I LOVE this Prerna - Page 14

Dear Music_Lover........Your write up. Love it.

Prerna she is not a characterless girl. People try to put her in marriage institution and relationship. But, does she have any marriage relationship with Mr Bajaj? No way. She just fulfills her responsibilities what Mr Bajaj gave her after their marriage.  

As a girl/women, they expect love, affection, caring, safety, hugging, embracing, touching each others, sharing thoughts and feeling with her partner after their marriage. Ladie's  first priority is not the sex life. They want to stay with their partner like a tree and vines. (But this is different to men). 

Does Prerna receive these all from her marriage life with Mr Bajaj? No. 

Any women, if she did not receive love, affection and caring from their partner, she goes far away from their husband and in most of cases she find other guy and start a new affair. This is common for husband's side too.  As husband or wife, they have responsibilities to protect their marital life without letting their partners to breach their relationship. 

Prerna is also a human being. She has feeling. She needs love, affection, caring for her life. To receive these all, the most suited man is Anurag. Then, what will happen if she melt her heart out in front of her lover who knows her very well? 

Actually, Prerna should go to Anurag. She should reveal the truth behind her marriage. Now no any secret. Anurag knows that how Prerna and Mr Bajaj share their marital life. Then, after the all truth, Anurag will find good solution. Sometimes it will be love elopement after breaking the Prerna's mangal suthra. Because, Mohini does not allow to AnuPre togetherness.

As a person in society, we should respect all social norms, social institution, and also social  relationships. But, if we do not receive any satisfaction, happiness in our heart, what we want  from these institutions or relationship, do you want to continue further? Do you want that relationships? Do you want to suffer because of relationships or social norms? Never...............never.

Wow. If it is the way that you want to stay in that relationship further,  there are no any divorce cases, no any break up love stories, no any suicidal cases or crimes. What a wonderful world we have. Awesome. 😃😃

Prerna she should have self-confident, strength to break this unwanted relationship and face all thick and thins come from Mr Bajaj or Komolika. She can joined hands with Anurag and find solution for all problems.    

Originally posted by: FifthEmperor

Can we stop with this narrative that Prerna is a wonderful wife and mother. Her actions in this arc suggest completely the opposite. 

Bajaj asked for one thing - loyalty, she couldn't even give him that and has been disrespecting and humiliating him constantly.

Frankly, I'm surprised she remembered Kuki existed with all the romancing she's been doing with her ex lover. 

IT has been built on strong and honorable female characters who help their families and loved ones navigate through the hardships and challenges they face.  

Prerna on the other hand is an incredibly weak and immoral lead who is cheating on her husband who she promised her loyalty.

Why should Prerna who just met Kuki be held to higher standards of love for Kuki than her own biological father? He’s the man who left Kuki alone and stayed in jail so that he could ingratiate himself with Prerna, who he now WANTS for himself even though the deal he made with her was that she only needed to be there for Kuki. Double standards much? 

Edited by UKGirl22 - 4 years ago

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

Why should Prerna who just met Kuki be held to higher standards of love for Kuki than her own biological father? He’s he the man who left Kuki alone and stayed in jail so that he could ingratiate himself with Prerna, who he now WANTS for himself even though the deal he made with her was that she only needed to be there Forbes Kuki. Double standards much? 

I know right? So Bajaj is just willing to go to jail because Prerna asked him to without another thought for his kid? The kid that he brought Prerna to look after? Did he expect Prerna to look after her while he's in jail? So weird 

Deal objects or non living things par hoti hai , Zinda insaan par ap deal karoge to aisa he hoga because object mai emotions nai hota so you can keep it with yourself entire life but zinda insaan mai emotions hote hai and koi bhi deal, emotions ke samne fail ho jati hai. It seems like emotions deal par bhari padd rahe hai. 

Here scene is not like marriage foundation was rock solid between couple since beginning and now case is of extra marital affair.  Zinda insaan par deal karoge to aisa he hoga . 

Bajaj was the one who put this deal forward . Agar isko zara sa bhi ehsaas hota ya guilt hota ki apne personal benefit ke liye kisi ki majburi ka fayda utha kar shaddi nai kiya jata to woh samne se prerna ko divorce de kar apni galti sudhar sakta hai .

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

Why should Prerna who just met Kuki be held to higher standards of love for Kuki than her own biological father? He’s the man who left Kuki alone and stayed in jail so that he could ingratiate himself with Prerna, who he now WANTS for himself even though the deal he made with her was that she only needed to be there for Kuki. Double standards much? 

Unrealistic expectations, what else? Kuki's own father can behave irresponsibly  to paint himself as a victim but that is brushed under the carpet. No wonder Kuki is bonding so well with Anurag!!! Karma hits and how!!!

Even if we go by the terms and conditions of their marriage, loving Kuki was never a part of the terms and conditions put forth by Bajaj. She got to know about Kuki after marriage and has been nothing but a mother and caretaker to her --- despite these job descriptions not being a part of what she had signed for. If Bajaj has started falling for her, well then his problem, he should have thought anout these loopholes and drawn a contract accordingly. Falling in love with Bajaj was never a term or a condition from Prerana's end of the deal. There is no need for her to reciprocate to Bajaj's newfound LOUU and all the creepiness that has followed. That was not even negotiated or bargained for.

