Saas ke Bete ki taraf se red roses for Aai ki bahu - Page 4

It was a very blah episode. I fast forwarded the CM drama, to the college part. College mein Sai is storming in to deans office🙄 we all know shes impulsive but shes not stupid. She could have confronted virat in private. They made the scene light-hearted coz virat seemed very amused by Sai being in a spot where she had to justify how she knew him, why she lived with him, etc etc. Even though virat was good in that scene i didn't enjoy it much. And then virats ott drama. Taking the guy to the roof and using loudspeaker to ask him to jump?! Like seriously. ITV mein scene filler ke liye kuch bhi! 🙄 Then his pointless pravachan about pyaar. After saying he doesn't like to give gyaan🙈 his dialogues would have made Sai think that no matter what he will love pp only. So when she saw virat hesitate to give the flowers, her walls are up. I think that pp ko rose dene ka idea was from any malice/taunting. She wasnt taunting. sai genuinely thinks that because virat keeps on saying "dosti", bff etc and after his speech on pyaar, seeing pp's desperation to go on trip with virat alone etc she is simply trying to distance herself. Virat looked angry at the suggestion. I'm not sure why hes so angry! But next scene in precap shows that he took Sai's suggestion seriously. He also goes on to try to explain to pp how he was forced to give roses to Sai...why?! Couldn't he say something like tum Sai ke saath kyun compare kar rahi ho khud ko aur sai ko beech mein lane ki kya zarurat hai. He is telling his bff/ex love/current bhabhi that he is dil se giving everyone a rose but to Sai he gave it out of compulsion. And Sai has already seen his hesitancy to answer if virat would want to take her to ladakh. After all this, why should Sai let her guard down. Every caring gesture from virat is forced- by personal zimmedari/farz, aai telling him to do something, her friends asking him to do something....aise mein sai is bound to feel like a bojh, feel like every gesture is an ehsaan. Despite some scenes where Sai is made to look silly- like today in college (pointless theatrics🙄) and her sometimes terrible gaudy clothes , i still watch the show for Sai, for me as a viewer personally this is her story, shes the character i feel for, i look at it from her perspective and she also is the most fleshed out character of the show. I wonder if we get the raat ka scene too where virat tells Sai his feelings about taking Sai to ladakh ...itna soch vichaar karke kya nateeje pe pahunchege ips saab?! Ya bhul hi jaayenge?

Originally posted by: msin

I am thinking why is virat so reticent .. flowers hi diya .. Arey wife he uski maybe there’s a surprise in the room he got her a lovely night dress .. ( not lingerie ) because that would be assuming too much .. but says I see u wear salwar kurta to bed .. so I got u this .. (karisma wale types bhi chalega ..)

It will be a step forward in their relationship..he can get her his type of slippers which she wears .. Kuch to karey

That would be sweet to buy some decent suits vs. the tents and may be older clothes of kaku?

Lovely post 🤗

So much has been said, I just want to add one moment I noticed between Sai and Virat. Probably a moment when Sai was basking happily in the pride that she felt and he was thrilled that she appreciated him.

Everyone clapped for him, he turned to Sai. She was also clapping for him. They had an eyelock and Sai indicated with her eyes, there were other people..he broke the eyelock as if out of a trance and looked around! It was barely a few seconds. I loved it. The happiness with which she registered that he was staring for too long.

I can't wait for them to fall in love. Until then, hum seh lenge. Now with Ayesha injured, they might need to tweak scenes a bit..I hope we get more scenes in their room where she doesn't need to walk!

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

No, I don't think it's commitment phobia. It is conflict phobia. He doesn't want to get involved in any kind of emotional disagreement that would need his energy. He knows plain talk can be very stressful especially when done with people who lack the ability to see things with a calm mind. The melancholy that follows plain talk with delusional people is something men -- and yes, I generalise it --never want to indulge in. They would rather have a misconception remain than get into the conflict until it becomes untenable.

If he were commitment phobic he wouldn't have married Sai and desired the marriage as he's doing now. Yes, he developed phobia from yoga love when he realised about the machoority with which the phone number blocking happened.

Also he's rejection phobic and highly FOMO-ic as far as Sai is concerned

It seems incredible that a man misses pointed taunts from his wife about his ex - and doesn't get it. It is highly unrealistic. No matter how 'manly' man he is. Even a kid knows when his/her best friend is jealous of his/her other friend.

But today she really did not taunt. She said is so genuinely. It was such a good chance to talk to her, such a peaceful moment to clear a misconception but Saheb does a flared-nostril-clenched-jaw turn around and totally ignores the sentiment.

Joke of the day : Dean to Sai : Tum bahut lucky ho ki tumhe ACP saheb jaise samajhdaar aur suljhe huye pati mile hain...

There was one more joke cracked by ACP saheb himself. Sai also laughed: 'Mujhe gyaan dene ki aadat Nahi hai'

@bold That has logic in vahini's case. But being spasht with Sai (about his now defunct vaada) will actually reduce his conflict with Sai. So shouldn't this conflict-phobic man want to come clean with her? What's stopping him? He does know about Sai's dislike for their 'machoor' friendship.

