Pati Patni ke rishtey ki gullakh - Page 8

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I don't think Sai hasn't registered Virat's handsomeness. Much like Pakhi Didi's reminders to Virat, Sai has seen women fawning over him from the very beginning.

I think there are too many mental blocks and safety mechanisms that have stopped her from actually allowing those things to ferment. It's like her breakage of eye-locks.

But now that she's given him the flirting Ka license, and he will also go to her college. She might experience him differently.

Virat, of course, has already felt those pulls because he's dissonance between what he truly wants and what he does. Bechara is so insecure. Should dress up in some black tux.

Interestingly, in the seven months of marriage they have never seen each other in any form of undress? Not even sexually but in the normal whims of daily life?

Originally posted by: Bluegrass

I don't think Sai hasn't registered Virat's handsomeness. Much like Pakhi Didi's reminders to Virat, Sai has seen women fawning over him from the very beginning.

Haan true, I'm not saying she doesn't know he's handsome but she's not yet shown visible signs of watching him because he is handsome. Even in the reception scene, she was conscious that he was watching her and she's been conscious of his gaze. But the first time she actually fixed her gaze on him was when he was checking her temperature and it was more of intently watching his face to see and acknowledge his care along with her confusion at how he's swinging from screaming his lungs out at her to fussing over her fever and not allowing a medical student to take her own temperature 😜

She's yet to 'check him out' for his looks ...

I think there are too many mental blocks and safety mechanisms that have stopped her from actually allowing those things to ferment. It's like her breakage of eye-locks.

Yes. She's been very cautious about those mental blocks... But apart from the first hand around her shoulder during that forced post wedding photo shoot, she has been comfortable with him touching her in gentle ways..

Her mechanism to break the eye locks has always been a big give away, which even he knows because he doesn't relent.

But now that she's given him the flirting Ka license, and he will also go to her college. She might experience him differently.

I agree too, now if her batch mates are to repeat the 'kitna handsome hai' she might take it differently. 😆 it might be fun to see him stopover at her Freshers party dressed in a cool jacket look 😆

Virat, of course, has already felt those pulls because he's dissonance between what he truly wants and what he does. Bechara is so insecure. Should dress up in some black tux.

🤣🤣 black tux in Chavan niwas?

Interestingly, in the seven months of marriage they have never seen each other in any form of undress? Not even sexually but in the normal whims of daily life?

We only know he saw and noted her nahakar Baal geele Kar ke ghooma Karti ho... Usse jyada ummeed mat rakhna 😆 hamari aankhon ke liye Nahi hai 😉

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Nice Janki, I am Padma here...BlueJayFire is my son's music band name..loved it..so..took it for the username..

You are absolutely correct, the physical attraction is more for Virat because he is mature and for Sai, the care and concern he has for her. But yes, but are such hot headed people to acknowledge anything for fear of rejection. both are very vocal about it, you would love for Pakhi to get you food, I think somewhere she is into it, I am temporarily here, then someone has to take care of you. Better not get attached to things. We have been in that mode too in life. Challenge being he doesn't correct her..Fun journey ahead. Out of all the chickan work nighties, I loved the grey suit the most..

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Lovely write up as always. Also sensed the slight disappointment with Virat. Well, not disappointment but ' tum to aise na the'.

Sai is my fav and I will always defend her. But today I really felt bad for Virat. He is clearly attracted towards Sai, and it's not just physical though, that is also becoming obvious, the way he looks at her. Makers very smartly get these nuances in, even within the midst of headache inducing drama, and that's actually what pulls me towards the show.

His reactions were hilarious, and he didn't want to sound angry, he was trying hard not to fight but his jealousy got the better of him.

What can be expected from a boy who has grown up in such a toxic environment? Ashwini has taught him his basic values, but as we keep hearing in articles on child rearing, " Children will not follow what you say, they will follow what you do," or " The best thing you can do for a boy is show him you love his mother". I have boys and I found this quote so relevant.

he has watched his mother do her duty as he thought it it should be done. So he has these expectations from his wife. Or does he?

For he is also such a forthright, compassionate person at work. I still remember his intro at GC, with the auto driver.

There's a conflict definitely between the person he is and the person he wants to be. Besides that of course, the obvious conflict - pull towards Sai and the frustration of being caught up in his own promises and deals.

I kept wondering how does he expect Sai to respond to him as a wife when he does not keep that respect in mind when interacting with pakhi. Today too, when she sadly mentioned the room, it is true, she will naturally feel that way. She had to leave the room because of his friend and he did not say a word plus, PP remained in the room, and fed him, according to Sai.

But why does'nt he get it?

Today I concluded, he will never get it. He desperately wants Sai to show some inclination towards him. For what though? Just to get an ego boost and he can continue to behave with her as per his whims. (Interestingly, in this mix, is the fact that Sai will never compromise on her self respect). All these fights will make sense only if he introspects a bit.

Sai needs to introspect too. She did provoke him, I felt, but more out of familiarity with him, rather than a personal attack.

Maybe the alta pooja she does for him will truly touch him, and make him feel important?? Because in his mind, in the patriarchal set up at home, that's what he sees as affectionate. But what about him? When will he begin to give Sai the respect of a wife? or sub consciously, he will follow his ideal, his father. I want Ashwini to din some sense into him desperately. She can do it, if she's firm enough.

