Mother ki daughter ko pakar bhi nahi payin gay: ajao saray - Page 16

Originally posted by: inlieu

I have a feeling HS is so hurt and shocked that he deliberately avoided that conversation and perhaps did not want to bring it up.

And Babita should have guessed that? No.. HS and Mini had a major showdown.. HS questioned his position in Mini's life as a father.. Mini was not visible throughout the wedding proceedings.. and yet Hanuman does not even mention Mini when he and Babita start talking? That is not something I would expect Babita to understand.. Her tone was definitely wrong but not her reaction.. if Hanuman wanted to avoid that conversation, he should have made that clear to Babita before starting his talk about the sindoor.. they are not yet in that place in their relationship jahan ek banda bina kuch kahe doosre ki baat samajh le.. Not babita and not Hanuman

Originally posted by: inlieu

I get the feeling he was either talking about some neutral topic to relax the awkwardness between them or he was going to ease into it. Guess we'll never know.

But Babita is a mother worried about her daughter and Hanuman knows that.. completely evading the topic of Mini was stupid on his part.. One line would have sufficed

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Or, he didn't know how to bring it up.

Even in the room, he was a bit flustered as he didn't know what to say to her. He gravitated towards his mother because that was a safe topic for him. He knew his mother's past and it was something that he wanted to share in full confidence with Babita. But Minnie is a huge question mark right now. He doesn't know what his place in her life is. He may have chosen to keep quiet about it so that Babita doesn't worry.

Of course everything went haywire thanks to our maharani. 🤔

I think he was afraid of talking about Minnie because to him it would mean coming to terms with the fact that his Veer Balika doesn't love him or want him, and considers him a third wheel. I don't think he wants to face this pain of his so he's trying to shut it out. Minnie's doing the same thing in many ways, and that may be why she didn't mention him in her diary. I find it hard to believe she would remain unaffected by his words. They are so alike!

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Indeed she is a. Mother and she will. Be tilted toward Minni and that absolutely right but she have to balance her relationship with HS as well... But she is not dear.. If she was them the would have never put a condition that if u can't be. Minni father then u will not get me even after marrying...

Yes I agree she needs to know about husband wife equation...

she has not found the balance that i agree with.

but what she said "Minni father then u will not get me completely even after marrying... " was not wrong.

mini is a part of babita. she is a part of her heart and soul. if a part of your heart and soul is not happy then how will you be happy? so if mini is not part of the relation or if she is not happy, then HS will not get babita completely, because a part of babita is babes.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

But Babita is a mother worried about her daughter and Hanuman knows that.. completely evading the topic of Mini was stupid on his part.. One line would have sufficed

As I said, I think he was working his way towards that topic. He asked her about Minnie in the morning too.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Just managed to catch the episode and had to view it twice (minus babita scenes - couldnt tolerate her idiosyncratic behavior) and only one word comes to my mind BRUTAL .. FAK

I don't even mind HS reading her diary and figuring out what he means to her (where she had mentioned that she trusts HS to set everything right and give her the perfect family). Cliched it is but desperate times, desperate measures.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

And Babita should have guessed that? No.. HS and Mini had a major showdown.. HS questioned his position in Mini's life as a father.. Mini was not visible throughout the wedding proceedings.. and yet Hanuman does not even mention Mini when he and Babita start talking? That is not something I would expect Babita to understand.. Her tone was definitely wrong but not her reaction.. if Hanuman wanted to avoid that conversation, he should have made that clear to Babita before starting his talk about the sindoor.. they are not yet in that place in their relationship jahan ek banda bina kuch kahe doosre ki baat samajh le.. Not babita and not Hanuman

Did Babita give HS the chance to speak? What did you want him to do? Start talking about Minnie the moment he walked into the room? Babita wasn't civil towards HS while he was. He understood what she was saying and even agreed with her, but the way Babita was laying down conditions, and putting the entire responsibility of the marriage being a success on him, was not right.

Originally posted by: guddi01

So not what I expected.

Mini Dear Dairy is getting like her. She has loads of unexplained or explored reasons in her Dairy which should have been discussed way way before the Wedding as they are nothing at all. So these things should have talked about before. I don't get it they are meant to he really close but they have never talked openly at all is really bizarre.

So now HS will get the blame now for Mini's behaviour were in reality its been there all the time.

Sleeping arrangements should have been sorted out before and not on there Wedding Night. HS is trying to tell her that this is his Mother's Room and trying to give her the Sindoor box, but no Babita tells him that she Married him for the bond between then two and if Mini does not accept this Wedding than its off. Poor HS said he understood but she took her things and left and he sadly put it away. Point to note that he never took Imarti to his Mother's Room and he loved her.

So Mini decides to stay with her grandma and Babita worrying looking for her and HS says that he will look for her. Got bad feelings about this as when HS finally her and tells her off, she will turn around and say that you are not my Father and Beeji will defend her. This is where I see major problems with these 3.

Mini already has preexisting problems with her Babes and its carried to this Marriage and HS will be blamed by all including Beeji.

@bold

This is what I am most afraid of.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

i agree, babita should not dictate this.

but she has seen mini pining for a father, and has seen how much mini loves and respects HS, so it is natural for her to assume that mini wants a father. and moreover mini did not protest when HS declared himself as her father. so i guess that shows mini's acceptance at some level.

HS has openly called himself father twice, once in the hospital then in the puja. and he has done so indirectly so many times, when he stopped drinking, when he ate the omelette, with the lehenga.

looking at both HS and mini, it can be assumed that both want a father daughter relation. and if babita assumes the same why is it wrong? none of the 2 said that they dont want a father-daughter relation.

so if babita now fears aout the father daughter relation why is it wrong? it can seem as dictating or concerned or scared.

It's fine if she's afraid but she gave him an ultimatum.