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Originally posted by: Push-pull

Prerna not revealing the pregnancy to Anurag is definitely wrong.. Yet when was the right time to reveal it? She had consciously hidden it from Anurag during Anu-Kom track and to some extent that was understood then because she was blinded by anger then.. Then there was one small time period where everything was rosy rosy and dreamy dreamy for Anu-Pre which was the perfect timing to get the good news out because both were in the mood of celebrating their love and getting back together.. I know it must've been a shock to ladka while he was interested in getting his hubby job he's directly promoted to daddy job 😆 ladki too no less that before she could enjoy her wifey state she's been torn between the first wife, mommy and then dreamy wife jobs.. All mixed together Anu-Pre never got to do what's right by both of them then.. And now it's another time where there's no need to reveal the pregnancy for whatever outcomes that it could bring to Anu-Pre and the child.. With Pre wanting him to move on, the baby could be a hindrance for his moving on.. With Anu not even remembering their consummation this is nowhere gonna help him but only put him more into guilt for whatever he did to her in Anu-Kom track where she had everything against her including him.. And now the pregnancy news coming out will put everyone judging and jumping to assumptions thus making evidences for the proof which is further gonna spoil Anu-Pre and the child, that is already weakened and spoiled. In that case the legitimacy that Mr. B could bring to the baby may take precedence over the morality.

In the name of eternal love story there is everything that they're trying to show between the couple except for the love.. Agreed Anu-Pre never meant to be together but their love is meant to be there.. Where is that now?!!

And the CVs drama behind the pregnancy is very well understood, making it all bad about it and there is no reality to it at all..

It's high time this show shuts down before they sell this eternal love with all love dead between them..

#AnuPreOrNothing

For me the moral aspect of why a woman wouldn't want to tell the father about the child in a completely patriarchal and social context is what's intriguing. A lot of women do that. I wonder how it was handled in S1. But yes, agreed, this isn't justified at all. But from the mother's perspective, you can empathize with her wanting to completely legitimize her child in the eyes of society. Quite a contradiction from a moral perspective.

LOL, goodluck with seeing it coming to an end. They'll probably drag it until there's a fourth generation with Prerna as the matriarchal head or something.🤔

Originally posted by: .amigos.

Hello. I wanted to understand something about Prerna's character but didn't want to open a topic because they end up serving every purpose under the Sun except doing what they were supposed to do.

So I'm typing this here. There has been a lot of discussion about Prerna hiding her pregnancy. While I don't want to have a conversation on how old the baby is and the whole lack of attention paid to the baby track in general, I wanted a set of opinions on the most legitimate reason she is hiding this from Anurag.

While it is morally wrong, I feel like the need to legitimize her child takes precedence over anything else. A need our society nurtures and validates. Especially for women. And for someone like Prerna who has been ridiculed, rejected, and has trust issues, I can somewhat understand the predicament. Her child will always grow up to be ridiculed, taunted and mocked by the society for being, "illegitimate" (absolutely hate the word). A concern a lot of mothers feel. Especially in the backdrop of this show. Had she been married to Anurag, this would've come off differently. But now that she's Bajaj's wife, I wonder how she feels about any of it.

I have no idea how this was handled in S1. I'm sure far far better.

Is she wrong in hiding Anurag's child from him? Yes.

On one side, I hope the show can break society's taboos. On the other side, that's expecting far too much from a show like kzk.

Thoughts? Counter opinions?

Hey!

Her, hiding the truth from AB is obviously wrong in our eyes... Esp when she had the chance to reveal in between Komo’s exit and RB’s entry.. There were plenty of time there.. But she didnt..

For Prerna, she has always put Anurag above everything.. she is so blinded in trying to get him to move on that she thinks by now revealing about the baby will only make thing worst.. Which in every way, its true..

Morally and ethically, its wrong... AB deserves to know about his child but I also condemn the treatment and judgement she had been receiving over this..

