Originally posted by: divyadaya13
I hope no one gets offended. This question popped in my mind and made me restless. So thought about sharing it here and want to know opinion of all my friends here. I myself did not have an answer to this and it made me feel bad about myself
What if it was our mother and brother in place of beeji and ashok respectively? We all who are supporters of babes and woman like her what would we do. Since babes is a stranger to us, we can easily support and share our opinions.Pls friends this question is not to offend anyone. Pls do share your views.
Originally posted by: Padmajaan
If my mother and brother were like beeji and ashok and if my bhabhi was like babita and my niece was like minni I would a 100% support and understand and stand with my bhabhi and niece. I am sure of that because what is so outright wrong is wrong no matter who is the perpetrator.I love the show but feel bad that there are no shades to the characters. The wrong ones are so blatantly and so obviously and so in-your-face wrong and the right ones are so so right. So it's very easy. Had there been shades there would be scope for dilemma. Here there is just no scope for dilemma.
rhe worst thing a woman can do in her life is blaming other woman for no fault of hers, why to blame the girl when it is you who have brought up your son. Woman have grown wings and work outside the house as well. But still i see many men cannot even take a glass of water by themselves.Originally posted by: guenhwyvar
It's a tough choice, but definitely with the bhabhi.
Here is how I would see things:1) Look at my brother's actions and his characteristics.Here, Ashok had a live-in relationship with another woman that he hid for years. He just dropped the bomb one day, and later plotted to come back to the house with the new lady while Babita was there.2) Look at my mom's actions and her characteristics.Here, Shami is nothing more than a slave owner. Do her service, you'll get affection. Don't do her service and she'll spout mean shit about you behind your back. This isn't on the same level as our mothers. For example, my mom is super sweet if I help her out. She'll be like "thank you for helping me; if you weren't there I don't know how I would do this (or I would go to sleep at midnight); etc." If I don't help her, she will be like "you don't do anything all day, good for nothing, etc." I know she means well and it's her frustration speaking, so I laugh it off. But with Shami, it's the typical serial saas behavior.Further, she never supported Babita, she tried to various things ON Babita to get Ashok to come back, blaming Babita's simplicity and trying to make her in another Lovely - ie. probably the reason why Sukhi doesn't take her back to his home, she doesn't know anything. Despite knowing her son is in the wrong, despite taking advantage of Babita's service for years, she is willing to forget that for Ashok ... and knowing that she made the wrong choice, gives herself some support by thinking that she'll be a double agent or something when she's really nothing.3) Look at Babita's actions and characteristics.This is also important to look at. I won't support someone if they are in the wrong, even if my family is wrong as well.Here, we know that Babita is faultless, so naturally, I would support her.----Coincidentally, a similar thing happened in my outer family (not immediate). Not exactly, but long story short -- bhabhi was mistreated and another slave, her saas was a complete dumbass, she left, got blamed ... and some more stuff I won't go into. I supported my bhabhi then, and I still do - even though she isn't my bhabhi anymore (technically). If she gets mentioned in a conversation, I still defend her.The ironic part is I don't even know her that well. We've met maybe 4 times in a span of 2-3 years. We don't talk, we aren't friends on facebook, etc. But relationships are relationships, and I value them deeply -- so long as I know you aren't in the wrong (which I would judge as objectively as possible after hearing both sides).
Originally posted by: divyadaya13
rhe worst thing a woman can do in her life is blaming other woman for no fault of hers, why to blame the girl when it is you who have brought up your son. Woman have grown wings and work outside the house as well. But still i see many men cannot even take a glass of water by themselves.
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