She is still delivering more than what she had actually signed for and still upholding her end of the deal that she is soul-bound to Anurag and hence, physically and emotionally always belong to him. Not Pre's fault if a supposedly shrewd, calculating and manipulative businessman cannot uphold his end of the deal.

Edited by bashful_moon - 4 years ago

Originally posted by: bashful_moon

Unrealistic expectations, what else? Kuki's own father can behave irresponsibly  to paint himself as a victim but that is brushed under the carpet. No wonder Kuki is bonding so well with Anurag!!! Karma hits and how!!!

Even if we go by the terms and conditions of their marriage, loving Kuki was never a part of the terms and conditions put forth by Bajaj. She got to know about Kuki after marriage and has been nothing but a mother and caretaker to her --- despite these job descriptions not being a part of what she had signed for. If Bajaj has started falling for her, well then his problem, he should have thought anout these loopholes and drawn a contract accordingly. Falling in love with Bajaj was never a term or a condition from Prerana's end of the deal. There is no need for her to reciprocate to Bajaj's newfound LOUU and all the creepiness that has followed. That was not even negotiated or bargained for.

She is still delivering more than what she had actually signed for and still upholding her end of the deal that she is soul-bound to Anurag and hence, physically and emotionally always belong to him. Not Pre's fault if a supposedly shrewd, calculating and manipulative businessman cannot uphold his end of the deal.

Exactly....Falling in love with Prerna is problem of Mr Bajaj, not with Prerna. At the beginning of the deal marriage, she emphasized clearly to Mr Bajaj that you will regret with this decision because, my love, my soul, my breath, my body are belonging to Anurag. It was clearly said. 

Mr Bajaj is also clearly said Prerna that he could find a girl more beautiful than her. He wanted Prerna only for kuki's shake. Not for any marital relationship. So..... does Prerna need to stay that relationship further, even after her love Anurag is with her? I don't know. It is up to you all, your beliefs, policies and your ethics. 

Yes. Day has come. Mr Bajaj is going to  learn a lesson of love from Prerna. He will realize soon what is love, pain of lost, and suffering.    

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Deal objects or non living things par hoti hai , Zinda insaan par ap deal karoge to aisa he hoga because object mai emotions nai hota so you can keep it with yourself entire life but zinda insaan mai emotions hote hai and koi bhi deal, emotions ke samne fail ho jati hai. It seems like emotions deal par bhari padd rahe hai. 

Here scene is not like marriage foundation was rock solid between couple since beginning and now case is of extra marital affair.  Zinda insaan par deal karoge to aisa he hoga . 

Bajaj was the one who put this deal forward . Agar isko zara sa bhi ehsaas hota ya guilt hota ki apne personal benefit ke liye kisi ki majburi ka fayda utha kar shaddi nai kiya jata to woh samne se prerna ko divorce de kar apni galti sudhar sakta hai .

yeah true. People have emotions, they're not play things that they'll do exactly what's asked of em without any hesitation. Especially prerna, who is already so emotionally reactive and has had to bottle her emotions.  

Originally posted by: masdhu

Exactly....Falling in love with Prerna is problem of Mr Bajaj, not with Prerna. At the beginning of the deal marriage, she emphasized clearly to Mr Bajaj that you will regret with this decision because, my love, my soul, my breath, my body are belonging to Anurag. It was clearly said. 

Mr Bajaj is also clearly said Prerna that he could find a girl more beautiful than her. He wanted Prerna only for kuki's shake. Not for any marital relationship. So..... does Prerna need to stay that relationship further, even after her love Anurag is with her? I don't know. It is up to you all, your beliefs, policies and your ethics. 

Yes. Day has come. Mr Bajaj is going to  learn a lesson of love from Prerna. He will realize soon what is love, pain of lost, and suffering.    

i hope he confesses to her soon so we get to see how he handles the rejection.

Originally posted by: bashful_moon

Unrealistic expectations, what else? Kuki's own father can behave irresponsibly  to paint himself as a victim but that is brushed under the carpet. No wonder Kuki is bonding so well with Anurag!!! Karma hits and how!!!

Even if we go by the terms and conditions of their marriage, loving Kuki was never a part of the terms and conditions put forth by Bajaj. She got to know about Kuki after marriage and has been nothing but a mother and caretaker to her --- despite these job descriptions not being a part of what she had signed for. If Bajaj has started falling for her, well then his problem, he should have thought anout these loopholes and drawn a contract accordingly. Falling in love with Bajaj was never a term or a condition from Prerana's end of the deal. There is no need for her to reciprocate to Bajaj's newfound LOUU and all the creepiness that has followed. That was not even negotiated or bargained for.

She is still delivering more than what she had actually signed for and still upholding her end of the deal that she is soul-bound to Anurag and hence, physically and emotionally always belong to him. Not Pre's fault if a supposedly shrewd, calculating and manipulative businessman cannot uphold his end of the deal.

also loyalty as a condition is so vague?? Loyalty can change from one situation to another.  Will Prerna still be loyal to him knowing he was thinking about killing Anurag? Will she still be loyal to him when she finds out he wants her to reciprocate his feelings? things to think about.