was infatuation slowly turning to obsession.

Ofcourse, it is turning into an obsession.

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