It feels like people were looking for some excuse to trash her and they got one.. they are ready to forget about everything and just to use this fact to bash and curse her every day..

CV has parked this unwanted and unneeded pregnancy safely and I guess it will be use in the most disgusting way... just like we are about to witness all 3 of them under the same roof..

Well, lets see..

Originally posted by: nailah_AnuPre

Hey!

Her, hiding the truth from AB is obviously wrong in our eyes... Esp when she had the chance to reveal in between Komo’s exit and RB’s entry.. There were plenty of time there.. But she didnt..

For Prerna, she has always put Anurag above everything.. she is so blinded in trying to get him to move on that she thinks by now revealing about the baby will only make thing worst.. Which in every way, its true..

Morally and ethically, its wrong... AB deserves to know about his child but I also condemn the treatment and judgement she had been receiving over this..

It feels like people were looking for some excuse to trash her and they got one.. they are ready to forget about everything and just to use this fact to bash and curse her every day..

CV has parked this unwanted and unneeded pregnancy safely and I guess it will be use in the most disgusting way... just like we are about to witness all 3 of them under the same roof..

Well, lets see..

She had enough time to reveal it after komo exit.. But i guess she was waiting for right moment.. I think after marriage..

Originally posted by: .amigos.

For me the moral aspect of why a woman wouldn't want to tell the father about the child in a completely patriarchal and social context is what's intriguing. A lot of women do that. I wonder how it was handled in S1. But yes, agreed, this isn't justified at all. But from the mother's perspective, you can empathize with her wanting to completely legitimize her child in the eyes of society. Quite a contradiction from a moral perspective.

LOL, goodluck with seeing it coming to an end. They'll probably drag it until there's a fourth generation with Prerna as the matriarchal head or something.🤔

Hmmm.. If only the Uncreative team had even thought about it they could've given a small monologue for Prerna after the Anu-Kom track, like she is just waiting for the social marriage to happen after which she's wanting to announce the good news.. Protecting the baby's legitimacy, leaving no questions asked because by then she's the wife of Anurag, socially accepted by all.. But no.. The CVs didn't even bring up any scene about Pre being pregnant at all leaving us doubtful whether they gonna continue keeping her pregnancy or not.. Now before Mr. B they have brought it up just like a magic..

@bold: Yeah I can see that direction coming up with more and more masalafied versions of Anu-Pre love but keeping no love between them.. Here I am not talking about the romance..

Let's see if they can keep the new couple without love but only with respect for each other and duty bound to their husband-wife relationship with no love and romance😉..

Originally posted by: nailah_AnuPre

Hey!

Her, hiding the truth from AB is obviously wrong in our eyes... Esp when she had the chance to reveal in between Komo’s exit and RB’s entry.. There were plenty of time there.. But she didnt..

For Prerna, she has always put Anurag above everything.. she is so blinded in trying to get him to move on that she thinks by now revealing about the baby will only make thing worst.. Which in every way, its true..

Morally and ethically, its wrong... AB deserves to know about his child but I also condemn the treatment and judgement she had been receiving over this..

It feels like people were looking for some excuse to trash her and they got one.. they are ready to forget about everything and just to use this fact to bash and curse her every day..

CV has parked this unwanted and unneeded pregnancy safely and I guess it will be use in the most disgusting way... just like we are about to witness all 3 of them under the same roof..

Well, lets see..

@bold: Tell me about it..😆 It's like an excuse to hold on to against Pre.. Anyway now that the CVs are giving enough reasons to hold against Pre in terms of her indifference to his pain and random dialogues, pregnancy can take a backseat😆.. And later when Anu gets to move on with another beauty and brain nobody wants him to even know about the baby 🤪 No Anu-Pre love and no Anu-Pre love symbol.. Then this is just another failed love story with zindagi giving second chances . Kasautti second chances ki.. 😉

This is a great topic for discussion. One which has Prerna lovers totally in the dark trying to find a legitimate reason.

