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Posted: 5 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Coffee_Chips


First thing first, this post was needed & by my side too - 💣👠👢👟👡🧟‍♀️🧟‍♂️🦟🕷🌊🏌⚔🛠🧨🧯

Done!!! smiley37smiley37smiley37


I love the random spiders and fire extinguisher🤣


Ikr, the makers sticking to the tagline of the show, what they promised through the first promo shouldn't be surprising though the time we expected it was shocking to most of us I guess smiley39Sometimes shows promise us something else at the beginning, trying to get us engaged but when its midway through, it takes a whole different track & we should be glad SAAKK didn't chose that route smiley16 They promised something & they are showing that until the mentality of the guy changes!


The shock element was mostly because his misogyny was only limited to the career women vs housemaker belief, which we linked to his past trauma and that tok was toned down. Moreover, we've seen the soft side of him so much that we were questioning whether he really is a misogynist. We were brought back to the ground today, and how😆

That's my consolation, it is delivering what it promised!


Yeah, by showing few sweet, delicate & surprisingly helpful episodes won't immediately change a show's character for viewers. He's been through a lot & his actions especially against his mom are justifiable & we may assume he's changing, believe that he has a good scope of changing thanks to the explanations given by Anokhi or the mirror shown by her but NO! Shaurya will certainly change one day like you've said by learning & re-learning but not so soon! If a character should be presented in the right elements, as a chauvinist or a misogynist it should be done properly & the makers are only doing that. He might not be your ideal guy from a show to have a crush on but he's someone who has so many flaws, flaws he'll accept in order to move on. & omg yes, he's no Prince Charming though he can be a saviour but no, not a typical one at that.


And seriously, when a belief is so deeply ingrained in you, you don't just change in a few days, and certainly not because you are in love or attracted to someone. Even if he did at this point, it will only be a facade and his belief will show up in another form later.


Its really not butchering isn't it? Coming to think of it, as agreed Shaurya is a misogynist & he still has that mind set. He doesn't think where he is & whom he is talking to but says what he wants to say. A guy who says things without any filter, he's straightforward. Maybe not with his feelings but with his words. He has sort of ideologies like you say, beliefs in his mind which he believes is true. About the society, about women.


Ive seen people around s.media saying its butchering, but how is it, when the promos made that very clear that our ML has very chotti soch! The journey is about him changing his perceptions as he comes across a girl with very different beliefs.

Like you said, he is very straightforward and often crosses line, but he does believe in moat things he says.


I actually believe that no matter how innocent a person is, everyone has a grey side to them if not a dark/black one. We are humans, we got through different emotions each day & we might get upset & angry too no matter how much we wanna tolerate something. That's human nature & this is Shaurya's nature. Simple as that. His soft side is sweet, heartwarming & well, interesting to see but on the other hand, his masked side is ugly which we'll have to witness as long as he decides to change.


I so agree with this👌


Totes, I remember that & felt irked too. But it was him being himself. Luring rich men or making men your financially helpful medium is what he believes. How he's been fed with lies, about women & his mom, that's why Shaurya is a misogynist today. Coming to today's viewpoint he's definitely hurt with the way Anokhi & Ahir are sharing a strangely good bond but his words were sick & what we should understand is that he's capable of crossing those limits time & again.


As a woman it was absolutely sickening! Ahir and Anokhi's friendship, if you can even call it that, has absolutely made him restless and there is the inherent fear that she's not gonna be by his side for long, specially after his words seem to indicate his desire to see her in his future.


I don't think you're justifying Shaurya if you ask me (can't take guarantee for others smiley36) but just being honest. I mean we should refrain from making preconceived notions about a character like Shaurya 😄 That's all! His family, the way he's brought up by the women in Sabherwal household when his own mom left him behind, how he always saw the world through their eyes, lessons, preachinf & now that he's actively a part of it, he wants others to believe in what he sees & knows is the best a/c to him.


