The party: ajao saray - Page 20

Originally posted by: inlieu

Tell me about it. This scene was brilliant because of them. Not only was it a way to depict flashbacks but it also showed how they literally are still voices in his head that he can't shake off and that still have so much power over him to this day.

I don't even know how he manages to sleep at night. 😭

I am SO grateful for Minnie and Babes now. If it weren't for them, HS ka pata ni kya hota.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Well he had said as much to Lala and the way he reacted when he found out Minnie wanted to take her Babes away and later when Babita wanted to move out and take his daughter away from him.

Yes, he would definitely have gone into a self-destructive mode. I'm curious, now that he can't rely on alcohol will he finally start seeing his issues clearly and try to resolve them?

He better. Opening up about his feelings will be the most difficult thing he has ever done but he has to do it. It won't be fair to expect Babita to share everything while he keeps it all to himself. He needs to share the load, little by little, piece by piece, just like Babes is doing. But he'll do a better job of it because of his maturity and sensibility.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I want HS to cry in Babita's arms and unleash all that anguish and pain that he has suppressed inside of him all these years.

Oh gosh, yes!!! I could imagine this clearly!! Late at night, while they're talking in bed, he just bursts out and falls into her arms while she comforts him.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Moreover, Minnie doesn't want Babes to be like all the other crying mothers who are constantly breaking their backs for their children. She wants it to be an equal relationship. There are some situations where Babes needs to take the lead and help Minnie out, while there are others where Minnie wants to take the lead and let Babes chill. And the wedding is just one of them. She wants Babes to be a Queen and list out all her demands. It's HER WEDDING after all, why should she compromise? And what has she even cried about? Mehndi and a gota on her lehenga? That is NOTHING. Look at other brides, and they will be complaining and whining about every little thing they can find under the sun.

exactly. when babita stayed up the entire night to stitch clothes for mini, took up job as a maid then it was her responsibility and when she complains about about such a small thing and apologises immediately afterwards, it is wrong? she is no longer a good mother?

even a mother is a human. she is not flawless. and similarly babita is also not flawless.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

They can be bff but that doesn't change that Babes is the mom and Minni is the daughter...again this is NOT the first time Babes has blamed Minni for something

There is a pattern emerging and its a bit disturbing

When Babes blamed Minni for her staying with Ashok warning bells went off

The CV wouldn't keep repeating this patterned behr unless something is about to happen

And apologizing doesn't always take away the sting of certain words...regardless how close people are...in fact it hurts even more when it's someone close to you

i guess we should agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

You know you can call me by my name right? 😆

I wonder how they're gonna tackle all these issues. They have raised so many complications that need to be addressed. I know they'll do it with elegance, but aaahhhh!!! I'm feeling both excited and dreadful.

He won't. The guilt of failing to save his mother might lessen, but it won't erase the fact that he lost her at a really young age. It won't change the fact that he had to see his mother's bruises, hear her wails or have her shush him and cater to his fragile heart while she choked hers.

It also shows that HS knows about these bachpan ke gaanth from his own experience. Because it's too painful or he doesn't know how to navigate them, he chose to simply lock it away. Then years passed and while he may have grown in some ways, the child inside of him still hasn't been able to move on. He still sees his loving mother be treated unfairly.

Again the writing never ceases to amaze me. There's so much to go over, that I am also excited, but like you, a bit apprehensive. If I felt like that during the Imarti track I don't even want to think about this one.

@bold the tragedy of it all is unfathomable as is the fact that he didn’t go off the rails after all that and still continued to be a beacon of hope and justice. Can you imagine how he felt after his grandfather died? And no wonder Imarti's death broke something in him. She was his soul mate, friend, family, everything that he had missed out on as a child until fate snatched her from him. A part of him died with her, and I also don't think he will truly get over it all. I want him to recover and find real happiness again, but when a person has seen so much grief and pain since childhood, and then even into adulthood, how can he or she remain intact? Also, as a person gets older, they become set in their ways to an extent. He may learn to deal with pain better but his experiences have hardened a part of him for good too.

Yes, the little boy in him still lives on and he is aware of it. In fact, he is the kind of person who is aware of and sensitive to everyone's feelings and is very much in touch with his own. That he doesn't or can't deal with them head-on is another story.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

If true, it added even more charm! It's kinda like the whole world is dancing to one tune while Hanita are off doing their own thing and being immensely happy in it.

Same!!! If my mehndi ever came out that pale, I would chewed that lady out. And it wasn't even a full bridal mehndi. Even kids get a more covered hand than that!

HAnita were really cute. and i wonder why no one other than babita has mehndi on her hands?

no neighbour, mini or preet?

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

He better. Opening up about his feelings will be the most difficult thing he has ever done but he has to do it. It won't be fair to expect Babita to share everything while he keeps it all to himself. He needs to share the load, little by little, piece by piece, just like Babes is doing. But he'll do a better job of it because of his maturity and sensibility.

Correct, but I don't think he can do it piece by piece. It feels like it will be more of a dam bursting situation. Too much bottled up inside for too long.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Oh gosh, yes!!! I could imagine this clearly!! Late at night, while they're talking in bed, he just bursts out and falls into her arms while she comforts him.

Yupp I can totally see this happening. How beautiful will this scene be though, even though it will be really sad.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I don't even know how he manages to sleep at night. 😭

I am SO grateful for Minnie and Babes now. If it weren't for them, HS ka pata ni kya hota.

I think before he met them he was living life one day at a time, just going through the motions. Now that he's experienced that warmth and closeness, not only does he realize what he had been missing but also that he can't go back to how things were before their arrival. He has seen the other side to life and he can't unsee it or undo any of the impact they've had on him.