Mother ki daughter ko pakar bhi nahi payin gay: ajao saray - Page 15

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't think Minnie has actually sat down to think about what she wants or expects in a father, or if she wants one at all. She has to be the one to decide, and then figure out what place she wants to give HS. Besides, relations take time to build and their meanings and values change over time.

I personally have no issues if she never accepts as her father and chooses to have him as an uncle/friend, it's her choice. If it's clear to everyone involved then expectations can be managed. HS can still continue to love her as his own daughter if he wants to, it's his choice.

Babita should not dictate this.

U r right whatever it is it should be Minni and HS decision... Babita by coming in between she doing nothing but worsening the situation...

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Thats the whole point.. I mean, they got married in a weird state... ideally speaking, since Hanuman loves Mini so much, he shouldn't be thinking about the sindoor or that he and Babita should talk about them.. He should be thinking about the chaos that has erupted in their house.. I found the scene quite weird to be honest.. I understand his feelings but no.. Babita's laying down rules did not seem out of place.. it was Hanuman's talks which seemed out of place given the circumstances...

Yes.. Babita should have tried to listen to him but honestly that would not have made much of a difference.. Her rudeness was uncalled for though

I have a feeling HS is so hurt and shocked that he deliberately avoided that conversation and perhaps did not want to bring it up.

precap gave the feel as if babita will burst again but this time on HS , which might create more problems for HS & mini .

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Babita no longer keeps things in her.. She blurts them out in the most idiotic manner and yet she blurts them out..

Hanuman and Mini on the other hand keep it all in which is the major reason for this chaos

Lastly, Babita might have been way too engrossed in being a mother and daughter in law.. Yet, Ashok would ALWAYS be the bigger culprit in the marriage falling apart.. Babita ne nahi kaha.. But Ashok tou keh sakta tha that he wants Babita to stay with him.. irrespective of how Babita was, Ashok will always be the culprit

Yes and that culprit is still looming large in many ways and ruining their lives. Ugh.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I have a feeling HS is so hurt and shocked that he deliberately avoided that conversation and perhaps did not want to bring it up.

Or, he didn't know how to bring it up.

Even in the room, he was a bit flustered as he didn't know what to say to her. He gravitated towards his mother because that was a safe topic for him. He knew his mother's past and it was something that he wanted to share in full confidence with Babita. But Minnie is a huge question mark right now. He doesn't know what his place in her life is. He may have chosen to keep quiet about it so that Babita doesn't worry.

Of course everything went haywire thanks to our maharani. 🤔

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

i agree. but again i would just like to say that the emotional turmoil is too much, specially for babita, since it seems HS has shut himself off from mini for the time being.

she is balancing/ trying to balance 2 relations, while HS has numbed out 1 relation to an extent.

and babita is still very much the mother. she needs to and will make the transition to being a wife in sometime. there has been a lot of discussion about how the wedding was rushed and here is where it shows. the hesitance and the balance.

Indeed she is a. Mother and she will. Be tilted toward Minni and that absolutely right but she have to balance her relationship with HS as well... But she is not dear.. If she was them the would have never put a condition that if u can't be. Minni father then u will not get me even after marrying...

Yes I agree she needs to know about husband wife equation...

So not what I expected.

Mini Dear Dairy is getting like her. She has loads of unexplained or explored reasons in her Dairy which should have been discussed way way before the Wedding as they are nothing at all. So these things should have talked about before. I don't get it they are meant to he really close but they have never talked openly at all is really bizarre.

So now HS will get the blame now for Mini's behaviour were in reality its been there all the time.

Sleeping arrangements should have been sorted out before and not on there Wedding Night. HS is trying to tell her that this is his Mother's Room and trying to give her the Sindoor box, but no Babita tells him that she Married him for the bond between then two and if Mini does not accept this Wedding than its off. Poor HS said he understood but she took her things and left and he sadly put it away. Point to note that he never took Imarti to his Mother's Room and he loved her.

So Mini decides to stay with her grandma and Babita worrying looking for her and HS says that he will look for her. Got bad feelings about this as when HS finally her and tells her off, she will turn around and say that you are not my Father and Beeji will defend her. This is where I see major problems with these 3.

Mini already has preexisting problems with her Babes and its carried to this Marriage and HS will be blamed by all including Beeji.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Hanuman was wrong to expect Babita to think, talk or even listen like a newly wedded wife... Not after everything that transpired.. Ideally, Hanuman should have begun the conversation from where it all ended, by talking about whatever happened.. if he had just said the line k I know a lot has happened but we need to move past it as a family.. lets think about our future, his talk about the sindoor and all would not seem so misplaced

I get the feeling he was either talking about some neutral topic to relax the awkwardness between them or he was going to ease into it. Guess we'll never know.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't think Minnie has actually sat down to think about what she wants or expects in a father, or if she wants one at all. She has to be the one to decide, and then figure out what place she wants to give HS. Besides, relations take time to build and their meanings and values change over time.

I personally have no issues if she never accepts as her father and chooses to have him as an uncle/friend, it's her choice. If it's clear to everyone involved then expectations can be managed. HS can still continue to love her as his own daughter if he wants to, it's his choice.

Babita should not dictate this.

i agree, babita should not dictate this.

but she has seen mini pining for a father, and has seen how much mini loves and respects HS, so it is natural for her to assume that mini wants a father. and moreover mini did not protest when HS declared himself as her father. so i guess that shows mini's acceptance at some level.

HS has openly called himself father twice, once in the hospital then in the puja. and he has done so indirectly so many times, when he stopped drinking, when he ate the omelette, with the lehenga.

looking at both HS and mini, it can be assumed that both want a father daughter relation. and if babita assumes the same why is it wrong? none of the 2 said that they dont want a father-daughter relation.

so if babita now fears aout the father daughter relation why is it wrong? it can seem as dictating or concerned or scared.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I am worried that he might not do this at all. That he will retreat completely and suffer in silence. I can't see Minnie and him like that.

One thing that hit me hard in today's episode was while writing diary Minnie mentioned about venom and how every relation will be at stake but never thought of HS drinking all the poison . This alone shows the relationship between her and HS is not what he/ us think. Blood relations are always stronger than dil ka rishta.