It's always better to make it clear🤣🤣😅

Yep, and even in the future, we need to prepare ourselves for him to display some very rotten ideologies



That's true now that I read it through your post smiley36 Shaurya believes in his family whereas Anokhi rebels against them (Not the women in Bhalla fam except one stupid dadi smiley29) Anokhi is surely there to make a difference in her life as well as Shaurya's life, which badly needs a change & yes! She won't be a rehab centre for him, which we see in every stupid drama (Why do some of us even watch some stupid shows? smiley37) She's here to make him understand what he has been believing is false, his ideologies & mentality can go to hell smiley36


Thank you so much for your insights😉


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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: prs_725

this professor has a problem ... He is asking ACP to not cross his personal and professional boundaries...but what is he doing!? 🤣 smh pagal banda.


"Zaroorat padene par apko seeka bhi doonga" ~ that sounded like a threat


There's a lot of reference to "date" and enjoy the date...errm i mean fir 😆

@bold - 😆 so true. He has crossed a lot of boundaries with Anokhi all thr time 😆. Abb same cheej ke liye dusre ko taane?


But what I really wanna ask Shaurya is bro, Anokhi is loose character because ACP wiped her hand or gives her a pen or something, which is nearly 1 percent of how close u get to be with her. Then why is she not a loose character when she is with u? 🤓 aap bhi koi nahi lagte uske , dekha jaaye toh!


And if she met ACP just few days back, she met u also just a few months back only ! Matlab aap bhi uske bachpan ke dost nahi ho!🤣


Anokhi should have said that 😆. Sir aap toh mere mana karne par bhi fairy lights nikaalne me madad karte ho, mere haath ki rassi kholte ho muje chupp kara ke, bematlab muje godd me utha kar side me baitha dete ho. Aapka charcater and intention maine toh judge nahi kia 😡😡.


I'm sorry, I'm just mad at Shaurya 😈.



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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sofna

Loved your post.❤️

His upbringing and soch of nearly 30 yrs will not change overnight just because he 'feels' something.

Instead the battle within himself will be to prove that what he's believed till now, Anokhi fits that bill.

It's only as she passes his each emotional war that he throws at her that he'll finally see the real Anokhi.

I think what has perplexed many of us is in the last few days (or weeks unsure of show time span) it seemed quite sudden for him to use that kind of language on a student.


I dont believe beliefs and values can change overnight...its a whole unlearning and relearning process and will take time.

So true, its an internal battle. I sincerwly belief that he is both the hero and the villain of the show. What Devi and Alok failed to do (bring about separation), his ideology did it, and so easily. So, yeah, its an internal battle that he'll have to fight, but Anokhi will be there to provide him with the ammunition. She will guide him, but will not fight his battle.

He is high on emotions currently, that's why he errupted!

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Posted: 5 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

I really doubt he takes Anokhi as student. Anokhi crossed the boundary long back. Now even he dosent consider her as student now.

So true, even he crossed the line earlier and it was confirmed when he asked her to drop the sir!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: prs_725

this professor has a problem ... He is asking ACP to not cross his personal and professional boundaries...but what is he doing!? 🤣 smh pagal banda.


"Zaroorat padene par apko seeka bhi doonga" ~ that sounded like a threat


There's a lot of reference to "date" and enjoy the date...errm i mean fir 😆


He has a problem that she is "patao" Ahir, instead of him. That's what the problem is!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: brat2008

Am I upset with shaurya ? 🤔 of course I am

Anything against a woman’s self respect and character gets my already high BP even higher😡


Me too🥲

But he is very true to character they have sketched out

We were taken aback by all the build up for romance last week and this week we got a jolt 🤣


That's like makers throwing us to the ground from lalaland🤣


It was all boiling under the surface and escalated into huge meltdown 🤦‍♀️

So much hatred has been drilled into shaurya by his badimaa it’s bound to influence his thinking and actions a lot especially against independent women 🤔

His brain is clouded with his chauvinistic thoughts he can’t think straight , cannot look at things in a better perspective

Right now his Badi maa stands tall in his life

Aastha and Anokhi ( literally )🤣& metaphorically don’t come close to that

😆


Agree with all the above points made!