Prerna hiding the pregnancy is morally and ethically wrong. More wrong is that we don’t even see her introspect about the child within her. The only time they showed her think about it was during Komo track and that too in a flashback and coming to Anurag he does not even remember the deed. The only time she brought it again is with Bajaj for a get out of jail free card sorry for the pun!

This to me is called convenient writing by the makers. They have never written Prerna the character effectively they have just used her to either move the story forward or as a crutch to the male leads and that is a true fact.

We Erica and Prerna lovers see glimmer of her character shine thru in some phases but the disconnect is because there is no real introspection.

This pregnancy will be used or not based on upping the drama quotient that is all. I think there maybe a illegitimate angle to the Bajaj Moloy story that they may tie to this and there may come the legitimacy angle of why she hid it.

The essence of Anurag and Prerna story was innocence and selflessness but all we see here are idiocy and immaturity so the makers are slowly killing it or killed it to make way for a Bajaj and Prerna. And if that does not work they will go back to Anurag and Prerna the only commonality Prerna the puppet passed between.

So if we are looking for reasons for hiding this pregnancy there is none except sloppy writing of the character and in general

Originally posted by: .amigos.

Hello. I wanted to understand something about Prerna's character but didn't want to open a topic because they end up serving every purpose under the Sun except doing what they were supposed to do.

So I'm typing this here. There has been a lot of discussion about Prerna hiding her pregnancy. While I don't want to have a conversation on how old the baby is and the whole lack of attention paid to the baby track in general, I wanted a set of opinions on the most legitimate reason she is hiding this from Anurag.

While it is morally wrong, I feel like the need to legitimize her child takes precedence over anything else. A need our society nurtures and validates. Especially for women. And for someone like Prerna who has been ridiculed, rejected, and has trust issues, I can somewhat understand the predicament. Her child will always grow up to be ridiculed, taunted and mocked by the society for being, "illegitimate" (absolutely hate the word). A concern a lot of mothers feel. Especially in the backdrop of this show. Had she been married to Anurag, this would've come off differently. But now that she's Bajaj's wife, I wonder how she feels about any of it.

I have no idea how this was handled in S1. I'm sure far far better.

Is she wrong in hiding Anurag's child from him? Yes.

On one side, I hope the show can break society's taboos. On the other side, that's expecting far too much from a show like kzk.

Thoughts? Counter opinions?

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Originally posted by: Push-pull

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The Sharma will be invited... I hope the Basu disappear for that day... Actually it will be worth seeing MB’s reactions when she sees Veena..

The base they are setting I wish it was for Anupre not a PreRish Anupre never had that base Here people thrashing prerna but people should have ask for base for anupre so that there story to set up people bashing every action of prerna that's sad reading there tweets it make u feel so bad called her with so many names 😭

whatever prerna is doing its for anu now she is completely married if she just run from marriage it will be very bad and marriage is not joke that you will just run its complete marriage which cant be broke that easily regarding pregnancy yes prerna Should have told but prerna want her child be legal not illegitimate child will call illegitimate because anupre were not married completely and no mother want that her child to name that and prerna know mohini very well mohini never like prerna if she would know about child she will accept her for child shake only it will be difficult to live in such house where you are not accepted fully

This child is for more misunderstanding Anu will think its Bajaj child don't know why I feel this baby will not born Anupre can't reunite now that easily I don't want easy reunite I want proper divorce or reason of ending Bajaj prerna marriage and reunite not like Anu comming to know truth he brought her back easily you know I saw people saying Ejfian liking PreRish its not that however PreRish are married bajaj atleast respect prerna bajaj take stand for her which anu lack there is better setup for PreRish than anupre for now I don't like anu's behavior he want prerna so that he can take Revenge 😞why don't he use brain that he use during Naveen babu case he trust her when she was no one to him but now he thinks she married for money saying now I have money come back 😠

I have written long 🤣 its just my view