I LOVE this Prerna - Page 13

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

say it again for the people in the backkkk lol

Yes yes yes! And even though I get upset at Prerna, I’d never say things about her that aren’t true or fair. Prerna has a habit of sacrificing her happiness and life for other people. A lot of us got very upset that she’s willing to do this when so many options are still open for her to pursue. Others are using this sentiment to prove that she chose the life with bajaj and that if Prerna wanted to she could have easily not accepted the deal. Now, Prerna realizes that she actually did mess up and that she can’t live without Anurag and wants to step away from the decision she’s made, people still have a problem with it. PRERNA IS ALLOWED TO CHANGE HER MIND!!! How many times have we changed our minds about the decisions in our life, imagine if we were called 500 names for realizing our mistakes and trying to mend it? Imagine being called names for having emotional breakdowns? Wow I can’t relate to people thinking Prerna is characterless at all.

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Going by the Forum's sentiments almost everyone is upset at Prerna and her characterization which is fair considering how confused and incoherent her character has become of late. She might be stupid and dumb and even impulsive but when has she ever indulged in EMA or whatever has she done to be labelled characterless is beyond me.

I can't even accuse her of emotional infidelity because she was quite vocal about her body, heart and soul belonging to Anurag which Bajaj had no problem with as long as she danced to his tune. By that agreement she still belongs to Anurag emotionally. Where is cheating even? Just because Bajaj has fallen for her despite the terms and conditions of their deal stating otherwise, Pre has to reciprocate? And if she doesn't , rather if she cannot she becomes characterless?

Wow!!! What even!!! No wonder toxic masculinity, misogyny and power imbalance are still the most popular tropes of the Indian Shows.

Originally posted by: bashful_moon

+1000

Going by the Forum's sentiments almost everyone is upset at Prerna and her characterization which is fair considering how confused and incoherent her character has become of late. She might be stupid and dumb and even impulsive but when has she ever indulged in EMA or whatever has she done to be labelled characterless is beyond me.

I can't even accuse her of emotional infidelity because she was quite vocal about her body, heart and soul belonging to Anurag which Bajaj had no problem with as long as she danced to his tune. By that agreement she still belongs to Anurag emotionally. Where is cheating even? Just because Bajaj has fallen for her despite the terms and conditions of their deal stating otherwise, Pre has to reciprocate? And if she doesn't , rather if she cannot she becomes characterless?

Wow!!! What even!!! No wonder toxic masculinity, misogyny and power imbalance are still the most popular tropes of the Indian Shows.

Thanks for making this post.. It helped me connect with Prerna and understand her pain and heart

And sadly, it also made me realize that even today a lady's relationship with her husband is of utmost importance no matter how suffocated she is in a relation. And dare she emotionally bond with a person who can understand her, she'll be s**t shammed and called characterless in no time..

Originally posted by: swap26

Thanks for making this post.. It helped me connect with Prerna and understand her pain and heart

And sadly, it also made me realize that even today a lady's relationship with her husband is of utmost importance no matter how suffocated she is in a relation. And dare she emotionally bond with a person who can understand her, she'll be s**t shammed and called characterless in no time..

Can we stop with this narrative that Prerna is a wonderful wife and mother. Her actions in this arc suggest completely the opposite.

Bajaj asked for one thing - loyalty, she couldn't even give him that and has been disrespecting and humiliating him constantly.

Frankly, I'm surprised she remembered Kuki existed with all the romancing she's been doing with her ex lover.

IT has been built on strong and honorable female characters who help their families and loved ones navigate through the hardships and challenges they face.

Prerna on the other hand is an incredibly weak and immoral lead who is cheating on her husband who she promised her loyalty.

Good evening ! Thanks, my friend for articulating so well🤗 about Prerna, a hapless young woman😭 I am Mili, I hope I can write my two cents here. I have been watching off and on for the last 1 month, the only person who really made sense to me was Anurag so far.

Don't laugh in my face, but I am trying to watch the older episodes, I haven't been able to move past 21 so far, for lack of time. I couldn't tolerate Bajaj and his rhetoric👎🏼. I will leave it at that. But, since I find out from reading that Durga maa is now in the driving seat, with a firm grip of the reins, I am in 👏. I don't know if the writers intend this or not, but I feel better thinking this way😃

Even though, I should have been sympathizing with Prerna as much as I have been doing with Anurag, the portrayal of that character, the writing, direction and acting as well, didn't leave much impression on me. Till yesterday, when I saw that young girl's longing when she said to herself " why does my heart want something that will never happen", I have started turning into a mush, when Anurag asked her " why she is soo sad " and his face and her face as they tear up together and try to comfort each other, I am bawling😭along with them.

