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Mandy

@BeyondHorizon

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Posted: 7 years ago

Hey all,

I know the forum is burning with more important issues right now and I don't think I need to give a run down of it 😆 But all the discussions have brought in some wonderful view points from both the opposing sides 👏

This topic is not necessarily about the recent events in this show, at least I am hoping it won't be. One of the arguments that I came across was that we could not accept the current track as we seek perfection or idealistic characters. If perfection was what we were seeking I guess we would be singing praises of shows like YHM, YRKKLH or the tons of Kekta shows that showcase the female lead as perfection personified. But right now Bepanah is the no. 1 forum in IF and it has been since its inception. Why is that so? The only sole reason is a minority of the audience base that exists still prefer sensible content on TV. Yes I call us a minority coz that's a fact and it would not be wrong to count ourselves in that niche category. Our forum is the most active forum amongst all and that's bcoz it has offered us plenty of room to discuss on many interesting topics - be it the concept, characterization or the many beautifully crafted moments between the leads and supporting characters too. Now when there has been an uproar in the forum in recent times, we get to see a question where it is asked that are we seeking perfection? Coz of which we can't accept flawed characters? But was that really the case?

Adi was not perfect when the show started - he behaved like an angry child whose favorite toy was snatched from him and he went about vanadalizing anything n everything that reminded him of his dead wife's betrayal. Does this make him perfect or justified? Hell NO. As audience we can empathize with him but we cannot justify his actions. We saw one extreme in him.

Then comes Zoya - a woman who has been betrayed by her husband and she has all the proof she needs to believe that she was cheated on but she chooses to be delusional. Zoya is pure at heart n she is naive but her being delusioned makes her flawed. Another extreme to counteract Adi.

Adi's vehement disapproval of this extra marital affair was met with Zoya's defiance of acknowledging it. Both are in pain, albeit a different kind. Adi's pain is driven by anger whereas Zoya's by grief. Adi taunts her, reminds her of how her cheater husband's family does not even want her near the funeral ground but she is willing to sacrifice even her self respect for a man who could not honor his vows to her? He gives her a precious advise on that day - Respect Yourself. He torments Zoya only because she is sailing in the same boat as he is but instead of sailing along she wants to jump out of it. Adi being Adi doesn't like that n he resorts to extremes to give her a reality check n when he does, he is shattered himself seeing the state she is in because he put her through it.

This was the beauty of the flawed characters for me. Not sure if you feel the same way but for me it was.

Then comes the part where it is said we only make posts to bash the female lead whereas the male lead gets away with anything n everything. I thought over this for a long time. Believe me I did. I even had a chat with a good friend of mine, Indu aka Paint.It.Black. It is kinda true. I have been in IF for 12 years now n in almost all the forums, it was the female lead who was the most criticised and most bashed. The male lead was always the object of our sympathy or ignorance. So I did ask her why is that. I wasn't this active in this forum in the initial days but I seldom saw posts bashing Adi like we are doing Zoya currently. We all accepted that Adi was wrong to treat Zoya like that but where were the posts supporting Zoya? There were certainly some posts made but I don't think the threads were this active esp as it has been the last two weeks.

My friend had an interesting answer - the reason why we bash the female lead is because since the majority of the members in the forum (no offense to the opp gender please 😊) are females, it angers us to see the female leads portrayed badly in the Indian shows. Esp in terms of inconsistency. A common pattern I noticed in all the shows I have seen so far are:

1. The female lead is meek n suffers all sort of humiliation at the hands of the male lead

2. She never utters a single word, endures all that shit when he is being a total jack***

3. When he finally turns into a prince from the monster, she suddenly feels the need to doubt his every move

4. She who had been silent all this while, is quick to jump the gun and call out the hero a bad guy

5. Give him a cold shoulder even though he is innocent at that time n break his heart time n again

Oh and by no means does Zoya fit in all of those categories, maybe some 😆 The male lead turns from being monster to a good guy which is a progressive change but the heroine goes on a downward spin n y is that?

If there are any 90's kids here, am sure you can understand my point. Back then we had shows like Saans, Hasratein that portrayed EMA in such a mature manner. Some of the shows on DD in the early 90's or late 80's were far more progressive than the crap we see today. The characters there were never justified but they were the way they were and that was the beauty of it. Why is it missing now? Why are justifications being thrusted on us? My anger does not stem from the fact that Adi n Zoya are on opposite sides but the manner in which the events are unfolding n the message it seems to be giving out. I might be wrong but this is my view.

