Quick Questions?? - Page 2

Ideally, Sai is better of in hostel with Virat helping her out financially and then her paying it all back.

but Sai got attached to Virat and is on her way to falling in love with him.

He is not a bad person but neither is he perfect and is conditioned according to his family backward values and influences . He has not imbibed it perfectly but there are traces of it in him

so what now? Love and care just goes away . They are in the opposite ends of a see saw right now. They are figuring it out to get their balance . Balance each other in terms of their positives and negatives.

i like their Journey. But scenes with Pakhi are what gets on my nerves . But with some analysis from forum folks certain scenes also make sense to make the story move forward

again sorry for my rant

Originally posted by: sukri

I now feel like I am shipping the wrong couple.

Sai is thorn in Virpakhi's relationship, which is so strong that just 2 days was enough to make them fall so deep in something 🤢 with each other that even marriage to different people couldn't break this bond.

This story is about their journey despite Sai throwing them challenges at every step.

Looks that way, Virat better addresses it before it gets too late.

What he thinks, feels, what he has told to Pakhi alone is not enough and this guy should be made aware of it.

He can be loyal but he needs to learn to draw lines with his friend.

I always had only one question, how he would have reacted if he was in Sai's place. He wouldn't have survived even a day looking at how he burtst like a volcano when he feels insecured.

Originally posted by: laksh

Have answered your questions. Hope it cleared your doubts.

I know why you have got these questions. It is just testing times and just one cannot be blamed. Both of them have made mistakes and might confinue to in future too, how they correct their mistakes and if they repeat is what we need to see.

Loved your answers to the questions. I can never thing coherently and write as well as you guys .

Originally posted by: Sairat

Hello Everyone,

So , please throw chappals in pairs and tomatoes fresh please..I know i am asking for the wrath of all; but this is a geniune question I have??

1) What is Virat feeling for Sai as I am damn sure its not love/zimmedari??

Love because your opinion does not change about the person you love with situations..for eg.:During when Sai was leaving home, he asked her to consider him her family..but in today's episode he is again back to Meri Family and Meri Tai.

Zimmedari, i am sure she is not; you don't get possesive about your zimmedari.

Now; isn't Virat a miniature version of Ninad, like Ninad wants Ashwini to raise all children of family, do wifely duties to him; he won't let her go without his permission anywhere but when it comes to Ashwini putting out her opinions on family matters; he would demean her!!

2) What is Sai feeling for Virat??

So; Sai has rubbed him off as aap mere kuch nhi lagte till hand holding drama but after that announcement of Virat: "Mujhe apni family samjho"

She has again started calling him her husband in front of family and even in conversation with Usha Maushi..when UM warned her of impending doom; she was visibly shaken that nothing would happen to her and Virat's relationship.First time since long, she did not brushed it away like it comes with 5 year warranty thing!!

But Sai is falling for Virat , quick and deep and who will not ??Virat is a caring, considerate husband but is care = love??

What if Sai develops deep feelings for Virat this time and Virat goes back to pendulum; which he will??Today's warning of Venom didi to choose between family and Sai, how long before he chooses family and how a 19 year old Sai will deal with heartbreak that comes with it, do we think that kind of scar will ever leave Sai as a women and would anyone will be able to remove it..?

3) What Virat feels for Sai is it attraction?

Then I would say the attraction that he felt for Venom vahini was far much stronger in 2 days rather than what he is feeling for his wife of 6+ months...

His 2 day attraction he gave her vaada of eternal celibacy, has a permanent soft spot for that women and atleast her status as his friend and family is never questioned!!

With Sai , she does not even have a full time family status depends on situations?? Her soft spot in his life depends on her actions , of how family welfare is respondent to it??So basically she has to proof everytime she is right for even the basic rights in that family!!

Why are we shipping SaiRat ,aren't they better off without each other??

I would like to know your thoughts on above questions and also are you guys going through this kind of detattachment that I have started feeling??

For Virat Sai is not a zimmedari anymore but he has not yet accepted the fact that he loves her. He will realise/accept this only after the separation. But for Sai I think it will take even a longer time. For Sai her sense of standing by truth and fighting for it is more important than her relationship with Virat. Both are at fault. When Virat has agreed to look into Pulkit's matter again I feel she should wait for him to do it or try to do the investigation with his help. What is the need to promise Pulkit for the marriage. Or atleast she can ask Pulkit to gather some proof to prove himself innocent.

The last bold part yes even I started feeling the detachment from the serial today. Too much of drama and misunderstandings.

Originally posted by: laksh

Looks that way, Virat better addresses it before it gets too late.

What he thinks, feels, what he has told to Pakhi alone is not enough and this guy should be made aware of it.

He can be loyal but he needs to learn to draw lines with his friend.

I always had only one question, how he would have reacted if he was in Sai's place. He wouldn't have survived even a day looking at how he burtst like a volcano when he feels insecured.

