Originally posted by: Sairat
Hello Everyone,
So , please throw chappals in pairs and tomatoes fresh please..I know i am asking for the wrath of all; but this is a geniune question I have??
1) What is Virat feeling for Sai as I am damn sure its not love/zimmedari??
Love because your opinion does not change about the person you love with situations..for eg.:During when Sai was leaving home, he asked her to consider him her family..but in today's episode he is again back to Meri Family and Meri Tai.
I can tell based on how it all works in real life. Even in real life, there are many who live together for years, love each other but when it comes to family, though they consider their spouse as their family, they unintentionally draw a line. They are in conflict forever as to whom to support.
Here if Virat had blindly supported his family, we can blame him. Ignoring his not so satisfactory investigation, the truth is that he is concerned about his sister and the evidence he has gathered is against Pulkit and Sai is even then trusting Pulkit.
It will be understood better if we put ourselves in his shoes and look at this situation.
Also his sensitive nature is adding up to all this.
Zimmedari, i am sure she is not; you don't get possesive about your zimmedari.
Now; isn't Virat a miniature version of Ninad, like Ninad wants Ashwini to raise all children of family, do wifely duties to him; he won't let her go without his permission anywhere but when it comes to Ashwini putting out her opinions on family matters; he would demean her!!
@bold not at all
2) What is Sai feeling for Virat??
So; Sai has rubbed him off as aap mere kuch nhi lagte till hand holding drama but after that announcement of Virat: "Mujhe apni family samjho"
She has again started calling him her husband in front of family and even in conversation with Usha Maushi..
She always calls him her husband in front of the family, only then can she fight her battles especially with this mad family.
While doing so, she knows that Virat doesn't mind her calling herself as his wife, which is why she does it confidently.
The wife thing is not used for her advantage, it is to show these people the mirror. It is to explain to the family how they shouldn't interfere in a husband and wife thing, how Pakhi is instigating husband against his own wife. Like teaching them how wrong they are.
She is at an advantage because she is married to Virat and tries to draw lines as a wife. If not her, Mohit or Ashwini would ask what is wrong if a couple does this or how can you get in between them.
when UM warned her of impending doom; she was visibly shaken that nothing would happen to her and Virat's relationship.First time since long, she did not brushed it away like it comes with 5 year warranty thing!!
The statement "Nothing would happen to her and Virat's relationship" has come from her because of the confidence she has on Virat now. He stood with her and wanted to get his sister married to Pulkit.
That only proved to her that he will only stand by what is right. She thinks and believes that if she proves to him that the evidence he found was a fake one, and gives him proof of Pulkit's innocence, Virat will believe it and will support this wedding.
But Sai is falling for Virat , quick and deep and who will not ??Virat is a caring, considerate husband but is care = love??
He has always cared but she never fell for him though there was a pull that she felt. She is not falling for just his care.
What if Sai develops deep feelings for Virat this time and Virat goes back to pendulum; which he will??Today's warning of Venom didi to choose between family and Sai, how long before he chooses family and how a 19 year old Sai will deal with heartbreak that comes with it, do we think that kind of scar will ever leave Sai as a women and would anyone will be able to remove it..?
Virat will not be unreasonable to her. He will stand by her if he comes to know of the truth.
If Sai takes hasty decision, then we cannot blame his reaction to it. What did Sai do after she lost her Dad? Didn't she blame it on him?
Love or no love, married or unmarried, there can be misunderstandings but at the end, if right actions are taken by both the parties they won't go through a heartbreak.
3) What Virat feels for Sai is it attraction?
Then I would say the attraction that he felt for Venom vahini was far much stronger in 2 days rather than what he is feeling for his wife of 6+ months...
His 2 day attraction he gave her vaada of eternal celibacy, has a permanent soft spot for that women and atleast her status as his friend and family is never questioned!!
It is not attraction. It is connection, it is in the process.
That is the most important difference in what he felt for Pakhi and what he is feeling for Sai now. He was able to come out of his heart break when it was about Pakhi, he won't be able to after he falls in love with Sai.
With Sai , she does not even have a full time family status depends on situations?? Her soft spot in his life depends on her actions , of how family welfare is respondent to it??So basically she has to proof everytime she is right for even the basic rights in that family!!
Firstly, she refuses to acknowledge him as her husband and we know why, can't blame her as well.
But if we look at it from Virat's pov, he will only be made to think she doesn't even consider herself to be his wife, then how can she take the liberty of taking life changing decisions for his family members on her own. Devi Tai's situation is a sensitive one too.
(Although, I am not sure how he was planning for a fake gun prank in a situation like this. Insensitive of him. )
About soft spot, it is always like this, we get happy when our spouse do something good for our family. Like how he felt proud on the day she fought for Mohit.
But that doesn't mean he is expecting her to prove herself to get basic rights of the family. Is she not getting one now, or have been always getting it, even though he knows she has not accepted him as her husband?
This situation is completely different. They have an issue at hand and he did give her a chance and only when he thought that it is going to hurt his sister he is asking her to drop her efforts of convincing that Pulkit is a good guy.
Why are we shipping SaiRat ,aren't they better off without each other??
They are not better off without each other, not at this point atleast. They can try to sort out their indifferences, but we have to wait and watch both of their actions in the future.
Just like how we ask if Sai is supposed to live with Virat or is she not better off without Virat, many will even ask if Virat is not better off without Sai.
This question is not something anyone should think of (not Pakhi), it should come from them and can only be addressed by them (Sai and Virat).
However, I am not happy and do get irritated to see him stand mum when his family members are hurling insults at Sai or when they are blaming him.
This guy also believed Pulkit when he came home and in just one meet, so no point in blaming Sai who has been meeting her professor for a long time.
He can only blame her if she pushes this matter any further just on the basis of her trust on Pulkit.
I would like to know your thoughts on above questions and also are you guys going through this kind of detattachment that I have started feeling??
Kind of, not because of Virat but because of his family and the third wheel in their life.
But that is life, only if they can fight this and come out of it successfully will their relationship make any sense. It is not worth it if they cannot fight it together. They need to be able to survive even after all this.
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