We saw the advent of social networking taking over. Previously when story writers came up with script, they felt no pressure to live up to TRPs. They were telling a story n not selling a product. The shows were shot on a realistic budget. A middle class family was shown to be in the state a middle class family lives n not wear designer outfits n expensive imitation jewelry we see on shows today. The characters were the writer's brain child n they were already sketched during their inception which is why they stayed true to their character. It will be really hard to spot a show then that had such high inconsistency in terms of characterization or story telling. The stories were finite n the flow was set. Unlike now where things change dynamically for various factors - audience comments n views on social media, actors quitting the show n the track changing owing to that, so on n so forth. So even if the characters are crafted beautifully in their inception, they falter coz various factors compel the writers to change it. We blame the writers for poor scripting but we forget that they are paid professionals. Why will they be poor at their job? We have so many wonderful writers in our forum who write as a hobby whereas they r professionals. So why will they do a poor job? When a concept is set along with the pace, it is easy to continue with the flow but random switches do no good even for the writer coz that leaves room for loopholes. I kinda feel sorry for this mess

Being a 90's kid I belong to a different millenial n it is highly likely your thoughts on this matter will match mine too. Would love to hear what you feel about storytelling in general that u see in today's shows 😊 What is that you seek in a show? Perfection or a rational reality? Or maybe something entirely fictional that has a touch of reality?

This forum probably has the most civil fandom ever even though if they sometimes find themselves on the opposite side n I am sure this thread will not turn into a war zone but still a humble request - please feel free to disagree in a respectful manner so that others don't feel hurt. Know this is not needed but a gentle FYI 😊

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Salutethearmy

@Salutethearmy

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Posted: 7 years ago

Wow your post is so apt.. not a 90s kid but yes my mom is a tv buff and when she saw Silsila promos on colors she spoke about Saans..She told me about Neena Gupta..it was one fantastic show abt EMA.. it didn't strike me then ..I don't know anything about Saans but this show is different n.a...

Trying to cope up with EMA is different and blindly supporting your husbands EMA is another thing..Yes Aditya Hooda was not bashed bcos everyone felt he is a child trapped in a man's body and he will become mature when he starts to face reality but I agree he wasn't bashed up like the way zoya is getting her share of ice bucket challenges.

Another thing female fanz like Mr. Chopda and r pretty impressed by his acting skills..maybe or totally wrong here

So they the bashing isn't up to d mark

. However do want to point out that many trp jantas expected a glorified main leads, some one who changed overnight after their partners died ..many have gone back to watching Kektas shows..

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Subha

@Life_Is_Dutiful

Stunner

+ 40

Posted: 7 years ago

I was a small kid in 90s so have no idea about those shows but I have heard that those shows were way ahead of their times and are still much much better than today's shows. I have grown up watching kyunkis and kasautis and kutumbs and these shows have literally ruined the indian television that no matter how many bepannahs or dahleejs come, it can never be repaired. I am not saying bepannah is a perfect show either.

Initially, I was not much active in this forum but I think Aditya has got his share of bashings when he used to literally harass zoya in the bella and rohan track. On the day the episode of him pushing zoya from the terrace was aired, I think the forum was filled with much deserved Aditya bashing posts. I have visited forums like IPK and Geet and I must say this fandom doesn't worship the hero the way they used to literally worship. The ML of ipk had done more pathetic stuff than Aditya but still it was a sin to say one word against him in his 'mandir'.

Since the divorce papers track, his bashing has reduced and it has got nothing to do with the female members or because of Mr. Chopda's hot looks and his great acting. It's because viewers kinda relate to his character than Zoya. Someone called Aditya the voice of the viewers because he says everything that the viewers believe or think. He is impulsive yet practical. He is emotional but still doesn't allow his heart to rule over his mind.

When Aditya said PooSh cheated, viewers agreed with him.

When Aditya told Zoya she is being delusional, viewers agreed with him.

When Aditya told Zoya not to reopen the case because no one is going to gain anything out of it, viewers still agree with him.

He may be doing some idiotic mistakes in between like venting his anger and frustrations on zoya in the initial episodes, pushing her from the terrace, harassing her during their first jail yatra, morphing zoya's pics with pooja's or flirting with Mahi to get zoya out of depression or forcing the aroras to evacuate the house but overall his characterization is still relatable.