Now, when we think of Prerna and her condition, what does this girl have to look forward to ? She is burdened by an unwanted marriage, a child forcefully thrust upon her with the expectation of care ( I know she doesn't mind this, but think about it for a 20-22 year old ), her carefree life now bound by stupid societal expectations, a pregnancy she can't even enjoy with peace, freedom and love with the father, a burden of anger, resentment, ridicule by all the waasis of Basu house, her own family, a beloved who is breaking to bits in front of her own eyes, driving himself to insanity, a future which is bleak, lonely and desolate😭 ( I reject any mention of Bajaj as a great catch- which 22 year old, who has a loving fiancee, about to get married, pregnant with his child anticipating a life full of love, happiness, would willingly choose a 40 + year old guy, a father of a child, no matter how great the guy is. Here, the guy is a destroyer in chief, ruthlessness personified 👎🏼)That is a very sad place to be. She is still pulling her weight, trying to fulfill her expectations of a mother for a 7-8 year old, trying to put on a stoic face to her beloved to make him believe that she has willingly done this atrocity towards him, silently bearing that heartbreaking question of betrayal from him, putting up with all the ridicule, anger of everybody around her. Then suddenly, her beloved sees how sad, broken and desolate she is and her despair, and sprints that question " why are you sooo sad " lifts up the flood gates for her😭🤢. She resists him comforting her as she is holding on to the last vestiges of some nonsensical societal boundaries tying her down, but gives in and seeks comfort. By doing what, wiping away tears of her beloved and holding on to his hands. A heartbreaking interaction that really touched and crushed my heart 😭🤗I can't even express properly. Just, think about it people, if in Anurag's place, if her brother, or her mother or Moloy asked the same question, wouldn't she have reacted and reached out to them similarly? Problem is, nobody cared to ask her either because they were all pissed off or just didn't pick up on her sadness. But, Anurag did, a simple, heartfelt question did her in😭I am broken into smithereens, haven't gathered myself yet from that emotion.

Please, a character of a woman is much more than how she interacts with her " so called husband" . As somebody mentioned above, her grit, her utter sacrifice of her life, her love for Anurag, her sensitivity towards a mute child, her tolerance of that sham of a forceful marriage, the jibes, ridicule, her patience, her simple joy with Anurag's father expression of love, all of this make that young girl's character. Not her allegiance and unrealistic expectations to a non-existent marriage from her side.

Sorry, my friend, this has become really long. But, I am ashamed that till yesterday, I didn't think along these lines, I was simply mad at her for crushing and continuing to crush Anurag.

I hope and want to write on one other post, SheAish's " does it matter whether deal or..... ". I have a few things that had tugged at my heartstrings on that post, but just not finding time. Another 10 days of no respite for me, hopefully I will remember to write after that.

Have a great evening / morning !

Originally posted by: mili9

Good evening ! Thanks, my friend for articulating so well🤗 about Prerna, a hapless young woman😭 I am Mili, I hope I can write my two cents here. I have been watching off and on for the last 1 month, the only person who really made sense to me was Anurag so far.

Don't laugh in my face, but I am trying to watch the older episodes, I haven't been able to move past 21 so far, for lack of time. I couldn't tolerate Bajaj and his rhetoric👎🏼. I will leave it at that. But, since I find out from reading that Durga maa is now in the driving seat, with a firm grip of the reins, I am in 👏. I don't know if the writers intend this or not, but I feel better thinking this way😃

Even though, I should have been sympathizing with Prerna as much as I have been doing with Anurag, the portrayal of that character, the writing, direction and acting as well, didn't leave much impression on me. Till yesterday, when I saw that young girl's longing when she said to herself " why does my heart want something that will never happen", I have started turning into a mush, when Anurag asked her " why she is soo sad " and his face and her face as they tear up together and try to comfort each other, I am bawling😭along with them.

