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Originally posted by: Padfoot_Prongs

Middle class. bahut sambhal sambhal ke paise kharach kiya karte the. Used to walk for 2 km to college rather than taking rickshaw. Had Black and white tv till 2009 with no cable.

Situation has improved alot because my father makes sure that all of us get better education and good jobs. My two sisters are civil servants and I have decent job so we are not gareeb but my papa always says u may not be gareeb but u r greeb baap ki beti

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baap ke paise se to kuch bhi ho sakta hai becasue its gave you bana banaya platform .... apne dum pe papa ko aish ka proud alag hai even parents feel proud...

No, and by this economy, I don't think I ever will be. I also think I am not smart enough to have some job that will pay me better so...f*me up, fam. Never been rich, but now I live better than my parents. So, I'm doing good and I live somewhat comfortably.

It’s extremely hard to discuss that in real life so sharing here if anyone feels similar way. Does anyone feel bad or guilty when they were something or given an opportunity and so on? I don’t have a job right now and can afford to live without it thought my parent’s money. I would love to have the kind of job I want which I am working towards education wise. And I would like to have a regular temporary job too, but I haven’t gotten the chance too as there’s always family issues which has kept me keep busy other than education. Even my education was impacted and delayed a lot due to that. So I know I couldn’t do job in past even if I wanted to. Thankfully, I can live without job, but I don’t know how to feel about it. I feel extremely bad and/or guilty when I see my friends and others working endless hours just to live by. When people ask me what I do for living, I don’t know how to answer that anymore as before I used to say the truth. But now I just say some job because I don’t want them to judge me as I feel people in US judge those who don’t have job A LOT and also because other reasons...Besides, they don’t know what I have gone through and this money was one of the main reason which destroyed my childhood and situations around me. I never wanted it until recently where I have come to accept it. So I wouldn’t like it if they judge me either.

May be others feel bad and/or guilty too if they were given stable life as child and had family with them or anything else they were given which others weren’t? I don’t know. Anyone here?

May be I said too much

Originally posted by: _Darling_

It’s extremely hard to discuss that in real life so sharing here if anyone feels similar way. Does anyone feel bad or guilty when they were something or given an opportunity and so on? I don’t have a job right now and can afford to live without it thought my parent’s money. I would love to have the kind of job I want which I am working towards education wise. And I would like to have a regular temporary job too, but I haven’t gotten the chance too as there’s always family issues which has kept me keep busy other than education. Even my education was impacted and delayed a lot due to that. So I know I couldn’t do job in past even if I wanted to. Thankfully, I can live without job, but I don’t know how to feel about it. I feel extremely bad and/or guilty when I see my friends and others working endless hours just to live by. When people ask me what I do for living, I don’t know how to answer that anymore as before I used to say the truth. But now I just say some job because I don’t want them to judge me as I feel people in US judge those who don’t have job A LOT and also because other reasons...Besides, they don’t know what I have gone through and this money was one of the main reason which destroyed my childhood and situations around me. I never wanted it until recently where I have come to accept it. So I wouldn’t like it if they judge me either.

May be others feel bad and/or guilty too if they were given stable life as child and had family with them or anything else they were given which others weren’t? I don’t know. Anyone here?

May be I said too much

People do judge if you are not working in the west. I know that for a fact. Esp if one is living off government support and if parents have too many children and they are on child support. Here in down under, some desis don't work and live off central link and tax paying desis loathe them! Coz a major portion of their taxes go to serve them.

It is okay if you can't work due to your familial or mental issues. Don't think too much about it.

Originally posted by: Myer

People do judge if you are not working in the west. I know that for a fact. Esp if one is living off government support and if parents have too many children and they are on child support. Here in down under, some desis don't work and live off central link and tax paying desis loathe them! Coz a major portion of their taxes go to serve them.

It is okay if you can't work due to your familial or mental issues. Don't think too much about it.

Yes people do judge here. I have to somehow deal with it and come up with a way. I will be working very soon anyway as I need that work experience in order to apply for my graduation program. So I think then I won’t feel as bad anymore. And it’s type of job I love, so I am excited about it. But when it comes to those on government support or child support, etc, I don’t judge those who genuinely need it and are poor and have no choice. But I do judge those who Feel entitled to others money and want others money by force to support them. In my case, it’s my parent and if he never wanted it, I would’ve never wanted anything to do with it. But I do blame those who go after others saying they are entitled to others money through tax money to support the rest of the population. No, they are NOT entitled to others money. They infuriate me to no end. I have no sympathy for those. So I don’t blame those Desi who loath others because their tax money is going towards them.

Then there are also people like boyfriend/girlfriend who are just with their supposed love one to get money out of them. I saw some posts in another financial related forum when I was searching once. They were asking if they should break up now or wait for the supposed money under their lover’s name through inheritance or trust. Those posts made me so annoyed and angry 🥱

Aww madz just take care of yourself. Society will always judge u. Join job when you feel you are in right mental and physical health to work. Dont over think🤗

Originally posted by: _Darling_

It’s extremely hard to discuss that in real life so sharing here if anyone feels similar way. Does anyone feel bad or guilty when they were something or given an opportunity and so on? I don’t have a job right now and can afford to live without it thought my parent’s money. I would love to have the kind of job I want which I am working towards education wise. And I would like to have a regular temporary job too, but I haven’t gotten the chance too as there’s always family issues which has kept me keep busy other than education. Even my education was impacted and delayed a lot due to that. So I know I couldn’t do job in past even if I wanted to. Thankfully, I can live without job, but I don’t know how to feel about it. I feel extremely bad and/or guilty when I see my friends and others working endless hours just to live by. When people ask me what I do for living, I don’t know how to answer that anymore as before I used to say the truth. But now I just say some job because I don’t want them to judge me as I feel people in US judge those who don’t have job A LOT and also because other reasons...Besides, they don’t know what I have gone through and this money was one of the main reason which destroyed my childhood and situations around me. I never wanted it until recently where I have come to accept it. So I wouldn’t like it if they judge me either.

May be others feel bad and/or guilty too if they were given stable life as child and had family with them or anything else they were given which others weren’t? I don’t know. Anyone here?

May be I said too much

I don't think you need to do a job or anything if your parents are really rich. Just chill and enjoy life with their money.

Originally posted by: KhaanaBaDosh

Any one single? And owns two or three island? 😝

PM and ask them no?

Originally posted by: Ronaldo_fan

Aww madz just take care of yourself. Society will always judge u. Join job when you feel you are in right mental and physical health to work. Dont over think🤗

Aww thanks, Deepak. And not sure why you and the previous poster assumed the problem is mental or physical health. It’s not thankfully so don’t worry about that. And yes I will do job when I want to. Doesn’t matter if I feel bad or whatever. When I think about it logically, I realize I can’t force myself either just to do any job because I feel bad or something else :/ I want to do it at right time. I am done with my bachelor and have few science classes left, so I will have time to finally get a job. I have been waiting to do it for about couple of years now. I would rather do job than be in college. I love learning, but I hate stressing over GPA. I think most feel the same way about college life lol. I have no idea why movies and shows make college so cool -_-

Again thanks 🤗