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infinity101

@infinity101

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Good post TM 😊.it's good to read neutral opinions here every once in a while.

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swetha2204

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Thread maker... making fun of someone behind their back is not bullying.. you have written so much but sorry I still cringe when I see her crying scene and laugh when I see Shilpa imitating scene.. it's making fun behind someone's back but NOT bullying.. and regarding justifying her making fun.. let me tell you something we were 8 people watching that scene and Hina crying was so cringeworthy we were all laughing so will you tell we are bullying.. that's ridiculous if it was real crying we would have been emotional but it was like seeing her damn serial..

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kashishsr

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: swetha2204
Thread maker... making fun of someone behind their back is not bullying.. you have written so much but sorry I still cringe when I see her crying scene and laugh when I see Shilpa imitating scene.. it's making fun behind someone's back but NOT bullying.. and regarding justifying her making fun.. let me tell you something we were 8 people watching that scene and Hina crying was so cringeworthy we were all laughing so will you tell we are bullying.. that's ridiculous if it was real crying we would have been emotional but it was like seeing her damn serial..

Making fun of peoples' emotions is characteristic of bullies. The kinds of faces that were made were just plain mean - it looked awful and succeeded in making me feel worse for Hina than her crying would do. Everyone was having an emotional day but what Shilpa did was cruel. My post was directly asking you to please show me another view of it so thanks for attempting that, but I don't think we can judge how emotional somebody actually is. I had the same issue with Hina and Arshi judging Shilpa as unemotional because they don't really know her and some people find it harder to express, but what Shilpa did was by far the worst thing I've seen in a while.

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Picasso9

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

I really like your perspective on everything so far and would love to read your perspective on the others too.
Fantastic and so refreshing from some of the other rabid posts.
Re the bullying, I agree with you. I also se it as passive aggressiveness.

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kashishsr

@kashishsr

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Richa.pokeship
Good post TM 😊.it's good to read neutral opinions here every once in a while.

Thanks, I guess I enjoy the show, but sometimes we don't like certain actions 😊

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kashishsr

@kashishsr

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Picasso9
I really like your perspective on everything so far and would love to read your perspective on the others too.
Fantastic and so refreshing from some of the other rabid posts.
Re the bullying, I agree with you. I also se it as passive aggressiveness.

Thanks for taking the time to read my views 😳 - I have plenty of perspective but it tends to change as the days go on and we see more shades to each character. I guess I understand how it could be perceived as passive aggressiveness... fine line human beings walk on. 😊

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Anushka Mukherjee

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

You write it very nicely. Even I laughed when Shilpa was doing her drama... It was funny. But I agree making fun of someone's emotions is not right at all & Shilpa did this most of the time.

Actually it's mostly happened with Hina because believe it or not but she overreacts ... She gives reason to people laugh at her. Then again we r nobody to judge someone's emotions.

One thing I don't like that most of the people in here or in Twitter always makes fun of Hina or Vikas 's reactions... For them whenever Hina cried it's all for camera.. there r no real emotions ... & If Vikas cried or shows his emotions then he's playing victim card, he doesn't have patient, he's Coward... & Bla bla bla... But the same people support Shilpa ... They stand s with her, when she cries, pura Twitter pe trends chalu hojate hai... As if kitna Bura hogaya hai unke sath.. I don't understand this hypocrisy I mean ek ladki ki every tears is true , all emotions r true but uski jagah koi or hoto they r playing victim card... Hateing or dislikeing some contastent is different thing but always is type ke illogical Posts pad ne Ko milta hai na dimaag kharap hojate hai.

Is just that, is season main Jese contestants ki bich mein bad blood, negativity hai ... Same way main yeah fandoms ki bich bhi bhotot Jada hai. I mean Apne Apne favos Ko support karo koi problem nahi hai but always defaming other contestants for it .. is really disgusting.

I don't even like Hina but still I think people judges her too much I mean she's not the best but itni buri bhi nahi hai kai uski har statements ke Liya usse judge Kara Jaya.

Same goes with Vikas ... This guy says everyone's face that he's playing games sill people say he is a Dirty player , selfish, bla..bla.. I don't yaar.. khase logo lagta hai.. he's bad human being ... Neural points dhekke bhi mujhe Kabi nahi lagta .. this guy plays games in a clean way most of the time.. he is no Saint, he has his flaws, biggest flaw is his blabbering mouth, but still he is good at heart.

Shilpa ji ki fans ka pyaar unke liya itna hai na .. ke sometimes her fandom forced people to dislike her because of they defented her so much.. that it's become annoying .

I like her it's just that I don't understand why people hype her so much ... Defending someone always even when they r wrong it's really not good.

PS: sorry for such a long post . Thanks for your timeing.