Now, when we think of Prerna and her condition, what does this girl have to look forward to ? She is burdened by an unwanted marriage, a child forcefully thrust upon her with the expectation of care ( I know she doesn't mind this, but think about it for a 20-22 year old ), her carefree life now bound by stupid societal expectations, a pregnancy she can't even enjoy with peace, freedom and love with the father, a burden of anger, resentment, ridicule by all the waasis of Basu house, her own family, a beloved who is breaking to bits in front of her own eyes, driving himself to insanity, a future which is bleak, lonely and desolate😭 ( I reject any mention of Bajaj as a great catch- which 22 year old, who has a loving fiancee, about to get married, pregnant with his child anticipating a life full of love, happiness, would willingly choose a 40 + year old guy, a father of a child, no matter how great the guy is. Here, the guy is a destroyer in chief, ruthlessness personified 👎🏼)That is a very sad place to be. She is still pulling her weight, trying to fulfill her expectations of a mother for a 7-8 year old, trying to put on a stoic face to her beloved to make him believe that she has willingly done this atrocity towards him, silently bearing that heartbreaking question of betrayal from him, putting up with all the ridicule, anger of everybody around her. Then suddenly, her beloved sees how sad, broken and desolate she is and her despair, and sprints that question " why are you sooo sad " lifts up the flood gates for her😭🤢. She resists him comforting her as she is holding on to the last vestiges of some nonsensical societal boundaries tying her down, but gives in and seeks comfort. By doing what, wiping away tears of her beloved and holding on to his hands. A heartbreaking interaction that really touched and crushed my heart 😭🤗I can't even express properly. Just, think about it people, if in Anurag's place, if her brother, or her mother or Moloy asked the same question, wouldn't she have reacted and reached out to them similarly? Problem is, nobody cared to ask her either because they were all pissed off or just didn't pick up on her sadness. But, Anurag did, a simple, heartfelt question did her in😭I am broken into smithereens, haven't gathered myself yet from that emotion.

Please, a character of a woman is much more than how she interacts with her " so called husband" . As somebody mentioned above, her grit, her utter sacrifice of her life, her love for Anurag, her sensitivity towards a mute child, her tolerance of that sham of a forceful marriage, the jibes, ridicule, her patience, her simple joy with Anurag's father expression of love, all of this make that young girl's character. Not her allegiance and unrealistic expectations to a non-existent marriage from her side.

Sorry, my friend, this has become really long. But, I am ashamed that till yesterday, I didn't think along these lines, I was simply mad at her for crushing and continuing to crush Anurag.

I hope and want to write on one other post, SheAish's " does it matter whether deal or..... ". I have a few things that had tugged at my heartstrings on that post, but just not finding time. Another 10 days of no respite for me, hopefully I will remember to write after that.

Have a great evening / morning !

The bolded points resonated with me the most. She's left so many relations to be with Bajaj. She is not just a lover, she's a daughter and a sister too. She can't . be fully with them because if she were to tell them the truth, her loyalty towards Bajaj would be in jeopardy. Bajaj's deal also led Prerna to be dishonest with her family, hear their taunts even tho she didn't think twice about selling her soul to the devil for them. It's honestly heartbreaking to see Prerna like this. And then all Bajaj and Anu want to do is win her, like shes some goddamn trophy. UGHHHHH.

Originally posted by: FifthEmperor

Can we stop with this narrative that Prerna is a wonderful wife and mother. Her actions in this arc suggest completely the opposite.

Bajaj asked for one thing - loyalty, she couldn't even give him that and has been disrespecting and humiliating him constantly.

Frankly, I'm surprised she remembered Kuki existed with all the romancing she's been doing with her ex lover.

IT has been built on strong and honorable female characters who help their families and loved ones navigate through the hardships and challenges they face.

Prerna on the other hand is an incredibly weak and immoral lead who is cheating on her husband who she promised her loyalty.

Originally posted by: mili9

Good evening ! Thanks, my friend for articulating so well🤗 about Prerna, a hapless young woman😭 I am Mili, I hope I can write my two cents here. I have been watching off and on for the last 1 month, the only person who really made sense to me was Anurag so far.

Don't laugh in my face, but I am trying to watch the older episodes, I haven't been able to move past 21 so far, for lack of time. I couldn't tolerate Bajaj and his rhetoric👎🏼. I will leave it at that. But, since I find out from reading that Durga maa is now in the driving seat, with a firm grip of the reins, I am in 👏. I don't know if the writers intend this or not, but I feel better thinking this way😃

Even though, I should have been sympathizing with Prerna as much as I have been doing with Anurag, the portrayal of that character, the writing, direction and acting as well, didn't leave much impression on me. Till yesterday, when I saw that young girl's longing when she said to herself " why does my heart want something that will never happen", I have started turning into a mush, when Anurag asked her " why she is soo sad " and his face and her face as they tear up together and try to comfort each other, I am bawling😭along with them.

