Virat! Please Stop - Page 2

Originally posted by: by_stander

He could ask his mom. Pakhi herself just got married and needs to learn her duties as the bari bahu. I haven't watched the episode yet, but he could have asked his MOTHER! Literally, his mother went thru the same thing Sai is going thru, she would be the best mentor for her. Kamal sir didn't ask a havalder to mentor him, then why is he asking pakhi?

Yes Pakhi is also new but she has the acceptance of Bhavani, Ninad and others in the house. Regarding Ashwini, Karishma taunts Virat doesn't know about these yet. May be he thought Pakhi being the badi bhabhi 🤣will be the right person moreover he has a great trust on her. Poor guy doesn't know what mess she will create using this request.

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Ashwini is his mother but Bhavani, Ninad etc. are always against her. Here Pakhi has the privilege of being in the good books of Bhavani & her devar guys.

Originally posted by: Chattering-Lory

Yes Pakhi is also new but she has the acceptance of Bhavani, Ninad and others in the house. Regarding Ashwini, Karishma taunts Virat doesn't know about these yet. May be he thought Pakhi being the badi bhabhi 🤣will be the right person moreover he has a great trust on her. Poor guy doesn't know what mess she will create using this request.

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Ashwini is his mother but Bhavani, Ninad etc. are always against her.

I know you are saying it from Virat's POV, but I feel like the first thing he needs to do is go for counselling and drag the entire Chavan circus freaks with him. 😂

Exactly, he could have asked his mom. She wholeheartedly accepted Sai.

Pakhi was so insecure on Virat relationship with Sai from Day 1.

She asked Virat many times, is there anything between Virat and sai.

Now, He expects Pakhi to be mentor

Originally posted by: by_stander

He could ask his mom. Pakhi herself just got married and needs to learn her duties as the bari bahu. I haven't watched the episode yet, but he could have asked his MOTHER! Literally, his mother went thru the same thing Sai is going thru, she would be the best mentor for her. Kamal sir didn't ask a havalder to mentor him, then why is he asking pakhi?

.who better to guide than own mother

Who are the important people in the family?? Whose approval matters in the household?? Who all are the decision makers at Chavan House ?? The matriarch and her two faithful hench knights !

And all these 3 people approves of Patralekha. In fact when Pakhi spoke out in Sai's favor , she didn't get scolded like Ashwini got from Ninad.

And Viraat observed all that. He's sharp and keen and observant. He immediately assessed the situation and understood that Pakhi has the blessings of the elders that matters.

This observation power and sharp mindedness are what make him an excellent police officer.

So asking Pakhi to take Sai under her wings is the smartest chess move and a favor to Sai , if Pakhi agrees.

What is the point of asking Aswini, who herself completely failed to win over even her own husband in all these years and who doesn't have a good stake in the household??

Plus , by doing so he hopes to pacify Pakhi and also provide a listening ear of similar age but mentor type for Sai. He's not thinking as Sai's husband nor he should. He doesn't consider her his wife let's not forget that. He's thinking as Sai's well wisher. He wants to make life easier for her at the house and that won't happen until and unless she wins over the trio, and Pakhi is the best candidate to help her there .

Wo baat alag hai , it was very insensitive to ask your ex lover to mentor your wife. He didn't even think how much he hurt Pakhi by such a suggestion. I want Sai to point this out and give him a bit of her mind for hurting Pakhi once again.

Originally posted by: wonderwomen143

Exactly, he could have asked his mom. She wholeheartedly accepted Sai.

Pakhi was so insecure on Virat relationship with Sai from Day 1.

She asked Virat many times, is there anything between Virat and sai.

Now, He expects Pakhi to be mentor

His mom doesn't have the privilege of being in the good books of Bhavani & Devar gang unlike Pakhi who's Bhavani's choice as well as bahu of her own standards 😆

Originally posted by: Chattering-Lory

His mom doesn't have the privilege of being in the good books of Bhavani & Devar gang unlike Pakhi who's Bhavani's choice as well as bahu of her own standards 😆

This. Only time Bhabani took a break from thrashing and lashing Sai and Usha moushi verbally was when Pakhi spoke in favor of them . Who cares about what Ashwini says or approves. Her own husband threatens to throw her out of the house at the drop of a hat after all these years of marriage . Literally the worst possible candidate to help Sai out in winning over the household.

Good that though many people seem to forget all of that , Viraat didn't! 😆

Didn't Kamal always teach him emotions and skills are two different things ??

Originally posted by: MusicMuse

Who are the important people in the family?? Whose approval matters in the household?? Who all are the decision makers at Chavan House ?? The matriarch and her two faithful hench knights !

And all these 3 people approves of Patralekha. In fact when Pakhi spoke out in Sai's favor , she didn't get scolded like Ashwini got from Ninad.

And Viraat observed all that. He's sharp and keen and observant. He immediately assessed the situation and understood that Pakhi has the blessings of the elders that matters.

This observation power and sharp mindedness are what make him an excellent police officer.

So asking Pakhi to take Sai under her wings is the smartest chess move and a favor to Sai , if Pakhi agrees.

What is the point of asking Aswini, who herself completely failed to win over even her own husband in all these years and who doesn't have a good stake in the household??

Plus , by doing so he hopes to pacify Pakhi and also provide a listening ear of similar age but mentor type for Sai. He's not thinking as Sai's husband nor he should. He doesn't consider her his wife let's not forget that. He's thinking as Sai's well wisher. He wants to make life easier for her at the house and that won't happen until and unless she wins over the trio, and Pakhi is the best candidate to help her there .

Wo baat alag hai , it was very insensitive to ask your ex lover to mentor your wife. He didn't even think how much he hurt Pakhi by such a suggestion. I want Sai to point this out and give him a bit of her mind for hurting Pakhi once again.

Exactly this is what I was trying to say. Approval of the Vahini and her devars is must to survive in the house. Moreover Sai won't have time to take all this shit while studying so Virat was just trying to sort out things beforehand. But little he knows about the consequences of making such a request to Pakhi.

I understand that he was making a smart move because Pakhi is sort of in the good books of Bhavani, but it comes across a bit insulting for Sai. Especially the way he was saying, that Sai will learn about “kisse kya bat karni hai kya nahi.” I don’t think Sai has or will even say anything wrong to anyone, and she is definitely smart enough to stand up for herself. It’s just that everything is new right now and she knew the reaction was on the way so she is taking it in for now. I really hope we don’t actually get to see Pakhi becoming mentor because that will really mess up the way I want Sai’s characterization to happen. I don’t want her to depend on anyone any further! Poor girl has had enough of the crazies chauvans!

But, Pakhi can request Bhavani for Sai nothing much.

She can never go again Bhavani for Sai.

Ashwini can go against Bhavani and Ninad for Sai .