I know many anokhis 😁😁

I have also seen people like anokhi..who really try to clear something..in a way really not knowing they are crossing lines...but in a way it's their innocence that they don't realize it's a disturbance...because in their hearts..they only want to clear the matter and make the person feel good..but end up in mess 😂

I also had a friend..who had the same trait..if there is any serious fight in class..she will jump in to resolve..even if she has no relation to it...she does it because she wants the class together and good...😄..

They are good by heart but end up in mess themselves..

I kind of do that too...trying to sort people's issue and make people confront each other and sort it out if I know for sure it's a misunderstanding. It's called being people pleaser. But we stop once we get to know people are not willing to sort out the issue. It's not like Meddling per say in their head but solving a problem or misunderstanding. But that happens only if the people involved are your close friends. Especially if two of your friends are fighting and you know its a misunderstanding and try and sort it.

Its true some people want to do good but for others it looks like...

Jaan na pehchan, tu mera mehman

Or

Jagat Mata 😆

Originally posted by: AK_2010

Its true some people want to do good but for others it looks like...

Jaan na pehchan, tu mera mehman

Or

Jagat Mata 😆

I agree we have to think before speaking or taking any action... sometimes its like u think ur doing the right thing yet for others it might not be... and there r some that dont even think..

Originally posted by: ..KpopIsLife..

I agree we have to think before speaking or taking any action... sometimes its like u think ur doing the right thing yet for others it might not be... and there r some that dont even think..

Yeah. In a way everyone should be able to understand where their help/opinion is needed and when is it not.

Like for eg. I am a kind of person who does not appreciate 3rd person's interference in my matters unless asked..... Its annoying

Originally posted by: AK_2010

Yeah. In a way everyone should be able to understand where their help/opinion is needed and when is it not.

Like for eg. I am a kind of person who does not appreciate 3rd person's interference in my matters unless asked..... Its annoying

@bold: i agree..

Same its like if i ask for help then its fine if im not asking for help then no one should interfer.. i also feel it depends what kind of situation one is in if a 3rd person needs to interfer or not...

Originally posted by: AK_2010

Yeah. In a way everyone should be able to understand where their help/opinion is needed and when is it not.

Like for eg. I am a kind of person who does not appreciate 3rd person's interference in my matters unless asked..... Its annoying

Originally posted by: AK_2010

Its true some people want to do good but for others it looks like...

Jaan na pehchan, tu mera mehman

Or

Jagat Mata 😆

Originally posted by: Nomadic_Vibe

Sorry to butt in like this. To play devil's advocate. If two of my friends are fighting and I love them both and I know for sure that issue can be sorted out in a jiffy I would kind of push them but I agree this trial in general can be annoying.

Again if they need the help then interfer otherwise you can damage ur friendship too.. its really tough to make a decision cause sometimes our reflexes tell us help them... its tough to say when our interfers helps n when it doesnt...life unpredictable lol...😆

Originally posted by: ..KpopIsLife..

Again if they need the help then interfer otherwise you can damage ur friendship too.. its really tough to make a decision cause sometimes our reflexes tell us help them... its tough to say when our interfers helps n when it doesnt...life unpredictable lol...😆