Worte a ciritcal blog post on this show - Page 2

Originally posted by: Jade0001

I have to admit you took time out to pen down your POV

But I was highly surprised as you mention what men would actually like women to be dressed as its a modern world and now men also realizes they cannot judge women by their dressing

I understand parents always want their daughters married to a men that is grounded and has a firm income one that can look after his wife and why not nobody wants to suffer right but again the important factor LOVE has no creed , religon , caste , or financial status . Love just happens when least expected so falling in love with someone that is not of your financial bracket means absolutely nothing . Hell I would prefer marrying a girl that comes out of a decent family one that has morals and values respect and etics not someone that is wealthy her richness or her father's wealth will not help me in any way

likewise Neha too has fallen for guy she feels deserves her love not her wealth or his financials .

I thinks all mothers in this world is selfless mine owns a company yet she sacrifice every ounce for family .

I was thought as long as the person that stands in front of you is human than respect him or her and always be social so about the issues of people suffering its a global problem

there is different kinds of love but when a person really falls in love it takes time even for that person to realize it so how would the other person realize , Love is not a game its a deep feeling and one needs to be 100% sure what you feel is love and not attraction so Dev having sisters and could not read Sona he is a guy not some made machine .

Love is only love its not business one can be a successful men in business but love is about one's life one's soul

Dev never truly connected with Natasha no matter what her profession is he is looking for a soulmate not falling in love with business .

I agree Arrange Marriages are stronger but Dev and Sona have no arrangement they fell in love I don't see any wrong message been send out at all

Thanks to all of you who took the time to read and reply, it takes time to do what you guys did. I was exhausted after writing such a lengthy post and searching for the references which I hyper linked in the post.
I took iterations to reduce the raw wording in the post, but some stupid things in the show made me keep them.

Please remember that the show is directed by a human(s) and as such will have its own shortcomings, any system designed by humans has its own flaws.
On the other hand if the show were to to run in the way I described, the bulk of people would have accepted it regardless, this is because of some type of bias, can't remember the exact term for that type of bias.

It is hard to make people watch realities(documentaries, real life stories), many of us find it boring, and instead prefer fictional/fantasy shows for example GoT, so producers dramatize and dope(distort the truth) to make it attractive.

Anyways, most of you have read the post, I was hoping people would also read the background of my thoughts(the hyper links in the post), I generalized due to these patterns observed by some well know people who have shared their opinions.
That does NOT mean they become rules, I do not claim that, nor do they.
Extreme/minor number of cases do fall outside these patterns and they are called anomalies/outliers.
I was thinking it would be better to cover something which affects the common man and keep it as realistic as possible, than covering something which is rare and imaginary, like the story in the show. To some extent the show was correct, but it is getting diluted.

It takes time to read, digest what I have shared and observe that in life.
If you still disagree at any point with/without dwelling futher, that is ok, good luck with your life, we cannot expect each and everyone to take an introspected approach in life.
But do let the people who think and have deep understanding share their opinions, like few of you did.