Originally posted by: angelic567
this topic is nt related to d show... still i felt like sharing... today i had a group chat wid my frnds... it was abt discussion abt boys n girls... i was shocked at wat the boys said... they were repeatedly saying dat Ok, being a guy who was born and brought up in town of india currently living in US working as psychologist in prison will try to give my most honest answers, after that like it or hate it !!
1. men r stonger dan women physically yes men are strong than women, emotionally/practically, women are way way more stronger !!
2. women r equally at fault for rape because they dress provocatively not surprised hearing this, few years ago NYC police commissioner commented on eve teasing that gals should not wear too short clothes, many women also believe this so no matter how ridiculous this matter is, ppl do believe it 👎🏼
3. girls should not go out at night... it invites trouble forget girls, even boys shouldn't be going out late at night as it invites trouble. but unfortunately girls have much more to lose. my parents never allowed and till this date where i'm adult still ma questions me going out late at night, and hey she's roght in doing so
4. women should knw cooking and other household chores... its mandatory i don't know abt mandatory but it's beneficial if you know
5. after marriage even working should do d house jobs because they are supposed to well everyone is supposed to, just coz you work doesn't mean household chores will be done on their own, unless you can afford to get domestic help
6. there is no need for men to do house jobs because they are nt supposed to aila 😲 yeh kabse, guess all men in our family are stupid including myself to do household chores and even know how to cook few things 😆
7. women should always cover their body well not just women, i think men too need to cover thier body in public all the time, now to what extent ppl do is their choice 😛
8. even salwar kameez is nt worn properly... dats y women r inviting trouble you can take any clothes and not wear them properly which would invite trouble 😆 but on serious note un funfortunately society does believe it 🤔
9. women should nt b feminist.. else der husband may slap them i don't even know what feminist truly means, have yet to understand properly so no comment but slap them, well i think many ppl should be smacked back of their head, men & women 😛
10. women should listen to their husbands sure nothing wrong in that, but it goes both ways. Proper communication is important key so go ahead listen to ur spouse hubby or wifey
i was so disturbed by this discussion... these guys r very much educated... i tried hard to make them understand d importance of equality... bt dey wer nt able to understand... i am frm a city in kerala... i thought dat people here r much modern ... bt after this i am nt able to think rationally... healthy discussions r welcome.
I am giving this answer taking reality into account. If I am to say society one day will reach a point where there will be purity in ppl's eyes so regardless of what one has wore they respect the individual, i am delusional !! Forget abt rape, we all judge or make some form of notion based on how ppl dress. As far as rape goes it is true regardless of what one wears rape happen. But we can deny as much as we want but ppl do believe short clothes lead to this thing. Now 2 matter are here, one is fighting this nonsense idea so ppl come to senses and reform the MEN. But that is going to be long hard process. In the mean time also need to take steps to protect ur self. If taking few steps do that then take steps. call me old school but if that protects women of my household will do that !! Also there needs to be harsh punishment for crimes against women !!
I am not at all surprised listening to these views. I don't have many friends as I don't agree to these ideas so am ousted. Forget them, i am even not allowed to go to many relatives house as i object the way they talk to their wives, often get into fights with my cousins so I'm banned 😆
What is rather sad is women too believe these idea. Take a look at shows, how many female leads are shown with self-respect? Ppl will say it's for love, and i question what good is such love that doesn't have self respect? 😕 those shows get damn good trps !! Not just tv, i see that in my job, so many women come to guys in prison, like thy couldn't find anyone outside 😕
Oh well, discussion can go on forever, what's solution, that's work in process !!