Originally posted by: meen123
I've been wanting to make a post on this. Now that you have I thought to just put in my views
Like you said, you have to be strong, rigid even when you have to raise not just two boys but family too especially when you are a woman in a place like rajkot(lets assume its not a metropolitan, people gossip there)
Meenakshi Rajvansh is a bitter woman like she did mention to Bade Papa in the temple scene. She had to save her family and assume(she did forsake her husband or husband forsake her) Whatever the case may be , she does feel abandoned, not being chosen, not being made a priority especially jab vo said person ke sath bhaag ke shaadi ki thi.... And koi bhi ladki kab bhaagti hai jab pitaji ni maante...so this is a woman who was scorned by two men important in any girl's life. So in her mind she's compartmentalizing her actions to be justified. And then her own son doesn't listen to her..Meenu pagal ki tarah behave kyu na kare...lol
She knows ki power sab kuch hai..tabhi usko sabne rakha hai..so she doesn't want to be powerless,she wanrts gaya/bakri bcz of that. She couldn't let herself be vulnerable like that ever again.
She is paranoid, has unstable relationships and is desperate to keep Abir with her. Doesn't trust her own family.Might leave her if she's not needed.
# this is all from meenu's pov...we dont know the whole story but uske actions yahi suggest krte hai and nanu ka kuch b bol na pana b isi taraf ishara krta hai
Now comes Mishti who is also head-strong just like Meenakshi herself...taking action first- crossing any boundaries for her loved ones --for what she feels right- Meenakshi would have been in awe of her but its the fact the girl is loved by her foster parents. The things that might break any other normal girl doesn't break her. That infuriates her more than anything , that what is so special about this girl? She cant be threatened, she can't be subdued, she has the support. She has everything Meenu wanted. no wonder she wants to destroy her.. but here comes the tricky part..She is going to end up destroying herself.. because uski khushiyan Abir se judi hai and Abir ki Mishti se....
and this is the reason i have much more respect for Bade Papa than Nanu. Nanu apne purane kiye ko 3rd generation ke thru theek krna chah rahe ...
#feels like a love note for namesake