BTW, while we forum wasis are trying so hard to make sense of Virat's behaviour, could it just be a case of 'logic-phobia' of CVs?😆

"FOMO-ic" You cracked me up 😆

And which ACP delivers a sonnet on "what is love" to college students?

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

He might break her brahm that he takes her suggestions seriously by telling her that he brought roses for everyone because Sai told him to 🤣 just kidding. His gyaan wali speech is ready and rehearsed so he might say that same to same by removing Pati Patni part and adding mature best friends instead 🤠

Oh yes, copy paste karni hain gyaan waali speech Pati Patni bhil bol sakta hain (imaginary).

Ek jawab aayega Chavan sir se, tum meri dost ho Pakhi sab se achchi dost and maine tumhara humesha bhala hi chaha hain. (Koi inovation le lau bhai dailogue mein).

Na idhar aage badhte hain na udhar. Kahin toh kadam badalo.

Brahm kya hain fact hain - Virat Sir sab ki baat maan te hain. Kabhi Kabhi khud ki bhi sun lo. Self introspection suna hain kabhi. 🤪

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Lovely post 🤗

So much has been said, I just want to add one moment I noticed between Sai and Virat. Probably a moment when Sai was basking happily in the pride that she felt and he was thrilled that she appreciated him.

Everyone clapped for him, he turned to Sai. She was also clapping for him. They had an eyelock and Sai indicated with her eyes, there were other people..he broke the eyelock as if out of a trance and looked around! It was barely a few seconds. I loved it. The happiness with which she registered that he was staring for too long.

I can't wait for them to fall in love. Until then, hum seh lenge. Now with Ayesha injured, they might need to tweak scenes a bit..I hope we get more scenes in their room where she doesn't need to walk!

Ab ye moment dekhne ke liye episode dekhna padega 😭

Originally posted by: jane_austen

@bold That has logic in vahini's case. But being spasht with Sai (about his now defunct vaada) will actually reduce conflict with Sai. So shouldn't this conflict-phobic man want to come clean with her? What's stopping him? He does know about Sai's dislike for their 'machoor' friendship.

Rejection phobic as I said. He saw Sai's hesitation first today before dismissing the rose bouquet and then she caught on to his hesitation not knowing it was coming from her visible reluctance and she assumed it was pyaar for Vahini

"FOMO-ic" You cracked me up 😆

Originally posted by: Roch

Oh yes, copy paste karni hain gyaan waali speech Pati Patni bhil bol sakta hain (imaginary).

Ek jawab aayega Chavan sir se, tum meri dost ho Pakhi sab se achchi dost and maine tumhara humesha bhala hi chaha hain. (Koi inovation le lau bhai dailogue mein).

Na idhar aage badhte hain na udhar. Kahin toh kadam badalo.

Brahm kya hain fact hain - Virat Sir sab ki baat maan te hain. Kabhi Kabhi khud ki bhi sun lo. Self introspection suna hain kabhi. 🤪

Oh yes he will most likely say main Nahi bhoola hoon ki tum meri best friend ho 😆

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

He wants to explain out of his habit to five explanations to 'kyun Virat Kyun' questions -- waise he never gives these explanations to Sai. Diye hote toh kab ke spashtha se shuddh ho Gaye hote but no... So anyway, explanation dena hai toh de , I don't care because I have enough chappals in stock. I want two things

1. He should exorcise his vaada bhoot which he 'bhool gaya' ya he should pretend like he really doesn't remember what he bhool Gaya so vahni can become teary eyed.

2. He better and I mean BETTER ask how she learnt about the flower bouquet and why is she bothered about the bouquet. But will he?

Nahi Sai ko bhi deta hain, but jalebi wale. Ya kabhi kabhi over explanation de deta hain bina mange like during their marriage. I like those episodes and can re-watch them but phir do words sunn ke indigestion ho jata hain. Guess karlo woh do words.

1. Vaada Bhoot - I doubt ye utrega as she will always be the third wheel. So he is going to give some Churan to her tomorrow.

2. Dont think he would ask, utna uska dimag decipher kahan karta hain. Pooch liye to great.

He can atleast say this to her right, "Diya bhi toh kya farak padta hain"

Sai ko bolte waqt toh bol diya tha "Karta bhi hoon toh tumhe kya farak padta hain".

Sometimes i think woh aadmi aur ye aadmi same hain kya??? ya split personality hain

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

@bold That has logic in vahini's case. But being spasht with Sai (about his now defunct vaada) will actually reduce conflict with Sai. So shouldn't this conflict-phobic man want to come clean with her? What's stopping him? He does know about Sai's dislike for their 'machoor' friendship.

Rejection phobic as I said. He saw Sai's hesitation first today before dismissing the rose bouquet and then she caught on to his hesitation not knowing it was coming from her visible reluctance and she assumed it was pyaar for Vahini

You are officially convicted of the charge of making me hang on to the show a little longer (before dismissing it as a comedy) by logically explaining bizarre behaviour of the ML. 😆🤗.( Although at the moment I do wish Sai gives him a sharp whack across his face)

I had already started compiling a list of psychologists in Nagpur (for our 'machoor' ACP)🤣