So people, have recently started watching Ishaaron Ishaaron Mein, and it so gives me the feels of Sasural Genda Phool - full family bonding, drama. Something so understated and different.
So quickly jumping to the present, we all know how Yogi is heartbroken, and here no one is to blame, apart from Shiv - his family truly has a better understanding of the worth of a person like Yogi and someday Shiv will too.
Coming to Yogi, we have always seen how happy he has been in every situation, come hell or high water. But the fact is, he is not fully happy at all. He is putting up a facade to keep his family happy. His family also does not know him truly, because he has never opened up completely to them about his pain or his insecurities - because he knows how emotional they are about him. And hence he needs someone there who will see the pain behind his smile, someone who breaks through that facade of happiness and understand and hear out his sorrows.
Pari, is shown as a brash, insensitive, street-smart, independent modern girl, who knows how to get work done through jugaad. But she too has a sensitive side as well. She is very emotional when it comes to her parents and family which she never had. She has always had to fend for herself on her own, and that is what shapes her personality. The point she started living with the Srivastavs, she began understanding what a real family is all about, something she has been yearning all her life and therefore she does not want to go from that house. Yes, she is self-centered, but does she have a choice, if her family life was so dysfunctional?
Both Pari and Yogi have something to offer to each other. Yogi can teach Pari how to be more empathetic and sensitive, and Pari can teach him how to be more strong and expressive. I am not saying that Yogi isn't strong - he has a subtle strength in him which is admirable, but Pari can help him cope with his hidden emotions and make him more secure as who he is - what people think of as a disability is, in fact, his specialty.
What I feel is that during this tough phase when Yogi will go through an emotional breakdown, Pari will be there as his support system and confidant. Of course, he has his family, but he cannot always confide in his family. Similarly, sooner or later Pari will have to face her demons and pain, which is when Yogi will be there for her. A bond based on friendship, trust, and support. Whether that turns into love, I don't know. I don't mind them together. And there is no rule that a disabled person has to fall for a disabled person.
Also, I would like to add, I have no problem with Gunjan as such. She is a sweet and pleasant character, but her father will be her undoing. He will marry her off to a "supposed normal guy" who will ill-treat her for who she is, then Shiv will understand how badly he has goofed up. And I feel that probably Yogi and Pari will come to her rescue. But, let us allow the story to take its course.
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