First love can't be forgotten??

Let's talk about first love, it can be forgotten??

A supposed couple can stay like friends?

Is it harmful, a big problem if they ever get married to different people???

One needs to drag it for the whole life??

This concerns Virat and Pakhi from their point of view it is like that....

It’s not about if one can it’s about if one wants to move on

It’s takes either someone new or time to move on - sometimes both

But ppl can definitely move on

Pakhi wants ideal man - if she actually pays any sort of attention to Samrat - she’ll get her guy

Virat wanted an ideal matriarch/ bahu - if he sees past sai’s childlike behaviour- recognises her selfless behaviour towards his family- he’ll get his girl

Originally posted by: Radiant_Eyes_

It’s not about if one can it’s about if one wants to move on

It’s takes either someone new or time to move on - sometimes both

But ppl can definitely move on

w We all sometimes fall "in love" only to later realize it wasn't love but attraction or infatuation. Pakhi and Virat are like that...an obsession. First love to Virat-Sai hain.

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Pakhi did move on well when she decided get married she never thought to meet Virat again, so she would have been happy with her new partner but the fact is she's not able to forget .

That’s not love but ego

Even now I don’t feel an ounce of sympathy for this girl

She doesn’t really love him - she’s more concerned about Virat liking someone else

Here - Pakhi does not need to ‘move on’ but needs a reality check - about how pathetic she has become

Sai - Virat will manage their lives - she needs to concentrate on Samrat

Idk how Chavans find her ideal 🤪

Pati ki Zara bhi fikar nhi isse

Tbh - Pakhi and Virat did not share any love - so ‘moving on’ is not that hard

They need to come out of vaadas - stop disrespecting concept of marriage and acknowledge their current relationship status - their actual feelings like mature ppl and try to find what’s best for all 4 of them

In real life it's hard but not impossible.If you get the right man at the right time,you will seriously fall in love and it's not always a right man .

Sometimes a wrong person can teach you better lessons.

In my point of view to forget first love you need to move on firstly with yourself rather than depending on someone else.

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Pakhi did move on well when she decided get married she never thought to meet Virat again, so she would have been happy with her new partner but the fact is she's not able to forget .

Thing is she brought it on herself.

The first step to actually forget is acceptance that that person is not in your life, the second step would be to maintain distance. She is unable to do both because of her own decisions. Had she not married Samrat, she would have been hurt when she'd know that Virat has married another, but atleast she wouldn't see them in front of her, she wouldn't see Virat do the things he couldn't even muster the courage to do when it was about her- to take a stand for her, when in contrast, for Sai, it comes to him naturally.

Even when you remove the fact from the picture that Samrat and Virat were brothers, her decision to marry another is wrong. You never marry someone if you are still attached to someone else emotionally. At the very least, you could tell the guy your situation and then decide if you can move on with him. That is where she went wrong for me.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Thing is she brought it on herself.

The first step to actually forget is acceptance that that person is not in your life, the second step would be to maintain distance. She is unable to do both because of her own decisions. Had she not married Samrat, she would have been hurt when she'd know that Virat has married another, but atleast she wouldn't see them in front of her, she wouldn't see Virat do the things he couldn't even muster the courage to do when it was about her- to take a stand for her, when in contrast, for Sai, it comes to him naturally.

Even when you remove the fact from the picture that Samrat and Virat were brothers, her decision to marry another is wrong. You never marry someone if you are still attached to someone else emotionally. At the very least, you could tell the guy your situation and then decide if you can move on with him. That is where she went wrong for me.

I agree completely. Even her parents in the beginning said we have got you everything you have ever asked for. So to me, it seems like she's always gotten what she wanted and w no Virat, she cant digest that. So at this point, it's obsession. Pata nahi how this kind of mad obsession happens in people but they have made several movies about it too.

Originally posted by: prs_725

I agree completely. Even her parents in the beginning said we have got you everything you have ever asked for. So to me, it seems like she's always gotten what she wanted and w no Virat, she cant digest that. So at this point, it's obsession. Pata nahi how this kind of mad obsession happens in people but they have made several movies about it too.

For Pakhi, Virat was a desired toy which she didn't obtain. Now that he is quasi-unattainable, he is the challenge, that mountain that she wants to conquer.

It really happens in real life. Ive seen people get r*pe threats in the name of love😳

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

For Pakhi, Virat was a desired toy which she didn't obtain. Now that he is quasi-unattainable, he is the challenge, that mountain that she wants to conquer.

It really happens in real life. Ive seen people get r*pe threats in the name of love😳

Yikes, that is so sad. It's like what Jagtap did w Sai.