Saas ke Bete ki taraf se red roses for Aai ki bahu - Page 6

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I think self-centered. At the moment it seems that way. It's very interesting you mentioned these two words. Very often people with deep rooted emotional issues become self centered. As part of their traits they also ignore many things that they should be bothered about. Now when you look at his character as bring self-centered, you'd be able to even see why he's swinging from one end to the other with his emotions about Sai.

One of the very important aspects of being in a relationship with a self-centered person is the they can make their partners feel really special and even seem like your protector but it is because the partner is making them feel good, pampering them, giving them the importance they want. If it doesn't go as per liking, they would snap. If you check the list of traits of a self centered spouse, you will find most of the qualities match with Virat at the moment: insecurity, defensiveness, unable to see the big picture, ignoring facts, troubled relationships of all kinds, imposing ideas, lack of sensitivity to the feelings when upset, checkout when cornered and shut down the connection and so on...

But the good thing is it is a repairable trait because it originates from the lack of love and belonging -- why have we been told he's never been in a relationship until yoga love happened. Again, it's like running in a circle ⭕ - he will get it from her only when he breaks the chain and removes the condition that he placed in between them.

I felt so too!

His self-centered nature makes it very difficult for Sai to understand what he wants. He needs to break this circle and come to a conclusion and verbally express it to Sai. I don't blame Sai for not reading between the lines when he behaves so weird when I was her age I did not understand non verbal sentiments either and I actually loved being told what the other person in front of me feels. His silence does more damage instead of helping the situation... Sai takes his lack of words as agreement to what she said.

Virat is ALWAYS on cloud nine whenever Sai does something special for him even if it is something as small as address him as her Pati. It probably soothes his ego and cements his haqq on her. I wonder how long will it take Virat to come out of his self-oriented stupor and fix the wrongs in their relationship.

Tuzha ha post vachun majhya manaat ek gambir prashna alay - Virat unintentionally Pakhi la latkavtoy kay!?

Agdi barobar. Jithe bolaychi garaj nasel thithech saheb swahthala prastut kartayet ani jithe prastut karayji garaj aste thithe fakt Baikone mhantlele shabdhanche ardhavat arth kadhun gapp rahtayet.. kase chalel he!

Importance of communication toh seekha hi Nahi hai. I don't know what is with his rolling eyes and turning his face everytime she talks something sensible in the best tone she has. I think he only hears her when she's shouting 😂 may be he's so attuned to her gussa Karna that she should only speak in gussa Karne wala language. Aaj toh he didn't have his baton in his hand Nahi toh ussi ke haath se lekar sar pe maarna Chahiye tha..

On second thought, I agree with you... I hope there is no continuation to that scene tomorrow because he might actually say something more stupid than what has already been done with his self-presentation to accompany dukhiyaari vahini on Stepney honeymoon...

Waise Kaku visarle ki kaay... Shaadi ke baad wali Khushi toh Susheel bahu ne khud hi reject ki thi much to Kaku's surprise when she displayed her susheelta over her parents gifting her the honeymoon package with the real husband. Devar ke Saath jaane ke liye toh Mallika-e-Maturity took barely one nod from the devar to want to book tickets.. 😣😑

Exactly!

His non verbal reaction is actually more annoying than anything else he does! Initially I felt he is ignoring her as if he ignores a petulant child's zidd. But it is clearly not ignorance, he either does not have an answer for her or he is not ready to answer her owing to his own confused state.

Kaku ka toh jitna bole utna kam. Kaku clearly knows that Pakhi ji is no susheelta ki moorat. Apne faide ka dekhti hai bass.

