Blackmail??? Really? Enough! - Page 9

Originally posted by: memad

Did pre Willingly marry? NO

Was she given other choice or option? NO

Then it is called BLACKMAIL only

Will Prerna live life on her own terms ? NO

Will Anurag ever stand up to protect her from abusive inlaws ? NO

Can Anurag and Prerna live happily ever after with trust issues ? NO

DO WE WANT SUCH LOVE STORY ? NO

Originally posted by: Ayesha1980

Will Prerna live life on her own terms ? NO

Will Anurag ever stand up to protect her from abusive inlaws ? NO

Can Anurag and Prerna live happily ever after with trust issues ? NO

DO WE WANT SUCH LOVE STORY ? NO

When anu did not stand up for pre? Or why you think they cannot live happily after marriage n till now there is no trust issues. Its only communication gap. Better keep aside s1 what happened. No need to assume s1 story n assume s2 will go in that direction.

Prerna loves anurag and she deserve to be with him.

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Superbly put! I think, end of this discussion for me at least...nothing more to say 👏

Thank you 🤗

“Alongside the statement about one man's poison being another man's high, one might as well add that one man's saint can be another man's sore and one man's hero can turn out to be that man's biggest hangup.”

KEN KESEY, Sometimes a Great Notion

Originally posted by: HeartQuake

Prerna's character was always weak and foolish. She was unrelatable because of how weak she was. She's shown to be always drawn towards the easiest , quickest fix and never had integrity or strength to pursue what is right as per today's woman.

She basically sold herself to NB during the 1st track of the show . When there was 100 other possible ways to tackle the monetary situation. And those ways are so simple and obvious that I couldn't be bothered to type them out .

Then she had out of wedlock sex , which would've been perfectly alright ( let's face it , lots of people do it nowadays and if done with consent in a proper responsible manner there's nothing wrong with it ) but it showed what a hypocrite and weak character she is , since she always was big on sanskar and all . At least don't pretend you're a touch me not when you yield to lust in a open hut with goons on their backs. No sense , no maturity, absolutely no responsibility. She was not concerned about lack of contraception during the act , whereas any educated girl nowadays will first make sure of it. She just caved in because Anurag wanted it. It was unpalatable, unbearable and every thing anti- strong and independent.

She was at her pits with how she begged Anurag to accept her during AnuKom's engagement. No wonder Veena slapped the hell out of her . I was burning with 2nd hand shame with her words and was not even feeling sorry for her when Anurag brutally humiliated her after that. She was basically asking for it. No dignity whatsoever.

What she did during AnuKom track was not just shameless, it was plain wrong. She came to break the home another woman who was properly married . At that time she didn't know Anurag had a deal with Komo and that she was responsible for Rajesh's death. Yet she came to Basu house to break home of another married woman . Being a hindu woman , she must've known clearly that what she and Anurag had was no marriage ( even the Pandit said so later ) but still took this chance and came to bb to fight for patni ka haq and extremely cringeworthy showdown and sindur , mangalsutra, dhaga, doli, arthi talks. Anyone who calls such a woman strong doesn't even know the meaning of strong. The entire track , each single episode was filled with such words or dialogues that made me shut the computer and go out for a walk to clear my head , it was so embarrassing and unbelievable and unbearable. The way MoNiv treated her like she's nothing but a piece of garbage day in day out , no sane girl , forget self respecting girl will stay in such a house where these two are also the two most important important women of Anurag's life so it's not like she'll ever get rid of them if she envisions a life with him. Can't imagine a city girl taking all that .Even village girls nowadays have far more dignity , strength and self respect than that.

When Komo tapped Vikrant and her in a LV scandal, she was once again helpless like a statue and basically relying on Anurag to save the day and her izzat.

When she found out that it was probably not an accident that got her father killed all she could do was cry at Anurag's chest and utter headache inducing dialogs of Mein tumhare liye kuch hu bhi ya nehi etc. , instead of at least once going to the police station to talk to them about the investigation on her father's death.

Then when Komolika died she got back with Anurag as if nothing has happened . No discussion . No communication. No pregnancy reveal. Strong and independent indeed !

When Anurag went to jail ,she went to Bajaj , he made a proposal which she accepted and got married to him. See the pattern here ?? Always the easiest, quickest fix. Because she lacks the strength to pursue any remotely difficult path. She could've tried investigating, could've hired a private investigator, could've hired a capable experienced lawyer, after all it was Ronit , not some intelligent mastermind .

