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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

This is where I made a point in my Topic related to Ishawari, that she should relise the Anmol Ratans (Dev & Sona) who are around her, protecting her, loving her, caring her...

I completely agree to you that Ishawari has never been a Friend to her children, SHe never cared much for Neha while growing up, Yes she had many other things to worry and think about, But the Time she invested in Dev, she never did the same to her other 3 kids.. no wonder Neha or Dev never share much with her, but are just there to sort out Ishwari's problem.

Dev is living the best moment of his life now, Reason Sona Understands him so beautifully and maturely, Like in yesterdays epi, they both Praise each other heartly, that is because both know what Dev is in real life, If not for Sona, he would have become more stone hearted, more egoistic, Neha Would have never got permission to Marry Ranveer.

Ishawari should realise this as soon as possible, else she will lose her son again.

he will love her, respect her for what she did for him... but he will never confide anything to her ever ... the guilt and his Love and passion for Sona will always keep him restless and he will eventually get to sona by hook or crook, the way he used to first when he was not DEV but DEV DIXIT...this will creat more passion n love for sona in his heart


very true...i feel the moral of this story will be that a mother has to realize that forcing son to sacrifice his love will not bring him closer to her but will actually create distance because with a broken heart dev can never be the old dev...he will still love his mother but there will be an unsaid distance between them..

only by allowing her son to fulfill his dreams ishwari will be able to further strengthen her bond with him...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Loved ur post a lot !!! ❤️


I actually feel sorry for the Dixit kids specially Dev - Neha. If u look at their interactions ...they are so poor in expressing their feelings ...all they know is to vent out, Dev is beginning to learn to express since he has been with Sona but Neha still has to walk that distance. Here is where I want Ranveer to be there to walk beside her ...she will learn ...she will come around for sure.

Yesterday when Neha and Sona were talking , if u see, Neha was listening so intently...how much she has missed a companion , a friend all her life ... someone to talk to , to share things with, to listen to , to talk to ...to express and also listen to things from other's perspectives ! The vulnerability in her eyes at the end of the scene when Sona said dont dress up to please the world ...dress up for ur Love made her understand the simple thing ...the difference in materialistic pleasure and real pleasure ...the contentment ...she understood and obeyed without a word of resentment !! It was so beautiful .. I was almost crying at the end of it.


Look at Dev ...he is always looking for quick solutions rather than trying to understand the issue and taking a practical approach...here is where Sona has started to make him understand the difference where expressing is a must ...u cannot expect the other person to understand on his / her own ... ur actions must reflect ur thoughts / ur approach towards others ! He too understood!

These two poor kids just need communication and expression to say their feelings out ...thats all !!! Sadly they did not get it all their childhood... in the run against time to gain materialistic life ...they both lost out on these small things...my heart goes out to them really !

Ishwarii...Ishwarii...please please talk to ur kids ...talk I mean discuss / open up ...please be open to what they want ...!! Sigh ...Dev will still suffer ahead because once again she will not express and seeing her silent refusal ...Dev will not be able to do what his heart is aching for !!! Bechara bachaa !!!


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaliah3108

Loved ur post a lot !!! ❤️



I actually feel sorry for the Dixit kids specially Dev - Neha. If u look at their interactions ...they are so poor in expressing their feelings ...all they know is to vent out, Dev is beginning to learn to express since he has been with Sona but Neha still has to walk that distance. Here is where I want Ranveer to be there to walk beside her ...she will learn ...she will come around for sure.

Yesterday when Neha and Sona were talking , if u see, Neha was listening so intently...how much she has missed a companion , a friend all her life ... someone to talk to , to share things with, to listen to , to talk to ...to express and also listen to things from other's perspectives ! The vulnerability in her eyes at the end of the scene when Sona said dont dress up to please the world ...dress up for ur Love made her understand the simple thing ...the difference in materialistic pleasure and real pleasure ...the contentment ...she understood and obeyed without a word of resentment !! It was so beautiful .. I was almost crying at the end of it.


Look at Dev ...he is always looking for quick solutions rather than trying to understand the issue and taking a practical approach...here is where Sona has started to make him understand the difference where expressing is a must ...u cannot expect the other person to understand on his / her own ... ur actions must reflect ur thoughts / ur approach towards others ! He too understood!

These two poor kids just need communication and expression to say their feelings out ...thats all !!! Sadly they did not get it all their childhood... in the run against time to gain materialistic life ...they both lost out on these small things...my heart goes out to them really !

Ishwarii...Ishwarii...please please talk to ur kids ...talk I mean discuss / open up ...please be open to what they want ...!! Sigh ...Dev will still suffer ahead because once again she will not express and seeing her silent refusal ...Dev will not be able to do what his heart is aching for !!! Bechara bachaa !!!



WORD to everything you said here aaliah. Being a mother, I can understand Eshwari's struggle in her life but i respect Dev & Neha for their sacrifices while supporting their mother. Writers can give me infinite number of flash backs of Eshwari's struggle but what i see here is 2 innocent kids lost their childhood. Childhood is the basic foundation in anyone's life where parents need to take care of their kids emotional needs also along with their physical needs.
I felt really sad when Dev said in confession time that he can see colors but he cant feel them. Colors represent emotions. These 2 kids were too busy in carrying all those burdens on their little shoulders in their life without any emotional support to guide them at the right time.
Did Eshwari ever understand what these 2 kids went through in their life?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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The analysis is super..everything you said is correct ..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaliah3108

Loved ur post a lot !!! ❤️



I actually feel sorry for the Dixit kids specially Dev - Neha. If u look at their interactions ...they are so poor in expressing their feelings ...all they know is to vent out, Dev is beginning to learn to express since he has been with Sona but Neha still has to walk that distance. Here is where I want Ranveer to be there to walk beside her ...she will learn ...she will come around for sure.

Yesterday when Neha and Sona were talking , if u see, Neha was listening so intently...how much she has missed a companion , a friend all her life ... someone to talk to , to share things with, to listen to , to talk to ...to express and also listen to things from other's perspectives ! The vulnerability in her eyes at the end of the scene when Sona said dont dress up to please the world ...dress up for ur Love made her understand the simple thing ...the difference in materialistic pleasure and real pleasure ...the contentment ...she understood and obeyed without a word of resentment !! It was so beautiful .. I was almost crying at the end of it.


Look at Dev ...he is always looking for quick solutions rather than trying to understand the issue and taking a practical approach...here is where Sona has started to make him understand the difference where expressing is a must ...u cannot expect the other person to understand on his / her own ... ur actions must reflect ur thoughts / ur approach towards others ! He too understood!

These two poor kids just need communication and expression to say their feelings out ...thats all !!! Sadly they did not get it all their childhood... in the run against time to gain materialistic life ...they both lost out on these small things...my heart goes out to them really !

Ishwarii...Ishwarii...please please talk to ur kids ...talk I mean discuss / open up ...please be open to what they want ...!! Sigh ...Dev will still suffer ahead because once again she will not express and seeing her silent refusal ...Dev will not be able to do what his heart is aching for !!! Bechara bachaa !!!



very nice post...how true that ishwari has never created the bridge of communication with her kids...although dev and ishwari has many communication scenes but in those it was only about ishwari and family...dev worried bout her health or worried about neha...but never did he get the chance to talk about his own dreams or wat he wants from his life...and ishwari is happy with that...as long as dev is true to his responsibilities toward his mom and family she hardly cares about anything else...

today it is sona who is teaching dev and now even neha the importance of opening up...i wonder wat ishwari will hv to say wen she will know that neha listened to sona but refused ishwari...

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