Viewers are not able to relate to zoya because she is delusional, stubborn, thinks from her heart than mind. Earlier she used to ruin herself by being delusional about Paak Yash and now her delusions are going to ruin all 3 families reputations. But there are still some who favor Zoya.

Overall, this fandom is balanced. This forum is still a forum, not Zoya or Aditya ka Mandir where the leads are worshipped 24*7 no matter what they do unlike other forums.

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anjaanichudi

@anjaanichudi

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

Itz d same story whether in reel or real life. Men r excused, women hv to bear d brunt.

I hv stood by Zoya coz i actually like her character, but d paak thing is not doing it for me.

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Hend Refai

@Hend_Refai

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

Wonderful post

I'm not 90's kid I'm 70's

But I'm not familiar with the shows you talked about because I started watching Hindi shows few years ago

About your post why viewer are crueler to the female lead than the male lead

Sorry to tell you this truth is not only on shows it is in our real life

If there is any problem between any married couple you will find people always forgive any mistake from the man and can't accept any mistake from the woman

secondly, most of the hindi shows portray the female character as an angle.. She never makes a mistake. She is the most understanding and forgiving person. No matter what her husband or the male lead did to her or his family she always forgive them. That is why when a female lead makes a mistake the audience can't accept it because it is not what they used to watch in the shows

About the current track of the show now

Adi was wrong when he was cruel to Zoya in the beginning of the show. But we could understand him and feel his pain. and he was right in his pov that he wants her to face the truth. her husband cheated on her

But now what Zoya is doing is not logical. she is gambling with her life and Adi's life for the sake of justice to a dead man

I can understand why she is doing that. She loved him so much and she believed in him. She just can't accept the idea that he is bad person. She can't accept that the man she left her family for is a cheater after all. First she refused to see the truth. Now after the truth is so clear to her and she can't deny it. She searching for excuses to him. She even blamed herself and Adi for Posh sin. This all is ok if she doesn't risk her life and Adi's life for that.

I think this track only to show the background story about Posh to make closer to Adi and Zoya. Because they can't start new story and still wondering why and what happened. But the CV's should did it better way. Argun should gave the diary to his brother to answer his questions that were killing him. Or Zoya when she read the diary she should gave it to Adi and made him see the story with his wife's eyes. But no because of TRP they did more drama. they made this war battle between the leads and their families and it is disgusting. they even made the female lead accept and defend her husband cheating with another married woman. That made audience hate this track

Sorry looong reply

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farida

@jumz86

Explorer

Posted: 7 years ago

Let me start by saying I LOVE this post. From TM to everyone else who have contributed so far, you can clearly see how intelligent the people in this forum are regardless of the side they are on, so yeah! Kudos for that!

Now coming to the topic. When I started watching BP, I loved the two lead characters. I love Zoya's innocence and subtle strength and I love Adi's anger filled sorrow. These flaws were real. The two characters were flawed yet REAL. It's not about perfection, but reality in my opinion.

Lets start with Adi. He was wrong in using Zoya as an outlet for his anger, but it was REAL. You see it happen all the time. My husband will be mad about something work related and he will take it out on me.

Zoya. Her naivety in ignoring all the evidences pointing at Yash's EMA was wrong and yet REAL. People live in denial all the time about things happening around them because they do not want to face the reality.

The rest of Siddiquis and Hoodas. Shady but REAL. We all do things that our partners or family may not approve of, but we do them and then hide it.

So far so good. Not perfect characters, but real and relatable and flawed. So beautiful so far. Now here is where the story started to divert from reality and land in la la land.

Rajveer: A cop who tries to CREATE evidences to frame someone for murder, with no apparent motive. NOT REAL and would never happen in reality.

Arjun: A guy who chooses to fight for a dead guys honor and doesn't care that in the process his dad's career could get ruined and that his brother would be defamed? Yes, his dad chose to lie, but the whole case was also based on a lie. He himself said the diary couldn't be used in court, then how else would HH have freed the two? Arjun also took away the option of throwing Zoya under the bus. AGAIN, NOT REAL and would never happen in reality.

Zoya: Finally we come to the best of them all. A woman who went from denying EMA to accepting it which was all good. But then declaring it pure sacred and PAAK. NOT REAL and would never happen in reality.

