Blackmail??? Really? Enough! - Page 8

Originally posted by: Ayesha1980

I just want to say why RB is called blackmailer again and again as if only he has gained through this marraige ...we are still stuck whether this marraige is valid or not ..there is a saying beggers cant be choosers and that was the situation when Bajaj put a deal in front of Prerna and she readily accepted it ...he didnt kidnap her but Prerna herself walked towards him for this deal marraige ...we have seen even worst marraiges on itv ..where we had some marraiges on gunpoint and CVs made that marraiges a big success by reforming the shortcomings ...the problem is not the marriage of Prerish but here most of them are seeing Bajaj as a blackmailer and forced marraige without consent which clearly ITS NOT ..Prerna agreed for this marraige although it wasnt acceptable for the society but it was acceptable to her She wasnt happy but still it was her choice ...a woman who cant fall in love again with another person because her character will be questioned ..not to forget the toxic dynamics of Basu family who will make Prernas life hell if she returns to Anurag.

..so yes maybe what Bajaj did cant be acceptable but given the circumstances of Prerna ...he is the best for her ..Prernas life has always been to choose between two evils ..And Bajaj is lesser of both evils unless and untill she become fiercely independent.

One thing is clear ..Prerna may get all the passionate love of Anurag ..but she will never get respect and appreciation of Basus..I dont care who gets united in end because all we care is about proper progression of story ..thats all matters now..I hope CVs dont make mockery of Bajaj and Prernas relationship which has more to it than just label of unwanted marraige ..its through Bajaj only Prerna will discover her true strength and independence.

At least he is not flirting with someone else wife 🤬😡when her husband is at work 🤢 or touching someone else wife 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮👋👋👋👋👋🤡🤡🤡

Who told prerna to go bajaj???? Did he called her? Did he send her messages to come and meet him???? No

Basu ś were always proud of their power and all 🤔 so when their son was in jail why they didn’t used that power, money 💰 to save him?????

In last I’m very very proud of bajaj ❤️😛❤️

Well done 👍 👏👏 do again and again 🤗👍🏼🤗

Originally posted by: manzilmukul

He blackmailed- True

He wronged her -True

He stole her love- True

All facts true! So? It’s a story about a grey character and how he alters the dynamics of Anurag and Prerna. If criminal offences have to be counted, then a lot of Basu Badi members would have been thrown into Jail for criminal intimidation and false contriving against people.

Does that mean we forgive Bajaj? No, we cannot but the story is about his journey too. His journey from the tormentor to being tormented. From being a practical man to finally realising his guilt.

What could have been possibly the story, then? Beating the hell out of Bajaj? Then, I am afraid we should be beating every third person around in this world.

So, can we accept that ‘Bajaj is no saint!’ He was shrewd, manipulative and he played his game smart driven by motives which he felt were important. ‘Karma’ is a very strong fate. Let’s wait for it to befall on him. It has already started, isn’t it? Restless for a girl whom he wronged and he will never be her soulmate! And, his journey to redemption will begin too.

Can we just for second think of what next could have been the story without introducing Bajaj? Anupre loving each other, distrusting each other and sass bahu saga! What’s new in that?

I am nowhere condoning the circumstances in which the marriage took place! But, life is like that. It throws curveballs at you, and those stories are interesting to watch.

Who is a Saint and who is a sinner? Who will decide? Time and their journey either to the path of destruction or redemption!

beautifully written and explained.....👍

I havent supported that these marraiges should happen ...but in real life too we have worst type of marraiges ..like taking huge dowries and again not giving respect to the girls family ..yet we all keep quiet because its legal marraige ..dont care even if people suffer under such marraiges..

I said Prerna isnt independent enough that she could have taken her own decisions ..and here she had to choose between two evils ..and she did what was suitable for her circumstances ..as a soceity its very easy to judge or label her and Bajaj..but both did what they could do for their dear ones ..Bajaj did for his daughter she did for her lover ..its a give and take relationship and every relationship depends on trust factor ..whether is arranged or love marraige or forced marraige whatever you call it.

Have you seen Mohini int he recent episodes 🤣 Please dont call Mohini upfront!! She is anything but that!

Prerna's character was always weak and foolish. She was unrelatable because of how weak she was. She's shown to be always drawn towards the easiest , quickest fix and never had integrity or strength to pursue what is right as per today's woman.

She basically sold herself to NB during the 1st track of the show . When there was 100 other possible ways to tackle the monetary situation. And those ways are so simple and obvious that I couldn't be bothered to type them out .

Then she had out of wedlock sex , which would've been perfectly alright ( let's face it , lots of people do it nowadays and if done with consent in a proper responsible manner there's nothing wrong with it ) but it showed what a hypocrite and weak character she is , since she always was big on sanskar and all . At least don't pretend you're a touch me not when you yield to lust in a open hut with goons on their backs. No sense , no maturity, absolutely no responsibility. She was not concerned about lack of contraception during the act , whereas any educated girl nowadays will first make sure of it. She just caved in because Anurag wanted it. It was unpalatable, unbearable and every thing anti- strong and independent.

She was at her pits with how she begged Anurag to accept her during AnuKom's engagement. No wonder Veena slapped the hell out of her . I was burning with 2nd hand shame with her words and was not even feeling sorry for her when Anurag brutally humiliated her after that. She was basically asking for it. No dignity whatsoever.

