So what will she do next ?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: kinu17

Hs is the victim or I might say Bali ka bakra..of this ma beti chaos very sorry to say ...his cute smile has been disappeared within 3 days of marriage..his personality has been changed .this abnormal ma beti should go for therapy or mental hospital or boot camp..both of them r crazy ..if this much problem mini is having y she let her mom got married..dumb,!! Both ezly could have been stayed together..one is making breakfast another is having forever..baat khatm..

And this dimwit babita what she thought abt marriage? Only status change ? Kiraya daarni se makaan Malkin?.wearing mangal sutra and sindoor? She didnot even ready to listen hs abt his mom sindoor container story..marriage is not only physical relationship its a holy pure understanding relationship ,first 2 persons need to know each other, be friends each other,know each other liking dislikes etc important factors...then after automatically a feelings develop between each other and a beautiful physical relationship will grow between a man and a wife..this dimwit doesn't want even ready to make friend with her man , after the wedding only she talks abt mini ,mini..y she needs a push from others to make her understand for each things? Ridiculous..lala was harsh with mini but one area he is rite ..Cvs has ruined the wedding , ruined the granny granna relationship , make hs is shocked and statue, only thing they make mini and babita s behavior more abnormal and pathetic..

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@bold, this is what I feel worst about.

Also, I find it alarming that Babita only thinks about the physical aspect of a marriage. That is only a small part of a marriage. What about everything else? What about dealing one human with another?

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold, this is what I feel worst about.

Also, I find it alarming that Babita only thinks about the physical aspect of a marriage. That is only a small part of a marriage. What about everything else? What about dealing one human with another?

Originally posted by: rose1000

HS is about to go mental due to mental mother and daughter. This is what the writers have done to their creation. Whosoever is writing does not seem to have any idea about mental health issues and is making an absolute mockery of a very very significant problem just for the sake of drama.

It is hard to tolerate both the mother and daughter in such scenarios as is created by the CVs.

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Originally posted by: rose1000

HS is about to go mental due to mental mother and daughter. This is what the writers have done to their creation. Whosoever is writing does not seem to have any idea about mental health issues and is making an absolute mockery of a very very significant problem just for the sake of drama.

It is hard to tolerate both the mother and daughter in such scenarios as is created by the CVs.

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He deserves much better than this. Bechaara kam takleef mein tha kya itne saalon se.

I restarted watching the show after seeing the wedding promo. At 1st it was promoted as a happy function where all 3 of them were so happy about this marriage. But this track at the end butchered the characters more. Like im still in shock at how HS is behaving towards mini. The previous hanuman uncle wouldnt have believed mini would have done such a thing like playing that video. Like what. And babita? Why did she agree to marry if she wants to sleep eat play with mini only. She should be glowing with happiness that she married someone she loved but she is running away from him and also using mini as a shield. She should be communicating her fears with her husband. About how she doesnt know how to be married, how to settle her daughter to her new marriage. And that police officer uncle(forgot his name). He is a mature adult but why is he telling mini to keep distance from HS and babita and live her own life. He really should not have done that especially knowing their situations. Mini Hs babita should have sat down and communicated the new adjustments this marriage will bring and also discussed the insecurities. I really hope that they dont destroy HS character more because he is one character who was always positive and consistent. Also i dont understand why is babita so anti the grandparents suddenly. She shouldnt be telling mini to keep away from them. After all they are relatives and they might have been unfair to babta but they have always loved mini so telling her to keep away from them is just not done.

why are we absolving HS of the breakdown mini is going to have.

He is going to be responsible too along with babita. for thinking only of babita & for his part in CD fiasco. And secondly for keeping silent after that & not trying to speak to mini. Why blame babita only if he & his friend is making mini feel unwanted.. Any pain coming his way he will have to deal with it as he has been a part of giving it. It is only natural that babita is worried about mini after the cd thing. Her waiting for mini to come home & then eat could be to show that she still cares for her & she holds importance in her life. maybe before this every time she waited for mini to eat. Most mothers even mine generally waits for me to come back so that we eat together

HS pain is stemming from his own insecurities & doubt via mini. And if babita is having intimacy issues he should be prepared to wait it out, its not that being intimate is the only imp thing in his life.

want minnies hs duo back !!

I don't think anybody is absolving HS of causing pain to Minnie. He needs to talk to her ASAP, and it's best if this happens before her breakdown. If it happens after her breakdown, he will have a huge amount of guilt to deal with, even though a lot of her issues are stemming from her childhood. Don't know what the CVs have in store for her but it will affect the marriage for sure if HS doesn't patch up with Minnie soon.

HS is not desperate to have intimacy at this point, he just wants Babita to be honest about it and not act as if she's avoiding him for some reason unknown to him.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't think anybody is absolving HS of causing pain to Minnie. He needs to talk to her ASAP, and it's best if this happens before her breakdown. If it happens after her breakdown, he will have a huge amount of guilt to deal with, even though a lot of her issues are stemming from her childhood. Don't know what the CVs have in store for her but it will affect the marriage for sure if HS doesn't patch up with Minnie soon.

HS is not desperate to have intimacy at this point, he just wants Babita to be honest about it and not act as if she's avoiding him for some reason unknown to him.

Do u remember that tweet from PH..that this marriage is HS' s test? Well, I fail to understand how this can be just HS's test? So he has to compromise to all whims and fancies of the duo? He had said the same to Laale at the police station before marriage. How can this be fair? So basically Babita and Mini will get away by doing nonsense. And HS has to be bali ka bakra. Why? I honestly feel Babita should have stayed single, focus on her business and MIni's career. Marriage is not her cup of tea. It was so terrible to see the pheras. Both groom and bride with long faces...what was the point of such a marriage? PH claims this is a progressive show.

If they want to see the progressive show, they should go back to 1978 movie Khatta Meetha which was far ahead of its times. It was more suited for 21st century than PB will ever be. Total lack of research and creativity among makers nowadays.

Originally posted by: rose1000

Do u remember that tweet from PH..that this marriage is HS' s test? Well, I fail to understand how this can be just HS's test? So he has to compromise to all whims and fancies of the duo? He had said the same to Laale at the police station before marriage. How can this be fair? So basically Babita and Mini will get away by doing nonsense. And HS has to be bali ka bakra. Why? I honestly feel Babita should have stayed single, focus on her business and MIni's career. Marriage is not her cup of tea. It was so terrible to see the pheras. Both groom and bride with long faces...what was the point of such a marriage? PH claims this is a progressive show.

If they want to see the progressive show, they should go back to 1978 movie Khatta Meetha which was far ahead of its times. It was more suited for 21st century than PB will ever be. Total lack of research and creativity among makers nowadays.

I understand that they wanted to show that marriages need a lot of work, even the second one but that didn't mean they had to make the wedding itself sad. Doesn't really give a positive message to society, and might discourage instead of encourage people. All for TRPs!

As for HS, I feel he has a long journey of suffering to go, and now he's lost his confidence and hope where Minnie is concerned. Look at him being all passive as a father and husband. I hate this unnecessary clash between Minnie and him at this stage. They introduced too many problems at the same time in their family so people are wondering why they got married in the first place. They could have easily had the wedding be normal but then introduce new tracks and problems for the family to solve, but no, they wanted TRPs.

Anyway, I think the PH is struggling with how to show her emancipation by showing her opening up to HS as a life partner. Next up is Minnie's issues with depression so Hanita's focus will be more on parenting and HS will always be the one to have to understand and show maturity and keep drinking the poison. As you pointed out, what's happening is fine for a few days but in the long-term it's toxic.

The problem is they rushed into this wedding without the three of them talking about the future and setting expectations as required.