But all that needs self agency, resourcefulness and yes strength.

She has none of that.

Even during recent track where Veena was sent to jail , watch how incapable she's in dealing with any problem. Basically always relying on males in her life to take care of her and to get her out of trouble. She couldn't even save her mother by her own self.

God save our country and this world from such independent strong girls. 🙏

Well said

Prerna is weakest and muftkhor female lead till now who always look for easy way out and has no self respect and self esteem.

Originally posted by: Ayesha1980

I just want to say why RB is called blackmailer again and again as if only he has gained through this marraige ...we are still stuck whether this marraige is valid or not ..there is a saying beggers cant be choosers and that was the situation when Bajaj put a deal in front of Prerna and she readily accepted it ...he didnt kidnap her but Prerna herself walked towards him for this deal marraige ...we have seen even worst marraiges on itv ..where we had some marraiges on gunpoint and CVs made that marraiges a big success by reforming the shortcomings ...the problem is not the marriage of Prerish but here most of them are seeing Bajaj as a blackmailer and forced marraige without consent which clearly ITS NOT ..Prerna agreed for this marraige although it wasnt acceptable for the society but it was acceptable to her She wasnt happy but still it was her choice ...a woman who cant fall in love again with another person because her character will be questioned ..not to forget the toxic dynamics of Basu family who will make Prernas life hell if she returns to Anurag.

..so yes maybe what Bajaj did cant be acceptable but given the circumstances of Prerna ...he is the best for her ..Prernas life has always been to choose between two evils ..And Bajaj is lesser of both evils unless and untill she become fiercely independent.

One thing is clear ..Prerna may get all the passionate love of Anurag ..but she will never get respect and appreciation of Basus..I dont care who gets united in end because all we care is about proper progression of story ..thats all matters now..I hope CVs dont make mockery of Bajaj and Prernas relationship which has more to it than just label of unwanted marraige ..its through Bajaj only Prerna will discover her true strength and independence.

So many arguments, he seems be next Mother Teresa! My take:

Hail Bajaj 'the benevolent' (no need to debate of deal/ blackmail etc) who

1. Gifted the Nannyship of his daughter to Prerna

2. Tutorship/ Tutelage to Prerna on Self Respect without Prerna asking for it

If and whenever this man dies his epitabh shall read

Here lies "Mr. Bajaj the Benevolent- who did seminal contribution to women Self Respect Movement....Rejected Sainthood in his life many times"

Originally posted by: HeartQuake

Prerna's character was always weak and foolish. She was unrelatable because of how weak she was. She's shown to be always drawn towards the easiest , quickest fix and never had integrity or strength to pursue what is right as per today's woman.

She basically sold herself to NB during the 1st track of the show . When there was 100 other possible ways to tackle the monetary situation. And those ways are so simple and obvious that I couldn't be bothered to type them out .

Then she had out of wedlock sex , which would've been perfectly alright ( let's face it , lots of people do it nowadays and if done with consent in a proper responsible manner there's nothing wrong with it ) but it showed what a hypocrite and weak character she is , since she always was big on sanskar and all . At least don't pretend you're a touch me not when you yield to lust in a open hut with goons on their backs. No sense , no maturity, absolutely no responsibility. She was not concerned about lack of contraception during the act , whereas any educated girl nowadays will first make sure of it. She just caved in because Anurag wanted it. It was unpalatable, unbearable and every thing anti- strong and independent.

She was at her pits with how she begged Anurag to accept her during AnuKom's engagement. No wonder Veena slapped the hell out of her . I was burning with 2nd hand shame with her words and was not even feeling sorry for her when Anurag brutally humiliated her after that. She was basically asking for it. No dignity whatsoever.

What she did during AnuKom track was not just shameless, it was plain wrong. She came to break the home another woman who was properly married . At that time she didn't know Anurag had a deal with Komo and that she was responsible for Rajesh's death. Yet she came to Basu house to break home of another married woman . Being a hindu woman , she must've known clearly that what she and Anurag had was no marriage ( even the Pandit said so later ) but still took this chance and came to bb to fight for patni ka haq and extremely cringeworthy showdown and sindur , mangalsutra, dhaga, doli, arthi talks. Anyone who calls such a woman strong doesn't even know the meaning of strong. The entire track , each single episode was filled with such words or dialogues that made me shut the computer and go out for a walk to clear my head , it was so embarrassing and unbelievable and unbearable. The way MoNiv treated her like she's nothing but a piece of garbage day in day out , no sane girl , forget self respecting girl will stay in such a house where these two are also the two most important important women of Anurag's life so it's not like she'll ever get rid of them if she envisions a life with him. Can't imagine a city girl taking all that .Even village girls nowadays have far more dignity , strength and self respect than that.

