To Err is Human.

Originally posted by: ice _girl

Nicely said ... he made a mistake n acceptd it rathr than lying or hidng

B/w hvnt seen much bt qs is does dis happen in real life dat a person is angry n goes 2 his frnd ... do dey seriously hv ONS or coz d oder person is sober n wud make d frnd in angr leave for d nite 2 clear his head ...

seriously wud d sobr frnd do dis ... wat if she ws engaged or married ???????? ws dat d only way 2 calm an upset frnd

As in odr shows dey show dat ONS happens if d person if upset or angry ... y idoes dis happen ... 2 show one is cherished or him nt 2 brk y is dis d only way shown in tv or films ???????

Originally posted by: Mahi78

Nice post Medha, even I loved this new twist, and appreciate the CVs for even taking such a big risk, 😊

Yes to Err is human after all. But to accept it take more courage than that, and moreover his lifetime redemption for his mistake, which no law can ever give such justice.

Even I'm a big fan of Harry Potter and the today's scene reminded me of prof.Dumbledore in 7 th part.😊

Originally posted by: medha16

Interesting question u put there.

What i feel is that when you are too affected by your emotions, by your desperate need to belong somewhere, u try and reach out to another person hoping for that comfort, that warmth u so needed right then.

We still don't know what exactly happened right there but Tarini was the one THERE with him when he was falling apart, she cared for him and maybe she saw that he required a human touch for one moment, to feel loved, to feel the care. U seldom think with your rational side when your emotions are at an all-time high and are all over the place, u just act according to how u feel, how the situation turns out to be. These things are never planned and that's what happened with both of them. They just gave in to the need of the hour.

It would have been a different issue had Tarini been married but the fact was that she wasn't and she was there with Kabir at that moment when nobody else was there.

And also, I feel that relationships cannot be compartmentalised like that. A person can share a sexual relationship with someone and still be their friend. It's a matter of personal choice. It''s a different matter altogether that the feelings Kabir and Tarini share are really platonic but that does not make either of them a "bad friend" if they had actually continued to sleep with each other after everything just by being friends.

Originally posted by: medha16

Thanks! 😊

Actually i was thinking about Dumbledore, Snape and even harry's musings of not being perfect, of not being a hero while writing that line.

Originally posted by: medha16

Interesting question u put there.

What i feel is that when you are too affected by your emotions, by your desperate need to belong somewhere, u try and reach out to another person hoping for that comfort, that warmth u so needed right then.

We still don't know what exactly happened right there but Tarini was the one THERE with him when he was falling apart, she cared for him and maybe she saw that he required a human touch for one moment, to feel loved, to feel the care. U seldom think with your rational side when your emotions are at an all-time high and are all over the place, u just act according to how u feel, how the situation turns out to be. These things are never planned and that's what happened with both of them. They just gave in to the need of the hour.

It would have been a different issue had Tarini been married but the fact was that she wasn't and she was there with Kabir at that moment when nobody else was there.

And also, I feel that relationships cannot be compartmentalised like that. A person can share a sexual relationship with someone and still be their friend. It's a matter of personal choice. It''s a different matter altogether that the feelings Kabir and Tarini share are really platonic but that does not make either of them a "bad friend" if they had actually continued to sleep with each other after everything just by being friends.