Now, when we think of Prerna and her condition, what does this girl have to look forward to ? She is burdened by an unwanted marriage, a child forcefully thrust upon her with the expectation of care ( I know she doesn't mind this, but think about it for a 20-22 year old ), her carefree life now bound by stupid societal expectations, a pregnancy she can't even enjoy with peace, freedom and love with the father, a burden of anger, resentment, ridicule by all the waasis of Basu house, her own family, a beloved who is breaking to bits in front of her own eyes, driving himself to insanity, a future which is bleak, lonely and desolate😭 ( I reject any mention of Bajaj as a great catch- which 22 year old, who has a loving fiancee, about to get married, pregnant with his child anticipating a life full of love, happiness, would willingly choose a 40 + year old guy, a father of a child, no matter how great the guy is. Here, the guy is a destroyer in chief, ruthlessness personified 👎🏼)That is a very sad place to be. She is still pulling her weight, trying to fulfill her expectations of a mother for a 7-8 year old, trying to put on a stoic face to her beloved to make him believe that she has willingly done this atrocity towards him, silently bearing that heartbreaking question of betrayal from him, putting up with all the ridicule, anger of everybody around her. Then suddenly, her beloved sees how sad, broken and desolate she is and her despair, and sprints that question " why are you sooo sad " lifts up the flood gates for her😭🤢. She resists him comforting her as she is holding on to the last vestiges of some nonsensical societal boundaries tying her down, but gives in and seeks comfort. By doing what, wiping away tears of her beloved and holding on to his hands. A heartbreaking interaction that really touched and crushed my heart 😭🤗I can't even express properly. Just, think about it people, if in Anurag's place, if her brother, or her mother or Moloy asked the same question, wouldn't she have reacted and reached out to them similarly? Problem is, nobody cared to ask her either because they were all pissed off or just didn't pick up on her sadness. But, Anurag did, a simple, heartfelt question did her in😭I am broken into smithereens, haven't gathered myself yet from that emotion.

Please, a character of a woman is much more than how she interacts with her " so called husband" . As somebody mentioned above, her grit, her utter sacrifice of her life, her love for Anurag, her sensitivity towards a mute child, her tolerance of that sham of a forceful marriage, the jibes, ridicule, her patience, her simple joy with Anurag's father expression of love, all of this make that young girl's character. Not her allegiance and unrealistic expectations to a non-existent marriage from her side.

Sorry, my friend, this has become really long. But, I am ashamed that till yesterday, I didn't think along these lines, I was simply mad at her for crushing and continuing to crush Anurag.

I hope and want to write on one other post, SheAish's " does it matter whether deal or..... ". I have a few things that had tugged at my heartstrings on that post, but just not finding time. Another 10 days of no respite for me, hopefully I will remember to write after that.

Have a great evening / morning !

WOW!! That is one heart rending description! 😭😭And if you add to it today's scenes, it all just compounds Pre's predicament and suffocation. I'm really happy people empathize with her situation even when the show tries to brush it all under the carpet.

I loved it when Anu asked her to stop thinking and listen to her heart. I'm glad he is slowly but surely chipping at the walls Pre caged herself in.

Dear Music_Lover........Your write up. Love it.

Prerna she is not a characterless girl. People try to put her in marriage institution and relationship. But, does she have any marriage relationship with Mr Bajaj? No way. She just fulfills her responsibilities what Mr Bajaj gave her after their marriage.

As a girl/women, they expect love, affection, caring, safety, hugging, embracing, touching each others, sharing thoughts and feeling with her partner after their marriage. Ladie's first priority is not the sex life. They want to stay with their partner like a tree and vines. (But this is different to men).

Does Prerna receive these all from her marriage life with Mr Bajaj? No.

Any women, if she did not receive love, affection and caring from their partner, she goes far away from their husband and in most of cases she find other guy and start a new affair. This is common for husband's side too. As husband or wife, they have responsibilities to protect their marital life without letting their partners to breach their relationship.

Prerna is also a human being. She has feeling. She needs love, affection, caring for her life. To receive these all, the most suited man is Anurag. Then, what will happen if she melt her heart out in front of her lover who knows her very well?

Actually, Prerna should go to Anurag. She should reveal the truth behind her marriage. Now no any secret. Anurag knows that how Prerna and Mr Bajaj share their marital life. Then, after the all truth, Anurag will find good solution. Sometimes it will be love elopement after breaking the Prerna's mangal suthra. Because, Mohini does not allow to AnuPre togetherness.

As a person in society, we should respect all social norms, social institution, and also social relationships. But, if we do not receive any satisfaction, happiness in our heart, what we want from these institutions or relationship, do you want to continue further? Do you want that relationships? Do you want to suffer because of relationships or social norms? Never...............never.

Wow. If it is the way that you want to stay in that relationship further, there are no any divorce cases, no any break up love stories, no any suicidal cases or crimes. What a wonderful world we have. Awesome. 😃😃

Prerna she should have self-confident, strength to break this unwanted relationship and face all thick and thins come from Mr Bajaj or Komolika. She can joined hands with Anurag and find solution for all problems.