And god! That Shaadi ke baad wali khushi in same sentence with ghumna phirna with Virat is so 🤢

Aur IPS saheb kehte hai ki parivar wale traditional hai 👏

Originally posted by: jane_austen

You are officially convicted of the charge of making me hang on to the show a little longer (before dismissing it as a comedy) by logically explaining bizarre behaviour of the ML. 😆🤗.( Although at the moment I do wish Sai gives him a sharp whack across his face)

I had already started compiling a list of psychologists in Nagpur (for our 'machoor' ACP)🤣

Same. I wait for Janki’s analysis more than the episode. Unfortunately, I don’t feel the same abt the show or episodes anymore .. idk what changed but there’s too much going on and the male lead always annoys me. Ek teenager bhi mature hota hain when it comes to understanding women and behavior .. but Virat toh is like jaan kar anjaan

Originally posted by: AK_2010

Exactly!

His non verbal reaction is actually more annoying than anything else he does! Initially I felt he is ignoring her as if he ignores a petulant child's zidd. But it is clearly not ignorance, he either does not have an answer for her or he is not ready to answer her owing to his own confused state.

Kaku ka toh jitna bole utna kam. Kaku clearly knows that Pakhi ji is no susheelta ki moorat. Apne faide ka dekhti hai bass.

And god! That Shaadi ke baad wali khushi in same sentence with ghumna phirna with Virat is so 🤢

Aur IPS saheb kehte hai ki parivar wale traditional hai 👏

@Bold :- traditional toh hain hi, Kaku does not see anything wrong as she herself follows it. Her Devar does everything for her and does as she says. So whats wrong if Virat does as Vahini says.

Also remember, she only knows they are friends does not know the history so she does not think that way. Ab kon kiska fayda utha raha hain pata hain. And Pakhi is her choice and the other 2 are not and thats the only reason for being biased.

The day Pakhi goes against her or vice versa we would see the scenario. Par bohot time hain usmein.

lovely post Janki..as usual...bilkul pro ho aap writing and analysis mein...love it...

loved aaj ka episode...chikhna chillana nahi tha...aaj to C niwas mein bhi Omi-soni kaku V day mana rahe the 😂

Virat was so cute today....😂 Thodi GC wale Virat ki jhalak aaye aaj...Apna brain ACP ban kar hi use karna hai...beta/lover boy/pati/vada boy ban kar saara dimag kahin chod deta hai woh...

Let's c kal kya hota hai..'raat ki baat' mein...aur kal raat hoti bhi hai ki monday k hogi C niwas mein raat....😂

Jab dean ne kaha ki sai tum kitni lucky ho..aisa suljha hua and samajhdaar IPS ki wife ho....Dean ko hum darshakon se poochna chahiye tha ki kitna suljha hua hai....😂 😂

I sort of liked Sai ka Pakhi ko rose dena ka kahna...Subah ki Ladakh ghoomne phirne ki baat se..then Pulkit Sir se baat...aisa lagta hai he has given all hopes on this marriage...Jo bhi thodi use umeed thi...She just wants to get the confirmation..is liye uske liye she will try to push Virat and Pakhi towards each other so that she can also get her answer...Woh kisi ke plan ko kharab nahi karti....Iss liye jab use Virat se direct answer nahi mil raha hai to trying to get it in some other way...ghee seedhi ungli se na nikle to ungli tedhi karni padti hai 😂

Originally posted by: india-tv

..Dean ko hum darshakon se poochna chahiye tha ki kitna suljha hua hai....😂 😂

Sulja hua nahi, uljha hua pati mila hain, Dean ko kya maloom. I was laughing at that dialogue.

Originally posted by: sukri

Sulja hua nahi, uljha hua pati mila hain, Dean ko kya maloom. I was laughing at that dialogue.

Nahi dialogue sahi tha, sirf do sentence mix hogaye

Sujha hua ACP hai, par pati uljha hua hain (uljha kahan hain toh apne vaado mein).

Res

Will be back in sometime

Finally unres now 🙂

Test match, twitter kept me busy today so couldn't find time to even watch the episode !!!!!

And when I did watch, it disappointed me 😑

Skipped all the chakrams drama ..... Looks like Mohit is insulted again 🤦🤦🤦🤦

Yeh jail hai ya ghar yaar 😑😑😑😑

And then the moment sai barged into Dean room 🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷

All the excitement went down the drain!!!!!! Like seriously what she did do ???? And even ignored the Dean when he asked the same. Us shock se bahar aane mein hi mujhe vakt laga.