A court case where there was no cross examination, no solid evidence for anything and one that ended with a speed of light. NOT REAL. The prime suspect wanting to open her own case so she could potentially be proved as the murderer but made sure her dead cheater husband was absolved of the crime. NOT REAL.

So yeah, in conclusion, I don't think this very intelligent GEN X audience is seeking for perfection. I think viewers are OK with flawed characters that learn to grow. It's that we are looking for something that will connect with us as viewers.

Right now, I would call BP no different than any other Naagin type show. Unreal and completely far off reality. Atleast Naagin is being sold as a supernatural theme. BP is sold as a real show but is an entire universe away from reality.

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be_honest

@be_honest

Navigator

Posted: 7 years ago

I m one of those who don't watch any Asian dramas . The only show I ever watch was ipk from India & humsafar which is a drama from Pakistan . I m not into any Asian series as I just can't bear the mahan bahus , usual evil saas inlaws & loving but arrogant husband who is a mummy's puppet !

Started watching bepannah as i found it close to reality , just as a member here has mentioned ,every single character you can relate to .

For me , bepannah has become a bepannaah frustration to watch ever since zoya whom I loved for being always sticking to what is right or wrong , a lady of high virtues , kind & pure hearted . This vitreous lady, reading someone's wife 's diary without seeking permission & then believing the person who Ian actually involved in cheating rather than the person who was cheated ! That's not relatable at all !
She evolving as a strong character , breaking glasses etc when it comes to side aroras izzar but when it comes to the izzat of the man who has always been there for you after Yash ' death , she chooses to looses her voice ! She teaches him his wife was in Paak love !!

I don't seek perfection in any character but they should be relatable . I am unable to understand any zoya logic ever since the court room drama as her logic is now making paap a paak , no sense whatsoever that case reopening will bring even more defamation which all three families will have to face.

When such is the track going in bepannah for more than two weeks now , I just can't say for the sake of being a bepannah or zoya fan that she is just perfectly flawed etc etc .
Hope the makers of this show come to their senses soon & bring the flavour of relatibility again .

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delena90

@delena90

Sparkler

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Posted: 7 years ago

Interesting discussion. To me Bepannah started out on a high and then dissolved into a melting pot of confusion an poor characterization...maybe in a bid to capture the trp audience.

First, as a concept Bepannah is unique for modern day Hindi daily soap.I think its very hard for writers to tackle a topic such as EMA and do so in a way that it will not offend sensibilities. The first 10-15 episodes - the death of PooSH and the immediate fall out and setting up of all important characters in the series I thought was very well done. While, I could see the flaws in both Aditya and Zoya from the start, it was not to the point of unbelievable. I am probably one of the few people who didn't have an issue with Zoya's "Yash jaap". She loved that man with everything in her an Yash never gave her any indication that he was dissatisfied or unhappy with her. Him holding hands in death with another woman, to me, was not enough proof that he had cheated. Also, when one is experiencing such immense grief for a loved one you don't tend to think of their faults. Their goodness almost magnifies in the light of their death. Which is what happened for Zoya.

I can also why Aditya, a man who had witnessed the emotional fallout of an affair between his father and whoever the woman, would feel such revulsion towards a woman who betrayed him so cruelly. His behaviour at the hospital and then at the funeral was understandable. And I could even understand his initial anger towards Zoya. After all he did hear her (in her own private moment of grief) tell her father that Pooja may have been an unhappy wife of a horrible husband. Should Aditya have reacted - logically no. But he was in a world of pain too so I can see his POV there completely.

Right up to Zoya being in Bombay, Bepannah was on a good track for me. However, the unfortunate giving into the trope - office "romance" and "interactions" was the start of a very poor phase (in my opinion) for the show. Zoya was a naive, narcissistic and a rich man's daughter who had never worked a day in her life - how on earth did she think she could run a company. Why was there no discussion between her and a lawyer on what the next steps could be, how much debt the company was in, what was the possibility of selling it. Her need to run the company for Yash was a very silly plot point to put Aditya and Zoya in the same room to interact. Am I to believe that professional writers could not come up with a better idea than that?

