Indians in America are ‘backward': Sunny Leone - Page 5

Originally posted by: angrybread

This is wrong generalization which majority of sitting in india have about western culture , i used to think same way , all high and mighty about our family values , before i came to UK.

I have moved to so many places and most of the times our old English neighbours always have their children and grand children visiting them /taking them for shopping /lunch/dinner/family holidays etc on set days of the week ( if local ) or set days of the month ( if not local) . Weekends here are mostly family/friends/chill out time . Their cemeteries are always full of fresh flowers all the time even though graves have been so so old, i have not seen many people do that in India ( the ones who bury their dead) .

Living separately and spending good time with them every now and then is better than living with them ( due to cultural reasons ) but neglecting them and cribbing about them all the time ....which is the case with many indian/pakistani friends here and also relatives back in india too .

the desi grandparents are also treated like free babysitters in many cases.. in their old age they should be enjoying life, hanging with their friends etc..

Originally posted by: Doodh_Ki_Dhuli

the desi grandparents are also treated like free babysitters in many cases.. in their old age they should be enjoying life, hanging with their friends etc..

Not all parents turn out to be good babysitter either. So, there's this couple at my office, who initially didn't take any nanny help for her kid as she lived in a joint family with in laws, but then she started to go for work after her maternity leave ended and her in laws used to let her baby starve for hours on end. It's not like they were bad grandparents, but they couldn't deal with much fuss and took the easy way out, which unfortunately affected the health of the baby.

At all people coming at me, the indians or foreigners who are money minded DONT have good values. It is essential for indians settled in abroad to inculcate good habits in their kids. That is why they are extra protective when they see the american culture. Which is way more capitalist than indians are. That is what I meant.

I did not mean that Indians never kill each other for money or lay flowers on kabrstan everyday. Some do some dont. And fyi Our beloved ones are in our heart not in a place where bones lie. Oh god.

WHEN YOU GO ABROAD YOU automatically ARE PROTECTIVE ABOUT YOUR CULTURE.

It is a NORMAL psychological THING. It takes TIME to change.

Writing something sensible on this forum means you will be attacked by people like killjoyReporter without understanding the meaning.

Time to quit this forum for good.

This does not just apply to Indian immigrants though, most immigrants are like this. I see where she is coming from, but there is nothing wrong in people wanting to preserve their cultural values as long as it does not harm other people.

It is not right to moral police others though, which I suspect she is a victim of.

Originally posted by: Billi_Bangalan

At all people coming at me, the indians or foreigners who are money minded DONT have good values. It is essential for indians settled in abroad to inculcate good habits in their kids. That is why they are extra protective when they see the american culture. Which is way more capitalist than indians are. That is what I meant.

I did not mean that Indians never kill each other for money or lay flowers on kabrstan everyday. Some do some dont. And fyi Our beloved ones are in our heart not in a place where bones lie. Oh god.

WHEN YOU GO ABROAD YOU automatically ARE PROTECTIVE ABOUT YOUR CULTURE.

It is a NORMAL psychological THING. It takes TIME to change.

Writing something sensible on this forum means you will be attacked by people like killjoyReporter without understanding the meaning.

Time to quit this forum for good.

Hey, please don't take any of this stuff to heart.

Here's a hug 🤗

Originally posted by: Billi_Bangalan

At all people coming at me, the indians or foreigners who are money minded DONT have good values. It is essential for indians settled in abroad to inculcate good habits in their kids. That is why they are extra protective when they see the american culture. Which is way more capitalist than indians are. That is what I meant.

I did not mean that Indians never kill each other for money or lay flowers on kabrstan everyday. Some do some dont. And fyi Our beloved ones are in our heart not in a place where bones lie. Oh god.

WHEN YOU GO ABROAD YOU automatically ARE PROTECTIVE ABOUT YOUR CULTURE.

It is a NORMAL psychological THING. It takes TIME to change.

Writing something sensible on this forum means you will be attacked by people like killjoyReporter without understanding the meaning.

Time to quit this forum for good.

Yes only you u derstand the meaning other are idiot.

If you post something have the decency to listen to reaction and saying ppl like this and ppl like that .

Stop the drama , and quit the forum.

Originally posted by: Billi_Bangalan

At all people coming at me, the indians or foreigners who are money minded DONT have good values. It is essential for indians settled in abroad to inculcate good habits in their kids. That is why they are extra protective when they see the american culture. Which is way more capitalist than indians are. That is what I meant.

I did not mean that Indians never kill each other for money or lay flowers on kabrstan everyday. Some do some dont. And fyi Our beloved ones are in our heart not in a place where bones lie. Oh god.

WHEN YOU GO ABROAD YOU automatically ARE PROTECTIVE ABOUT YOUR CULTURE.

It is a NORMAL psychological THING. It takes TIME to change.

Writing something sensible on this forum means you will be attacked by people like killjoyReporter without understanding the meaning.

Time to quit this forum for good.

Nahhiinnnn 😭

Originally posted by: Billi_Bangalan

At all people coming at me, the indians or foreigners who are money minded DONT have good values. It is essential for indians settled in abroad to inculcate good habits in their kids. That is why they are extra protective when they see the american culture. Which is way more capitalist than indians are. That is what I meant.

I did not mean that Indians never kill each other for money or lay flowers on kabrstan everyday. Some do some dont. And fyi Our beloved ones are in our heart not in a place where bones lie. Oh god.

WHEN YOU GO ABROAD YOU automatically ARE PROTECTIVE ABOUT YOUR CULTURE.

It is a NORMAL psychological THING. It takes TIME to change.

Writing something sensible on this forum means you will be attacked by people like killjoyReporter without understanding the meaning.

Time to quit this forum for good.

What does that even mean ? Money is an important part of life so everyone is money minded ( some more some less) .

Originally posted by: RegressiveThug

The jhooti shaan aur maan, people go to somewhere other than their birthplace and still cling on the castes and religious bias, especially when they settle with family.

It is common everywhere, many here in Shillong do the same. They wanna have fun with the tribal girls, but marraige aeere woh sirf apni caste ki ladki se karna hai, warna mummy ko bura lagega.

Sunny shouldn't have said "Indians in America" though, because that makes it like she is even bringing broad minded Indians who live in foreign under the same umbrellas as the ones she is talking about.

Itna progressive hona tere ko suit nahin kar raha

Originally posted by: Billi_Bangalan

At all people coming at me, the indians or foreigners who are money minded DONT have good values. It is essential for indians settled in abroad to inculcate good habits in their kids. That is why they are extra protective when they see the american culture. Which is way more capitalist than indians are. That is what I meant.

I did not mean that Indians never kill each other for money or lay flowers on kabrstan everyday. Some do some dont. And fyi Our beloved ones are in our heart not in a place where bones lie. Oh god.

WHEN YOU GO ABROAD YOU automatically ARE PROTECTIVE ABOUT YOUR CULTURE.

It is a NORMAL psychological THING. It takes TIME to change.

Writing something sensible on this forum means you will be attacked by people like killjoyReporter without understanding the meaning.

Time to quit this forum for good.

Chill BB, badi badi forum mein aisi choti choti baatein hoti rehti hain.