They actually talked today

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Either they've fought or had moments but for the first time they actually talked to each other - about Guddi, his work. Again Vividha keeps pushing Atharv away. I don't know what it will take for her to cross that boundary honestly. She keeps resisting though she very much has the feelings. But I do know it's easier said than done because as backwards as it sounds, for girls to go against their parents wishes...it's not so easy as it is for a guy. Actually it's a far cry from easy and I've witnessed in my personal life with close ones so I do get her predicament.

I actually wanted Vividha to apologise or at least thank Atharv but instead he seemed to have forgotten the insults and was back smiling again. I would've loved to see him immerse in his own pain even if in solitude but that emotion was dismissed.

It was interesting to see that Vividha actually blaming herself for the bad things happening in Atharv's life. Never thought of it that, never thought she would think of it that way either but Atharv really puts her on a high pedestal.

Kiss on the file part...well she was staring at lips for the longest I've known a heroine stare at them.

So Vividha what will it take? I think people will be angry with her today and maybe Atharv too but like I said, for a girl to dismiss her father's wishes it's not so easy. They may want to ease the new slot audience in too...

Originally posted by: utopia_

Exactly, for the first time they had a meaningful conversation & it was nice. I actually wanted Vividha to apologise to him but that never happened, I don't believe Atharva should be the one to apologise at all. At least Vividha shouldn't be expecting an apology after the way her father insulted him, that should make up for it. Atharva seems to be forgetting a lot of things nowadays😆he never seems to get annoyed/angry with her, I think he just sees her as naive & so he takes it all in lightly, even when she goes against him. I think he knowsVividha hasn't accepted her feelings yet that he doesn't expect her to be in his favour maybe? But it's annoying that Atharva is always having to ask for an apology when he's not in the wrong, I kind of want that spunk he had at the beginning of the show, but then again if he reacted Vividha will dismiss him once again even if he has every right to stand up for himself, whatever her father said should not be forgiven. I'm wondering myself, what will it take to accept her feelings? I'm not expecting her to accept her feelings so quickly though due to her father, so I think it'll take some more time. I think people are starting to dislike the pace of the show because they believe the story isn't moving ahead, but in my opinion, knowing that the other lead is supposed to enter someday the love story between ViTharv needs to be solidin order for Atharva's mental illness & Vividha's possible unhappiness in the marriage to make sense, so of course, there's not much happening in terms of the storyline but the main focus right now has to be ViTharv so, like I've said before, for it all to make sense.

I was actually surprised to know that Vividha blames herself, at least there's some sense of remorse there for him.

She's obviously holding herself back, but at the end of the episode when she thinks she pushed Atharva too hard over the balcony (I have a feeling he's hiding from her to see her reaction😆), she looked absolutely terrified & the tears in her eyes, the worry shows she has a soft spot for him, therefore, feelings. She's just in a state of denial & confusion right now, & that's what the CV's are attempting to explore for now as we know Vividha is not as forefront or as staightforward like Atharva, she's different & that obviously requires time for her to change.

Sorry, I didn't realise how long this would be😆but yes, that's personally what I think of the current track so far.

Originally posted by: -poloenigma-

Vividha doesn't need to be in love with Atharv to defend him or ask for forgiveness. The least she could have done today was apologize for her father's behavior. If Atharv can apologize for grabbing Kailash's collar, why can't Vividha apologize on her father's behalf?

A person who has regard for another human being's emotions and feelings won't condone such behavior. Vividha showed no remorse, no regret whatsoever. When she saw Atharv begging for apology again, she took it for granted that Atharv probably wasn't that hurt by her father's words. Or maybe she simply doesn't care.

Atharv has lost his self respect. Which makes his character so much less appealing. I'll be waiting for the day Atharv grows a backbone strong enough to stand up for himself and his mother even if it means he has to go against the love of his life.

Love shouldn't make a person weak. And if that love makes you weak, then that love is not worth it. And love has made Atharv weak and spineless.

The conversation with Vividha should have been limited to warning Vividha about Chintu's intentions. He should have told her what he SAW and HEARD with his own eyes and ears. The begging business ruined that scene. What's worse was Vividha's insensitive attitude to Atharv's feelings. She stood there like a queen contemplating whether to forgive Atharv or not. WHAT ABOUT HER SORRY? What about her dad's behavior?

Vividha today lacked basic human decency to ask for forgiveness. She blew the chance to seek an apology. She need not be in love with Atharv to apologize for the wrong that her family has done. It's as simple as that.

The relationship is getting toxic now.

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Either they've fought or had moments but for the first time they actually talked to each other - about Guddi, his work. Again Vividha keeps pushing Atharv away. I don't know what it will take for her to cross that boundary honestly. She keeps resisting though she very much has the feelings. But I do know it's easier said than done because as backwards as it sounds, for girls to go against their parents wishes...it's not so easy as it is for a guy. Actually it's a far cry from easy and I've witnessed in my personal life with close ones so I do get her predicament.

I actually wanted Vividha to apologise or at least thank Atharv but instead he seemed to have forgotten the insults and was back smiling again. I would've loved to see him immerse in his own pain even if in solitude but that emotion was dismissed.

It was interesting to see that Vividha actually blaming herself for the bad things happening in Atharv's life. Never thought of it that, never thought she would think of it that way either but Atharv really puts her on a high pedestal.

Kiss on the file part...well she was staring at lips for the longest I've known a heroine stare at them.

So Vividha what will it take? I think people will be angry with her today and maybe Atharv too but like I said, for a girl to dismiss her father's wishes it's not so easy. They may want to ease the new slot audience in too...

Originally posted by: muskaan2298

I so agree with you thats its hard for girls to go against family's wishes. And I can where Vividha is coming from, she has been raised to obey her father's wishes so it almost impossible for her to defy him. However, I would really like to see a step in positive direction in regard to Atharv. She should have really apologised today. It feels like she has no regard for Atharv's feelings and is almost treating him like a doormat.

I was even a little bit disappointed with Atharvs characterisation. Although like its been mentioned that Atharv is looking at the bigger picture, that she makes him happy and he understand her naivety. But his introduction was soo different to his current characteristics. Viewers were made to know about his immense respect and love towards his mother and we have seen his devotion to his mother but where was that today? I did not like how he let his mother feel insulted and hurt just because he did not want to hurt Vividha. I am not going to say he is spineless because he is not but I miss the Atharv with fire in his eyes, and passion in his voice and that will to fight we saw in the beginning. Love is supposed to make you strong, its supposed to make give you power but in Atharv's case, its rendering him weak. If not for himself, I really wished he stood up for his mother. And I think if he has done that, then he should have made Vividha understand that he, just like her, cannot see his mother feel insulted. And Vividha should be able to understand that.

Though like you said it was interesting to see Vividha blame herself for the incidents that have happened in Atharv's life, I never thought she would see it this way.