yes I agree. It may seem. Hypocritical of me but I had been fond of men in suits.. And u had never been fond of men with long hair...... Chappal maar maarna🤣And honestly this show kills it in delivering this message, because only we as viewers are able to see kunal for who he is otherwise he appears like the whole package to be the perfect husband/ son-in-law material whilst his more unconventionally seeming brother would appear to be the less better choice simply because like you explained it to be because of his career choice, casual dressing and seemingly care-free attitude etc. Abeer is in fact the most respectful, compassionate and loyal of the two brothers with no ego or short-temper but families looking for a suitor would overlook this in favour of his brother kunal who heads his family business, appears well-mannered, responsible, dignified, classy etc and would never really realise how his personality/ nature and views make him a unsuitable suitor as he has little respect for a girl's wishes, feelings or ability to understand either.
Indian weather me it seems funny ofcourse.. So we can all agree one meeting me Kunal would seen ideal and I'm so happy Mish asked for courtship and meenu ka uske father ko bula k drama karwana made mush realise ki Kunal wasn't right match for her. Varna Mish ko pata ni chalna tha.. Especially ketki ke time the girl trusted her family to make right decisions for her. This is a thing the bride and groom have to decide for themselves as they have to live their lives.