First love can't be forgotten?? - Page 2

It depends on what you call as 'love'.... Sometimes we just assume infatuation /attraction as love..... In that case its easy to move on... But if its true love which was nurtured with time then it becomes difficult to move on... Some people takes years to move on... However virat and pakhi never had any love between them... Its just an attraction... Else they would've fought the world to be together... How easily virat choose his family over his so called love is enough to realize that he never loved her.... He choose the people who meant something for him over 2 days infatuation.... That should have been enough reason for pakhi to move on... But she got obsessed with him only because she can't have him.... If they got married at that time, they would have later realized that they never loved each other.

Of course first love can be forgotten. People fall in and out of love all the time. It's just tv and movies that dramatise and exaggerate the importance of first love. In virat-pakhi case, mereko virat ki taraf se mistaken infatuation, and pakhi ke taraf se obsession/ lust hi dikhti hai 😆

Originally posted by: Radiant_Eyes_

That’s not love but ego

Even now I don’t feel an ounce of sympathy for this girl

She doesn’t really love him - she’s more concerned about Virat liking someone else

Here - Pakhi does not need to ‘move on’ but needs a reality check - about how pathetic she has become

Sai - Virat will manage their lives - she needs to concentrate on Samrat

Idk how Chavans find her ideal 🤪

Pati ki Zara bhi fikar nhi isse

Tbh - Pakhi and Virat did not share any love - so ‘moving on’ is not that hard

They need to come out of vaadas - stop disrespecting concept of marriage and acknowledge their current relationship status - their actual feelings like mature ppl and try to find what’s best for all 4 of them

@Bold- Why would the family say that usse apni pati ki zara bhi fikkar nahi hai, jab iss khandaan ko hi fikar nahi hai apne MIA bete ki. 🤢

Originally posted by: Radiant_Eyes_

It’s not about if one can it’s about if one wants to move on

It’s takes either someone new or time to move on - sometimes both

But ppl can definitely move on

Pakhi wants ideal man - if she actually pays any sort of attention to Samrat - she’ll get her guy

Virat wanted an ideal matriarch/ bahu - if he sees past sai’s childlike behaviour- recognises her selfless behaviour towards his family- he’ll get his girl

coming to Pakhi she got to know Virat for two days only he never proposed to her still she moved on but as she had Virat in front of her eyes she herself wanted to live those feelings with him again...while she could have moved on easily as nothing happened between her and virat.

then calling Virat her best friend would have sounded great.

Ladies, I always like to answer everyone who answers on the topic I opened....

Originally posted by: prs_725

w We all sometimes fall "in love" only to later realize it wasn't love but attraction or infatuation. Pakhi and Virat are like that...an obsession. First love to Virat-Sai hain.

You are right sometimes after years it is judged as infatuation by the same respective two people....

Hope Virat really understands his heart what's calling for because we have no hope with Makhi.

What first love ? These guys knew each other for a minute and fell into some deep love that’s janam janam ka rishta 😂

pakhi Viraat love story is weaker than Trumps claims the election was stolen from him

Originally posted by: Radiant_Eyes_

That’s not love but ego

Even now I don’t feel an ounce of sympathy for this girl

I also don't feel anything for her she's turning bitter because she can't get Virat though she proposed to him directly.

She doesn’t really love him - she’s more concerned about Virat liking someone else

You are so right as if she's in a competition with him...

Here - Pakhi does not need to ‘move on’ but needs a reality check - about how pathetic she has become

Still, if she starts thinking about SAMRAT she noticed his kindness I think.

Sai - Virat will manage their lives - she needs to concentrate on Samrat

Idk how Chavans find her ideal 🤪

Pati ki Zara bhi fikar nhi isse

Tbh - Pakhi and Virat did not share any love - so ‘moving on’ is not that hard

They need to come out of vaadas - stop disrespecting concept of marriage and acknowledge their current relationship status - their actual feelings like mature ppl and try to find what’s best for all 4 of them

If ever Virat tells her he's taking back his promise.....

Originally posted by: VioletOrchid123

It depends on what you call as 'love'.... Sometimes we just assume infatuation /attraction as love..... In that case its easy to move on... But if its true love which was nurtured with time then it becomes difficult to move on... Some people takes years to move on... However virat and pakhi never had any love between them... Its just an attraction... Else they would've fought the world to be together... How easily virat choose his family over his so called love is enough to realize that he never loved her.... He choose the people who meant something for him over 2 days infatuation.... That should have been enough reason for pakhi to move on... But she got obsessed with him only because she can't have him.... If they got married at that time, they would have later realized that they never loved each other.

+1

Here in Virat and Pakhi case it's completely infactuation . Otherwise why Pakhi even got ready to move forward in life with other person.. if you really love someone then you try / do whatever possible way to be with your love ..here Virat just sided with his family .if he was in true love then at least he should have tried to do something but he gave up it very easily .even he didn't oppose much to marry with Sayi ( He never promised Kamal sir to marry Sayi) if he was thinking too much about family then he would never marry Sayi which he did in Pakhi case ( I'm not Saying that he loves Sayi )

Originally posted by: tinafans

In real life it's hard but not impossible.If you get the right man at the right time,you will seriously fall in love and it's not always a right man . 👏👏👏VERY WELL SAID...

Sometimes a wrong person can teach you better lessons.

In my point of view to forget first love you need to move on firstly with yourself rather than depending on someone else.