Aditya too, him being suspended as a pilot - i get. Makes sense even. But how did he get from that to attempting to run a company (even if it is to the ground). Why would he even want to do it? Surely, he knew that he could have asked Zoya to repay the money that was taken from him? Why did he sink more into a failing company. What also was unfortunate with Aditya's characterization from this point on was his disdain for his mother. Whatever he witnessed between his parents was at the end of the day a situation that was really none of his business. It's very easy to say walk away from a cheating spouse but to follow through is not as easy...especially when there are two small children involved. Marriages are far too complex for anyone to be able to get out cleanly...especially children. Also, for a man who hated what his father had done he seemed to have no issues blowing his father's money on his wife, himself etc. As angry as he was for he was now someone who came across as opportunistic and selfish.

Now, I didn't really have a problem with both leads being shown as selfish because at the end of the day nobody is perfect and flawed characters are far more interesting. It is the writing that I had an issue with. The marriage track was just the worst written track ever. It was devoid of logic. Apoorva may be a great actor but Rajveer is probably the worst written character in the show. To show a CBI official fabricating evidence to make an arrest was bad enough. But now somehow an officer of the law wants to murder innocent people? Whatever his enmity with Papa Hooda, a better way to show it would have been Rajveer actually being an honest officer who fights for truth and justice and someone who knows that PH is dirty. The writers completely dropped the ball there.

Now coming to the last week of episodes - I may be the only one but I really enjoyed it. Because the writers went back to what was so good about the show in the beginning - conflicting human emotions. I could see both points of view and could also how Aditya was blind to certain things because of his new found love for his parents. Doesn't mean it will always be the case. For the story to move forward, it is important for both Zoya and Aditya to find out what happened to PooSH. Even if that means finding out every gory detail of their affair. Pooja and Yash were 100% wrong to cheat but as I have said before cheating does not happen in isolation. This wasn't about a serial womanizer or a woman who slept with every available man. It was about two people who met 5 years too late but who fell in love anyway even though they were aware of the consequences of such a decision and action.Both marriages lacked communication and on a more fundamental level trust. Neither Pooja or Yash trusted their partners enough to tell them what they were feeling and how it affected them emotionally. They were also emotionally weak people who believed that Zoya and Aditya were weak too (which we as an audience know is actually not true).

Cheating is a complicated issue. Because sometimes circumstances matter. For instance, sometimes a death of child causes parents in their utter disbelief and grief to do things they may never normally. Not that this is an excuse. But this happens in real life. Also, sometimes finding out that your partner had a physical relationship with someone else is less painful than finding out that your partner has been emotionally involved and loves someone else. That is infinitely more hurtful. But more often than not, sometimes, cheating happens because society is patriarchal in nature and it is easier for women to accept it and move on - whether that's good for her financially or for her children - which is probably what Anjana thought. And sometimes, it is one moment of weakness that one's partner is able to forgive an move on from. It's very hard judge how people react when confronted with a cheating partner. Because reactions vary. And what we believe we will do if we were in that situation is not necessarily what we actually do.

Human beings are not monogamous by nature. It is something that has been imposed on us through over time and influence of Abrahamic faiths. If you go back to Roman society or even early Vedic society...polyamorous relationships were very common. Marriage too is a modern concept - not that it is a bad one. A lot of us here are married (me too btw, lol). It is not uncommon within relationships to meet somebody else who you may be attracted...and yes I mean sexually attracted to. But the difference is how we all choose to act and behave in such situations. In a marriage that is built on trust and open communication it is easy for partners to have an honest discussion about such things, without it hurting anyone's feelings. The problem arises is when relationships aren't built on strong foundations to begin with. In Zoya's case - infatuated love and in Aditya's case - a friendship that probably was never as good as he remembers it - childhood friends are not necessarily good (in terms of trust) friends...there are exceptions of course.

If the writers approach it from a very human manner, this story has the potential of being great. I can see both perspectives and I actually do not see the writers, at this moment, justifying EMA. Nobody will. What I do see them doing is pointing out that these things are far more common than we think and they are not always some sleazy itch to be scratched situation. Sometimes people who cheat can care for their spouses but be in love with someone else and sometimes act (which is, I repeat, 100% wrong morally) on them.

Sorry about the long posts guys. Verbal diarrhea - it's a disease 😆

Edited by delena90 - 7 years ago

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Neha

@silky_harshad

Inactive

+ 3

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Harshadholic
Wow your post is so apt.. not a 90s kid but yes my mom is a tv buff and when she saw Silsila promos on colors she spoke about Saans..She told me about Neena Gupta..it was one fantastic show abt EMA.. it didn't strike me then ..I don't know anything about Saans but this show is different n.a...
Trying to cope up with EMA is different and blindly supporting your husbands EMA is another thing..Yes Aditya Hooda was not bashed bcos everyone felt he is a child trapped in a man's body and he will become mature when he starts to face reality but I agree he wasn't bashed up like the way zoya is getting her share of ice bucket challenges.