It's not love, not friendship, not even attraction at this point. They share some kind of wierd toxic thing (not sure what to call it) that I can't relate to or understand.

He can't handle Sai dance to someone singing or fake flirting. If she has a guy similar to what he shares with Pakhi, (forget living in the same house) there would be daily fights. He wouldn't be able to handle it coz he truly expects wifely behavior from Sai.

But then why does he do all this after knowing what Sai thinks of him and Pakhi without clarifying his stand to Sai.

Agree it can happen but what are the chances..but Sai has till now taken desicions based on what is clearly told to her..

When during Pakhi leaving home scene, Virat told her how imp Pakhi is to him; she stopped adressing Virat as her husband; did not claimed any wifely right though she was hurt by his treatment she never asked for any rights..

During Sai leaving the house when Virat told her to consider him his family, she has started doing it, but again we saw today Virat going back to meri family..as if Sai is not part of his family..

Coming to financial stability, Sai now has it as well ,actually earns more than Virat even now!!

She is getting 75000 per month for her scholarships whereas Virat earns 50000 per month.

She also has her Father's VRS and saving money in bank account .

Are we sure its per month not annually? Her college fee is 4.5 lakhs per year and 75k will not cover 50% of her fees . We don’t know if she has enough money to fund her education, take care of all her expenses as it’s not shown yet . I remember her monologue where she mentioned if not for Virat sir then she would not be in medical college but will be doing some small course in GC . This statement of hers shows she needs more than Financial security to have removed on from such a big trauma in her life . She is getting all these from Virat . Again , these are not my assumptions but statements made by Sai herself

Also, if she wanted to leave Virat for money , she could have done that why get treated as a servant of a castle when you can be a queen of your hut??

Well , I have answered above . There was one serial zindagi Gulzar hai where the FL was an IAS officer equivalent , with supporting family but when she gets married she feels relieved because there is someone to share her life with , someone to be with her during her struggles and someone to share her happiness . These things are more valuable than money . If money was everything then why do rich people marry , have kids when they know marrying or having family might cause heartbreak , pains , disappointments , fights .

Now coming to find attraction, Sai goes to a college where boys / men of her age and a little bit older are present in abundance, if she has to feel attraction she can feel it for anyone of them she literally spends more time in college than she does with Virat.

Also, I do not agree that Virat is in love with Sai!! Atleast not at the moment.

I have answered in my previous post why I feel Virat is in love and I believe he is in love.

2. Why does Sai refer to Virat as her husband only during her confrontation with family

So when do you want her to proclaim Virat as her husband in an alone room😅, according to me that would be delusional.

Also you refer relation in front of people , not in front of mirror!!

Why not . One should be comfortable enough to admit truth to themselves .Sai should be able to say it loud that he is her husband. Why doesn’t Sai acknowledge Virat as her husband infront of him or Aai but only when there is a confrontation .

How do you know he considers her his wife not zimmedari as he famously quotes??

I have answered below in black why I feel it’s not just responsibility. That was one incident but there are many such incidents to prove she is more than zimedari

Virat was ready to leave his family for her . Even a normal husband won’t do it for his wife but why was Virat ready to do that if he didn’t consider Sai as his wife . Look at his brother Mohit who had a love marriage but doesn’t stand up for his wife but a deal husband fights against his family for his wife and takes a stand for her infront of his true love Pakhi .

That is why I asked the first question??His behaviour is so pendulumish that i am not able call it love/attraction.Also, i agree he said he can leave house but soon we will see him acting as a pendulum and ousting her of it..

If Virat is pendulum then so is Sai . The situation , their relationship status and their own feelings are making them behave that way . If Virat is called out for his pendulum nature then Sai should be called out too .

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Agree it can happen but what are the chances..but Sai has till now taken desicions based on what is clearly told to her..

When during Pakhi leaving home scene, Virat told her how imp Pakhi is to him; she stopped adressing Virat as her husband; did not claimed any wifely right though she was hurt by his treatment she never asked for any rights..

During Sai leaving the house when Virat told her to consider him his family, she has started doing it, but again we saw today Virat going back to meri family..as if Sai is not part of his family..

Coming to financial stability, Sai now has it as well ,actually earns more than Virat even now!!

She is getting 75000 per month for her scholarships whereas Virat earns 50000 per month.

She also has her Father's VRS and saving money in bank account .

Are we sure its per month not annually? Her college fee is 4.5 lakhs per year and 75k will not cover 50% of her fees . We don’t know if she has enough money to fund her education, take care of all her expenses as it’s not shown yet . I remember her monologue where she mentioned if not for Virat sir then she would not be in medical college but will be doing some small course in GC . This statement of hers shows she needs more than Financial security to have removed on from such a big trauma in her life . She is getting all these from Virat . Again , these are not my assumptions but statements made by Sai herself

Also, if she wanted to leave Virat for money , she could have done that why get treated as a servant of a castle when you can be a queen of your hut??