Btw I have some old jhoote to throw at him 😆

Will that work ? Do not want to waste my new ones 🤣


He is not worthy of your new jhoote...throw the older one in the kachra that is his brain😆


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Posted: 5 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

I really doubt he takes Anokhi as student. Anokhi crossed the boundary long back. Now even he dosent consider her as student now.

We've all wanted the same 😆as that's the biggest obstacle in their 'relationship' progress.🤔

But acc to their characters in the show that's how it will be seen.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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You said it all I never did feel the promos were completely misleading because the intention was for Shaurya to be a masked misogynist and more so when it comes to women in his personal life (versus women in general) - being a chivalrous man who is an educated gentleman most of of time did not put him beyond such thinking. Anokhi didn’t give that speech at the start for the sake of it. It was all intentional and is the premise of the show.

Actually the build up to this moment was done very well from a story perspective - this wasn’t intended to be a sudden surprise even though we were somewhat surprised.

Viewers empathized with Shaurya throughout the journey and felt like he was going against his initial bias and prejudice by helping Anokhi which he was to some extent. Like her, we thought he was a good man underneath the facade until the events of the last few weeks happened. Both Anokhis perception of him was crushed and now ours as well.

But all their moments spend together in majboori resulted in this - he wants to be the center of her universe and that too without any real established relationship and the thinking “if she’s not mine, then she doesn’t matter and I’ll say whatever want” toxic mentality.


It will be interesting to see where the story goes on from here.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashwariya_98

@bold - 😆 so true. He has crossed a lot of boundaries with Anokhi all thr time 😆. Abb same cheej ke liye dusre ko taane?


But what I really wanna ask Shaurya is bro, Anokhi is loose character because ACP wiped her hand or gives her a pen or something, which is nearly 1 percent of how close u get to be with her. Then why is she not a loose character when she is with u? 🤓 aap bhi koi nahi lagte uske , dekha jaaye toh!


And if she met ACP just few days back, she met u also just a few months back only ! Matlab aap bhi uske bachpan ke dost nahi ho!🤣


Anokhi should have said that 😆. Sir aap toh mere mana karne par bhi fairy lights nikaalne me madad karte ho, mere haath ki rassi kholte ho muje chupp kara ke, bematlab muje godd me utha kar side me baitha dete ho. Aapka charcater and intention maine toh judge nahi kia 😡😡.


I'm sorry, I'm just mad at Shaurya 😈.


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Wo dance kare, bahoon mein uthaey, hug kare, cheeks ko touch kare, ask her to even drop the formality - wo yeh sab kare to thik, Ahir ussey paani offer kare to problem🤡


And let me not even talk about his speed comment🤡🤡🤡

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashwariya_98

@bold - 😆 so true. He has crossed a lot of boundaries with Anokhi all thr time 😆. Abb same cheej ke liye dusre ko taane?


But what I really wanna ask Shaurya is bro, Anokhi is loose character because ACP wiped her hand or gives her a pen or something, which is nearly 1 percent of how close u get to be with her. Then why is she not a loose character when she is with u? 🤓 aap bhi koi nahi lagte uske , dekha jaaye toh!


And if she met ACP just few days back, she met u also just a few months back only ! Matlab aap bhi uske bachpan ke dost nahi ho!🤣


Anokhi should have said that 😆. Sir aap toh mere mana karne par bhi fairy lights nikaalne me madad karte ho, mere haath ki rassi kholte ho muje chupp kara ke, bematlab muje godd me utha kar side me baitha dete ho. Aapka charcater and intention maine toh judge nahi kia 😡😡.


I'm sorry, I'm just mad at Shaurya 😈.


This is so true though. In his mind, he seems like those guys that say "yeh toh ab meri hain" ...It's evident w the way he took her and left her on the side walk, the way he holds his finger and says "bas..". Jitna haq se use sab kuch karta hain, in his mind, without her consent, she is his. So uske saath its all fine, but anokhi ke saath koi aur itni maadat aur touch kare toh woh "loose"


matlab, dil se usko woh apni bandi lag ne lagi hain without her consenting to it 🤣 galat fehmi ka maara 🤣

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