Yeh bhadki kyun hai yaar? - Page 17

I am in a mood to rant , so please indulge me

Jaisa tu chahta hai, waise hoga...main yeh pooja teri mumma ke saat karoonga"

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD what the hell was Raman thinking when he decided to do the Pooja with Shagun? 😡 I would very much like to know what he was thinking. Please somebody just tell me already.

Is Raman so gair-guzra that he too will need Ruhi's wake-up call to make the decision of who it is he has to do the pooja with? So what if Ruhi hadn't created the hungama we know she wll, would Raman have gone ahead and performed the pooja with Shagun? That pooja which he is supposed to do with his wife Ishita? Which rightfully belongs to her?

• Sabse badi sachayi yeh hai ki Adi ke Maa-Baap talaq-shuda hai..6 saal ho gaye iss baat ko.

• Adi meri jaan hai, meri kamzori hai lekin yeh baat bhi utna hi sach hai ki Shagun mere liye koi mayne nahi rakhti aur Adi ko yeh baat aaj nahi toh kal maanni hogi.

• Adi ko iss baat se sehmat bhi hona padega ki uski mummy-papa ek saat nahi ho sakte ab. Usse comfortable hona padega iss sach ke saat. Shagun iss family ka hissa hai lekin sirf uski Maa ki bataur par hai who, USKE PAPA KE PATNI KI NAHI!!!

Where are these words? Vanished into thin air? Has Raman has gone 6 years back in time? Because his actions clearly indicate the same...he seems to think something as life-altering as divorcing Shagun and then again life-altering as marrying Ishita hasn't taken place; that he and Shagun are very much together. How else can one explain him not taking any efforts *rati bhar bhi* to make his first born see the actual truth? But is rather busy misleading the GKC and giving him hopes of a future together with his parents as a couple.

By agreeing to Adi's whims wasn't he clearly allowing Shagun to come between Ishita and himself?

Just minutes before he comes down to the Lohri Function Raman was seen telling to himself after Ishu refuses to accept his half-sincere apology, that he should do something that would make Ishita see that he was truly sorry about what happened, that he trusts her and also so that she can trust your love. And to then go and do this. PATHETIC!!! With every action Raman is letting Ishita down because he is busy playing the majboor baap.

I understand Ishita's silence way better than Raman's hopeless helplessness. If Ishita kept completely quiet then it would have been something else but even in her anger she is communicating with Raman and letting him know of her disappointment in 'short-to the point' sentences.

As much as I want Ishita to scream and fight I get her dilemma she does not want to come in between Papa-beta even unknowingly. Somewhere she fears that she saying anything directly or indirectly will be perceived in the wrong way. So she is keeping away and quiet.

Even today when Adi introduces Ishita as their neighbor which is heard by everybody including Raman nobody takes the effort to correct him. Ishita looks at the Sr. Bhalla's, looks at Raman but they all pass weird looks to one another and then stands with their head bowed down. I agree Ishita could have corrected him, but is there a guarantee that it won't be the next topic of argument? 'Tum ne aisa kyun kaha"... 'Tumne kuch kaha hi kyun?"... 'Tumhari wajah se Adi ghar chod ke gaya" etc etc will fill the walls of Bhalla House. She has bore the brunt of one such incident so why would she want one again? But the Bhalla's or Raman could have easily corrected it, infact they should have; not only because it was wrong but because they owe it to Ishita but as usual they decided to let Adi get away with it.

So again I ask had Ruhi not advocated for Ishita, had she not spoken up would everybody and most importantly Raman stood as mere spectators and played puppet-puppet for Adi's khushi why his wife gets hurt in the process and cries.😭

'Adi ki khushi ke liye' this supposed action was taken. So will Raman do anything for the sake of Adi's happiness? Tomorrow if Adi says for my happiness Marry my mother Shagun' will Raman oblige? Will he jeopardize his and most importantly Ruhi's happiness which resides in her Ishima? To what extent is Raman willing to go for Adi's happiness?

Kuch bhi ho Raman shouldn't have agreed to this EVER. Even if Adi cribs or stays stubborn, even if Toshi Ji ask Raman to listen to Adi's demands...why say more agar Ishu herself asks Raman to do the pooja with Shagun...He should have put his FOOT DOWN and REFUSED. The ultimate decision making power lies within him. A man like Raman who claims to be very much in love with his wife, promises to respect her no matter what should not even contemplate to be a part of something like this. In a way by agreeing to do the pooja with Shagun he disrespected Ishita and her position as his wife, Ruhi's mom and the bahu of the Bhalla House. The guilt trip he takes after this if any, can never nullify what he did in the first place.

There is nothing wrong in wanting Adi's happiness but at what cost? The tears and pain of another person who happens to be his wife; Does she really deserve this 3^rd class treatment? Raman knows Ishu is hurt and still goes ahead with Adi's khushi than consoling his wife...This is pure abandoning in a way.

Is Raman such a pathetic irresponsible dad that he is fueling his son's delusions to keep him happy? Was this not the almost exact same reason that Raman shouted at Ishita (HNY Drama). Then why is he now turning complacent? WHAT CHANGED?

Shagun's game plan is crystal clear, she is using Adi to show to Ishita that the latter is an outsider and that she aka Shagun even if ex-wife is very much a part of Raman's life because she is the mother of Raman's son. And knowingly and unknowingly Raman is playing from Team Shagun. Raman has witnessed firsthand the games Shagun can play. He was a victim of her lies and betrayals and still not making an attempt to connect the dots. Highly Unrealistic!

Raman is failing everybody Ishu, Ruhi, Adi and Himself!!! Utho Raman...Rise...and prove that you are indeed a good person, a loving-responsible father for your kids and a great husband for Ishita.

The CV's need to stop destroying Raman's character beyond redemption!

Rant Over!!!!

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

I do not have it in me today to be positive or for that matter to do anything at all with this show. It is futile to rant as nothing is going to change, I am just saddened.

Saddened at the fact that they ruined an intelligent, emotional and a truly different show, saddened to see a beautiful story turned into a B grade bollywood movie with step kids behaving like devil, and sauten behaving like a true vamp.

I do not have anything else to say, I am truly saddened at the current state of YHM.

For puttar, I have no words.