Well , I have answered above . There was one serial zindagi Gulzar hai where the FL was an IAS officer equivalent , with supporting family but when she gets married she feels relieved because there is someone to share her life with , someone to be with her during her struggles and someone to share her happiness . These things are more valuable than money . If money was everything then why do rich people marry , have kids when they know marrying or having family might cause heartbreak , pains , disappointments , fights .

Now coming to find attraction, Sai goes to a college where boys / men of her age and a little bit older are present in abundance, if she has to feel attraction she can feel it for anyone of them she literally spends more time in college than she does with Virat.

Also, I do not agree that Virat is in love with Sai!! Atleast not at the moment.

I have answered in my previous post why I feel Virat is in love and I believe he is in love.

2. Why does Sai refer to Virat as her husband only during her confrontation with family

So when do you want her to proclaim Virat as her husband in an alone room😅, according to me that would be delusional.

Also you refer relation in front of people , not in front of mirror!!

Why not . One should be comfortable enough to admit truth to themselves .Sai should be able to say it loud that he is her husband. Why doesn’t Sai acknowledge Virat as her husband infront of him or Aai but only when there is a confrontation .

How do you know he considers her his wife not zimmedari as he famously quotes??

I have answered below in black why I feel it’s not just responsibility. That was one incident but there are many such incidents to prove she is more than zimedari

Virat was ready to leave his family for her . Even a normal husband won’t do it for his wife but why was Virat ready to do that if he didn’t consider Sai as his wife . Look at his brother Mohit who had a love marriage but doesn’t stand up for his wife but a deal husband fights against his family for his wife and takes a stand for her infront of his true love Pakhi .

That is why I asked the first question??His behaviour is so pendulumish that i am not able call it love/attraction.Also, i agree he said he can leave house but soon we will see him acting as a pendulum and ousting her of it..

If Virat is pendulum then so is Sai . The situation , their relationship status and their own feelings are making them behave that way . If Virat is called out for his pendulum nature then Sai should be called out too .

Either you have not read before answering or you are answering I have not even asked.

The scholarship is montly , check it in episode it was clearly mentioned.

I never diaregarded the emotional support that Virat gives but my question remains unanswered.

I have the same questions as you do.

Virat’s pendulamish behavior is damn annoying. M not saying he doesn’t support Sai. But the way he allows everyone including his favorite best friend to spew venom n garbage on Sai is disgusting. What is the point in defending after all the damage all the time? What they subject her to is constant mental torture.

He should have drawn the line long back. Especially for Pakhi, who has no other job but to abuse Sai.

And maybe his feelings are changing for Sai, though it’s not clear yet. He needs to make it clear in plain words to both Sai n Pakhi what they actually are.

He keeps asking Sai to consider him has family, but alienates her the first chance he gets.

I can’t understand how he is blind to all the abuse doled out by his so called family to Devi, Sai and Ashwini. N how he doesn’t suspect foul play.

Frankly if Virat ousts Sai from the house in the coming days, I don’t want her to come back to this madhouse no matter what.

At this point I feel no attachment to Sairat. I don’t see any love between them. Care n attraction yes.
But love comes with understanding and trust. N I see that more in the two day yoga love than 6 months husband wife relationship! 🙄

N yes Love is not perfect agreed, but it does mean taking crap n abuse from your partners family in the name of love n adjustment.

As of now, feeling detached to the serial thanks to deliberate inclusion of some people in every scene.

Originally posted by: Sairat

Either you have not read before answering or you are answering I have not even asked.

The scholarship is montly , check it in episode it was clearly mentioned.

I never diaregarded the emotional support that Virat gives but my question remains unanswered.

Originally posted by: sukri

It's not love, not friendship, not even attraction at this point. They share some kind of wierd toxic thing (not sure what to call it) that I can't relate to or understand.

He can't handle Sai dance to someone singing or fake flirting. If she has a guy similar to what he shares with Pakhi, (forget living in the same house) there would be daily fights. He wouldn't be able to handle it coz he truly expects wifely behavior from Sai.

But then why does he do all this after knowing what Sai thinks of him and Pakhi without clarifying his stand to Sai.

So agree with this. Where they are right now is at a very toxic place. This is a very weird kinda friendship, that you let her bad mouth your wife. He has guilt, I can understand. But I can’t believe he doesn’t see that she is using that guilt to play victim.

And I so agree with the part about his insecurity. Had Sai had a so called best friend like he has and shared the same kind of rapport he does with Pakhi, all he’ll would have broken loose.

As it is, what right does he have to question her friendship when he himself has a questionable n objectionable friendship right in the house. These are some of the places where he resembles Ninad so much.