When Komo tapped Vikrant and her in a LV scandal, she was once again helpless like a statue and basically relying on Anurag to save the day and her izzat.

When she found out that it was probably not an accident that got her father killed all she could do was cry at Anurag's chest and utter headache inducing dialogs of Mein tumhare liye kuch hu bhi ya nehi etc. , instead of at least once going to the police station to talk to them about the investigation on her father's death.

Then when Komolika died she got back with Anurag as if nothing has happened . No discussion . No communication. No pregnancy reveal. Strong and independent indeed !

When Anurag went to jail ,she went to Bajaj , he made a proposal which she accepted and got married to him. See the pattern here ?? Always the easiest, quickest fix. Because she lacks the strength to pursue any remotely difficult path. She could've tried investigating, could've hired a private investigator, could've hired a capable experienced lawyer, after all it was Ronit , not some intelligent mastermind .

But all that needs self agency, resourcefulness and yes strength.

She has none of that.

Even during recent track where Veena was sent to jail , watch how incapable she's in dealing with any problem. Basically always relying on males in her life to take care of her and to get her out of trouble. She couldn't even save her mother by her own self.

God save our country and this world from such independent strong girls. 🙏

The best post I have read about prerna 👏

Originally posted by: Hari73

When anu did not stand up for pre? Or why you think they cannot live happily after marriage n till now there is no trust issues. Its only communication gap. Better keep aside s1 what happened. No need to assume s1 story n assume s2 will go in that direction.

Prerna loves anurag and she deserve to be with him.

It is not about S1. Where do you see trust and communication in Anurag and Prerna? Naveen babu track? Komolika track? Bajaj? WHEN?

If they would have trusted each other, they would have communicated as well. They do not believe in the other one and that is why they take it upon themselves to 'solve' the crisis. In my opinion, communication cannot happen in absence of trust

And as far as Anurag standing up for Prerna, there are ample instances of Mohini and Nivi insulting Prerna and the Sharmas with no rebuke from Anurag. But again, I cannot blame Anurag for that...if Prerna did not find it necessary to stand up for the self respect of her family, who should Anurag do it?

Originally posted by: Hari73

When anu did not stand up for pre? Or why you think they cannot live happily after marriage n till now there is no trust issues. Its only communication gap. Better keep aside s1 what happened. No need to assume s1 story n assume s2 will go in that direction.

Prerna loves anurag and she deserve to be with him.

not talking about season 1 at all.

communication and trust are linked with each other.why you think they have no communication if there was trust factor between them?

i was not here then but i heard basu's especially mohini and nivi insulted her big time left and right,not just her even her mom.but anurag was never their to support her.

love is not everything in a relationship.love is just the base to develop a relationship.after that both must and should have trust and communication which is key in any relationship and that is completely missing.

a relationship cant sustain if you communicate with moon,one have to communicate with the other person.

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

It is not about S1. Where do you see trust and communication in Anurag and Prerna? Naveen babu track? Komolika track? Bajaj? WHEN?

If they would have trusted each other, they would have communicated as well. They do not believe in the other one and that is why they take it upon themselves to 'solve' the crisis. In my opinion, communication cannot happen in absence of trust

And as far as Anurag standing up for Prerna, there are ample instances of Mohini and Nivi insulting Prerna and the Sharmas with no rebuke from Anurag. But again, I cannot blame Anurag for that...if Prerna did not find it necessary to stand up for the self respect of her family, who should Anurag do it?

I don't consider it as trust issue in any of track. It was more about understanding each other. If they share, that they are sacrificing for other one, will they allow it. They would prefer to die, than allowing him/her to sacrifice. So, reason for not communicating is justified.

And I agree, anu didnot stopped mohini or nivi in initial stage. But later on, he was not listening to mohini, in a way he would make mohini understand, he will be always with sharmas. But these are smallest hurdles in life. Everything won't b rosy rosy. But for that we cannot consider prerna doesnot deserve anu. Anu is any day better than fraudulent bajaj. Atleast, he didnot harm any one.

Cheers!!

Originally posted by: prb4eva

a relationship cant sustain if you communicate with moon,one have to communicate with the other person.

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