What she did during AnuKom track was not just shameless, it was plain wrong. She came to break the home another woman who was properly married . At that time she didn't know Anurag had a deal with Komo and that she was responsible for Rajesh's death. Yet she came to Basu house to break home of another married woman . Being a hindu woman , she must've known clearly that what she and Anurag had was no marriage ( even the Pandit said so later ) but still took this chance and came to bb to fight for patni ka haq and extremely cringeworthy showdown and sindur , mangalsutra, dhaga, doli, arthi talks. Anyone who calls such a woman strong doesn't even know the meaning of strong. The entire track , each single episode was filled with such words or dialogues that made me shut the computer and go out for a walk to clear my head , it was so embarrassing and unbelievable and unbearable. The way MoNiv treated her like she's nothing but a piece of garbage day in day out , no sane girl , forget self respecting girl will stay in such a house where these two are also the two most important important women of Anurag's life so it's not like she'll ever get rid of them if she envisions a life with him. Can't imagine a city girl taking all that .Even village girls nowadays have far more dignity , strength and self respect than that.

When Komo tapped Vikrant and her in a LV scandal, she was once again helpless like a statue and basically relying on Anurag to save the day and her izzat.

When she found out that it was probably not an accident that got her father killed all she could do was cry at Anurag's chest and utter headache inducing dialogs of Mein tumhare liye kuch hu bhi ya nehi etc. , instead of at least once going to the police station to talk to them about the investigation on her father's death.

Then when Komolika died she got back with Anurag as if nothing has happened . No discussion . No communication. No pregnancy reveal. Strong and independent indeed !

When Anurag went to jail ,she went to Bajaj , he made a proposal which she accepted and got married to him. See the pattern here ?? Always the easiest, quickest fix. Because she lacks the strength to pursue any remotely difficult path. She could've tried investigating, could've hired a private investigator, could've hired a capable experienced lawyer, after all it was Ronit , not some intelligent mastermind .

But all that needs self agency, resourcefulness and yes strength.

She has none of that.

Even during recent track where Veena was sent to jail , watch how incapable she's in dealing with any problem. Basically always relying on males in her life to take care of her and to get her out of trouble. She couldn't even save her mother by her own self.

God save our country and this world from such independent strong girls. 🙏

RELAX GUYS!!! At the end of the day it’s just a show, don’t be so serious about it. If you don’t agree with someone else’s opinion then just ignore them. Let’s maintain a positive atmosphere😊.

Originally posted by: manzilmukul

He blackmailed- True

He wronged her -True

He stole her love- True

All facts true! So? It’s a story about a grey character and how he alters the dynamics of Anurag and Prerna. If criminal offences have to be counted, then a lot of Basu Badi members would have been thrown into Jail for criminal intimidation and false contriving against people.

Does that mean we forgive Bajaj? No, we cannot but the story is about his journey too. His journey from the tormentor to being tormented. From being a practical man to finally realising his guilt.

What could have been possibly the story, then? Beating the hell out of Bajaj? Then, I am afraid we should be beating every third person around in this world.

So, can we accept that ‘Bajaj is no saint!’ He was shrewd, manipulative and he played his game smart driven by motives which he felt were important. ‘Karma’ is a very strong fate. Let’s wait for it to befall on him. It has already started, isn’t it? Restless for a girl whom he wronged and he will never be her soulmate! And, his journey to redemption will begin too.

Can we just for second think of what next could have been the story without introducing Bajaj? Anupre loving each other, distrusting each other and sass bahu saga! What’s new in that?

I am nowhere condoning the circumstances in which the marriage took place! But, life is like that. It throws curveballs at you, and those stories are interesting to watch.

Who is a Saint and who is a sinner? Who will decide? Time and their journey either to the path of destruction or redemption!

I agree. Bajaj is an integral part of Kzk .He need not be morally upright....nobody is expecting that from him but as viewer, I feel the writers are trying to downplay what he did to Prerna, Anurag and their unborn child. Prerna was forced into the marriage and now it has been made to look like Baj-Pre had a normal arranged marriage. That is a problem! Grey characters are interesting but my request to the writers to not glorify them and normalise their wrong doing. A sinner should be shown as sinner. Let him have a proper redemption track....I am all for it!

Someone here educated about blackmailing and forced marraige ...I want to ask them can they provide clear cut definitions for human nature and ever changing circumstances too .. jo aaj bura hai kal acha ho sakta hai

Jo aaj acha hai kal bura ho sakta hai ..

And one more thing Anulika marraige can never be compared with Prerish marraige NEVER

there was no ounce of trust in that marraige although what Prerna did that time was absolutely wrong..but Prerish marraige is not built upon lust and obsession

Did pre Willingly marry? NO

Was she given other choice or option? NO

Then it is called BLACKMAIL only

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

I agree. Bajaj is an integral part of Kzk .He need not be morally upright....nobody is expecting that from him but as viewer, I feel the writers are trying to downplay what he did to Prerna, Anurag and their unborn child. Prerna was forced into the marriage and now it has been made to look like Baj-Pre had a normal arranged marriage. That is a problem! Grey characters are interesting but my request to the writers to not glorify them and normalise their wrong doing. A sinner should be shown as sinner. Let him have a proper redemption track....I am all for it!

Exactly, the story could have been interesting this way

In fact, bajju falling for pre is totally okay but pre suddenly developing feeling for him and makers trying to show him 'mahan' aadmi so soon is totally out of place