Another thing female fanz like Mr. Chopda and r pretty impressed by his acting skills..maybe or totally wrong here
So they the bashing isn't up to d mark

. However do want to point out that many trp jantas expected a glorified main leads, some one who changed overnight after their partners died ..many have gone back to watching Kektas shows..
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If you think Harshad and I am about the actor not the character has been spared by the imbecile morons for simply doing his job then sweetheart you are sadly mistaken. Nobody has been bashed more than Adi and Harshad. Just check twitter

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mans1234

@mans1234

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

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Lovely Post !!

To start of with i have watched few shows of 90's one of them being Hasratein which was based on EMA and was very nicely handled .. atleast they dint went ahead & showed that that their affair was justified .. for those 2 characters who went for an affair felt that they were correct but in no way their spouses or kids supported it or forgave them for their affair .. that emotional pain and anger was rightly shown.. Also in 90's the episode was telecasted one a week so the story was in shown to the point and the story was shown in the way it was meant to until Ekta entered the telly industry & changed the face of ITV in the most hideous manner possible .. in name of woman concentric shows she made the shows more regressive and women was the portrayed as superwoman with no self respect at times .. in name of feminism she showed men in a not so good manner .. so face of ITV changed and pattern followed as that bought them commercial success which is the only thing that matters now i guess ..

Now coming to Bepannah i was attracted to the show as i wanted to know how 2 people who were cheated & managed to deal with the issue and they eventually giving love a second chance ..

initially i could relate to Zoya her innocence was i taken aback with and her faith in her spouse was so pure .. so i was very much excited to see that when she realizes that her faith and when that purity in marriage they had was broken what vl she do .. she was fine till divorce paper track where she was just so broken that she wanted to end her life .. now Zoya is in a different tangent who just in her stubbornness is approving her husband's affair pure .. accepting it is one thing & proving it is pure is another which is something i cant relate .. u cant approve of EMA .. in real life when a woman goes through the same thing vl she be claimed to be a bad wife just coz her husband dint bother to communicate .. it is an insult to those women who are going through immense pain ..

Aditya on the other hand who through his anger is venting out his pain .. i feel Aditya's character was also criticized in the few tracks for his behavior towards Zoya.. he was not spared too for creating problems in her life..

but i can relate to him as he knows when to stop letting your heart control your brain .. initially i vl admit i dint like he unnecessary given constant attention to Zoya, who was practically a stranger to him for no reason but i guess he did so as they were going through the same pain and hence could understand her ...

Now currently in the show EMA is shown kind of correct .. it is very imp to understand that due to any reason if you start meeting someone outside the marriage whom you get intensely pulled towards then u have to learn where to stop - Try to 1st work out if your spouse .. relationships are hard , there is certain amount of hardwork which goes in .. u have to communicate, discuss and make it work .. relationships are incomplete without fights , honesty & communication .. Here PooSh failed in all 3 .. they claimed their spouses dint understand them .. true they failed there but they were never dis-honest , they communicated and they were loyal .. PooSh should have fought with their spouses and make them realize they u are hurting us ..they dint do anything and just went ahead ...

If marriages comes to an end due to such reasons then no marriage vl work ... Understanding moves both ways .. If AdiYa failed then so did PooSh and big time ...PooSh were behaving as if they were physically/mentally harassed by their spouses .. instead of criticizing them behind their back they should have worked on making their marriage work instead of giving such lame excuses ..

My issue is the way they handling EMA and defending it be it through Zoya or Aditya does not matter .. if in near future Aditya starts siding with Zoya then forget it that would be a final blow ..

Right now Zoya's approach towards this affair is so wrong , even if i try to understand nothing makes me pull towards her logic ..

Bepannanh is turning like any other show and if they continue to show such sensitive matters this way then i dont know what to say ??? Show drama, show illogical stuff but dont show wrong and important topics like this by glorifying it ..Nothing can justify EMA so its high time they stop that ..

Sry for the long post !!!

Edited by mans1234 - 7 years ago

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