But what's with their nok jhok in the center of college 😂😂😂😂 matlab ye donom kahi bhi shuru hojate hai !!!!!

Chavan saheb was playing the game started by baiko with utmost sincerity 😂😂😂 kyu bhai kyu ???? Why is it that you find so much happiness in her acknowledgement ???? Hame bataye ya na bataye par is baar mein sochna zaroor

I am tired of your roz roz ke jilebis. The whole bashan about pyaar was also misleading 😑😑😑. Acp saheb please start using spasht shabd for God sake !!!!

And don't you dare call yourslef suljha hua insaan. You are a complete mess and also pushing others into dilemmas and delusions 🤷. The no of times you have repeated the word vaada and zimmedari during your shaadi is responsible for your state today. You pushed sai away with all your might then and now craving for her attention.

But when 28 yr old suljha hua ,mature , hazar baar sochne wala insaan himself is confused ..... Sai toh phir bhi teenager hai 🤷🤷🤷. Why do you keep expecting from her when you don't try to understand her feelings????

The whole honeymoon trip and now this roses !!!!! I agree you wouldn't want to mess with ghar ke bade or disrespect them but be spasht with your true love and deal wali wife. You are literally sailing on two boats now🤦🤦🤦.

Kahi aisa na ho ki kahi ka na reh jaaye !!!!!!

My heart breaks for sai💔. She is using all her strength to not get pulled towards patidev 😭. And with vahini constantly hovering around them had made her lose confidence I feel when it comes to their relation!!!!

She takes one step towards him only to get hit by reality pushing her five steps back !!!!!

I now really want a closure to this vaada saga. For once n for all close it 🙏.

Also why does vahini think that virat is compensating for giving roses to sai ????? Aisa lagta hai ki sai virat ki girlfriend and vahini virat ki biwi 🤷🤷🤷🤷.... Iske delusions khatam hone ka naam hi nahi le rahe 🤦🤦🤦

The past three to four episodes are executed very badly by makers ..... Only they must know what are their intentions 🤷🤷🤷🤷

Kal milungi phir hopefully better mood ke saat !!!!

Originally posted by: AK_2010

Tuzha ha post vachun majhya manaat ek gambir prashna alay - Virat unintentionally Pakhi la latkavtoy kay!?

Mala nahi vatat that it is unintentional-- it is kind of intentional. But sakal paryant wait karuya na. I want to see what does this gondhalela maanus tell his Vahini tomorrow 😆

Exactly!

His non verbal reaction is actually more annoying than anything else he does! Initially I felt he is ignoring her as if he ignores a petulant child's zidd. But it is clearly not ignorance, he either does not have an answer for her or he is not ready to answer her owing to his own confused state.

Kaku ka toh jitna bole utna kam. Kaku clearly knows that Pakhi ji is no susheelta ki moorat. Apne faide ka dekhti hai bass.

And god! That Shaadi ke baad wali khushi in same sentence with ghumna phirna with Virat is so 🤢

Aur IPS saheb kehte hai ki parivar wale traditional hai 👏

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Mala nahi vatat that it is unintentional-- it is kind of intentional. But sakal paryant wait karuya na. I want to see what does this gondhalela maanus tell his Vahini tomorrow

Maybe back of his mind, he knows she will leave if he closes the chapter completely. He wants her in CN for his family/until Samrat is back by hook or crook. He gets her to stay in CN using the only 🍭 he has.😆

He thinks once Samrat is back, he will take over and Pakhi can move on. Until then he has to keep her in limbo.

As of now I dont think she is his plan B in case things go bad with Sai. He has moved on.

But tomorrow if his family oust Sai and force him to marry Pakhi, based on his current behavior will he stay silent and do what they want to maintain peace and avoid conflict or will he protest loud and clear?

When will he draw the line or what will make him to take a stand?