Originally posted by: saps.156
I am not justifying P's actions or the fact that she was right to lie about AB, but just few points in her defense, rather her point of view,
1a. every single time she went to meet AB to plot against Aparna, she never lingered around a minute more with him beyond those discussions. Even AB is shown disappointed for this bcoz he expected her to spend time with him.
1b. She was always shown to be looking at her watch, she says also it's quite late now RB will be waiting, I should get going, Sneha will be back, etc etc. In fact, one time Sneha and AB both tell her to stay for a while and yet she convinces Sneha to leave.
2. She never ignored RB in any way except forgetting his bday. She always picked up his calls even when she was with AB.
3. She keeps talking about RB to AB, very much a symbolism that her heart was with RB...this was the show pointing out how fr she had come and now RB was in AB's shoes, like when she was in love with AB initially, she would meet RB for something or the other but her heart was always beating for AB. It was the reverse case now.
3. Her dream about RB's reaction and losing him also shows why she didn't dare to tell him the truth. She is consciously shown pondering over her reluctance to hide the truth. She didn't want to lose him, and she didn't want AB beyond a friend. She was very clear in her emotions by then.
4. She is shown to actually leave Bby and go to Panchmeshwar without either of the guys. This was a very strong point justifying her love for RB and the fact that come what may, she didn't want to return to AB ever.
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I agree on the last 2 points and disagree on the first 2. IMO she never really cared much about RB and his feelings until he got to know the truth about her lies. She was even shown to have romantic feelings for ab and these were shown til the moment truth came out to RB. She used to have flashbacks of AB while she was with RB.
But that is not the issue as I already said(though personally I have an issue as how can you feel so strongly about a guy who had thrown you out of his life and married and consummated with another within a month, it is yucks for me! But to each his own and afterall it was just a show).The problem is her constant lies and it was not shown as if she was feeling very guilty. I mean she was feeling bad but not to the extent we would have appreciated.
Also, when she used to meet AB for planning-plotting thing, she never cared about RB much tbh until RB knew the truth. And she very much ignored RB until he started ignoring her.