All these serious questions apart, I enjoyed the episode. Typically cutesy Sairat. God knows when we will get another one?!

Beautiful 👏

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

Nice Janki, I am Padma here...BlueJayFire is my son's music band name..loved it..so..took it for the username..

You are absolutely correct, the physical attraction is more for Virat because he is mature and for Sai, the care and concern he has for her. But yes, but are such hot headed people to acknowledge anything for fear of rejection. both are very vocal about it, you would love for Pakhi to get you food, I think somewhere she is into it, I am temporarily here, then someone has to take care of you. Better not get attached to things. We have been in that mode too in life. Challenge being he doesn't correct her..Fun journey ahead. Out of all the chickan work nighties, I loved the grey suit the most..

I loved the grey suit too! She looks beautiful in it

Originally posted by: Bluegrass

I don't think Sai hasn't registered Virat's handsomeness. Much like Pakhi Didi's reminders to Virat, Sai has seen women fawning over him from the very beginning.

I think there are too many mental blocks and safety mechanisms that have stopped her from actually allowing those things to ferment. It's like her breakage of eye-locks.

But now that she's given him the flirting Ka license, and he will also go to her college. She might experience him differently.

Virat, of course, has already felt those pulls because he's dissonance between what he truly wants and what he does. Bechara is so insecure. Should dress up in some black tux.

Interestingly, in the seven months of marriage they have never seen each other in any form of undress? Not even sexually but in the normal whims of daily life?

I was just thinking abt this.. she did “notice” him when her friends were checking him out but never really paid attention or took time to notice him or check him out. I’m surprised they havnt shown those light room moments..

sai also doesn’t show what she feels or thinks so even if she does find him attractive, she will hide that to avoid rejection

I think the makers can show her pulled towards him in terms of being attracted but also show how she puts up a wall if she does and that will be fun to watch

Originally posted by: Bluegrass

I don't think Sai hasn't registered Virat's handsomeness. Much like Pakhi Didi's reminders to Virat, Sai has seen women fawning over him from the very beginning.

I think there are too many mental blocks and safety mechanisms that have stopped her from actually allowing those things to ferment. It's like her breakage of eye-locks.

But now that she's given him the flirting Ka license, and he will also go to her college. She might experience him differently.

Virat, of course, has already felt those pulls because he's dissonance between what he truly wants and what he does. Bechara is so insecure. Should dress up in some black tux.

Somehow I always got the feeling that Sai has registered Virat's attractiveness..right from GC. Her constantly teasing him (in GC) and her interest in Pakhi just from Virat's phone conversations (with Sunny or Pakhi) seems to be an expression of that attraction. But that is as far as someone like Sai would go - the importance of someone in her life is decided by their goodness towards her, not by their outer appearance.

In their first night after marriage ( chipkali, hug, hair behind her ear) , when he asks her what happened, she takes a few moments to answer ... as if left breathless by his sudden touch. But her affection is not dictated by it.

In the other fall-and-catch (suitcase) too, she seems to experience a fleeting awareness of the power of his touch.

Yesterday's episode I felt there was a difference in her response to the catch-and-fall. Her eyes were wide-eyed throughout and she seemed even more aware of their proximity, and it was Virat who broke the 'hug'. Compare to the suitcase 'hug' where she almost immediately broke the 'hug'. The recent development seems to be coming from her growing emotional attachment towards him. But she has put too many barriers to acknowledge it.

Originally posted by: jane_austen

Somehow I always got the feeling that Sai has registered Virat's attractiveness..right from GC. Her constantly teasing him (in GC) and her interest in Pakhi just from Virat's phone conversations (with Sunny or Pakhi) seems to be an expression of that attraction. But that is as far as someone like Sai would go - the importance of someone in her life is decided by their goodness towards her, not by their outer appearance.

In their first night after marriage ( chipkali, hug, hair behind her ear) , when he asks her what happened, she takes a few moments to answer ... as if left breathless by his sudden touch. But her affection is not dictated by it.

In the other fall-and-catch (suitcase) too, she seems to experience a fleeting awareness of the power of his touch.

Yesterday's episode I felt there was a difference in her response to the catch-and-fall. Her eyes were wide-eyed throughout and she seemed even more aware of their proximity, and it was Virat who broke the 'hug'. Compare to the suitcase 'hug' where she almost immediately broke the 'hug'. The recent development seems to be coming from her growing emotional attachment towards him. But she has put too many barriers to acknowledge it.

You bring up a great point. Another scene when he was blowing hawa 😆 on her wounds via his breath .. she didn’t get her eyes off of him and they shared a moment

I have often wondered about Sai's attraction towards Virat. She doesn't indicate any interest. But couple of times, in the riverside date, she did blush..when he kept looking at her.

Unlike Pakhi, who immediately registers his physical good looks.

Poor thing, at this point, she thinks he can never like her for anything.

Yesterday the way the camera moved when she danced, it was through his gaze which was moving all over😆

Originally posted by: Bluegrass

Interestingly, in the seven months of marriage they have never seen each other in any form of undress? Not even sexually but in the normal whims of daily life?

Exactly, yaar I'm missing something like that 😂😂

Itne din ho gye hume bhi toh dikhao sai ke geele baal🤩

Inhone dikhaya bhi toh Serpokhi ke geele baal🤢