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Posted: 11 years ago
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this topic is nt related to d show... still i felt like sharing... today i had a group chat wid my frnds... it was abt discussion abt boys n girls... i was shocked at wat the boys said... they were repeatedly saying dat
1. men r stonger dan women
2. women r equally at fault for rape because they dress provocatively
3. girls should not go out at night... it invites trouble
4. women should knw cooking and other household chores... its mandatory
5. after marriage even working should do d house jobs because they are supposed to
6. there is no need for men to do house jobs because they are nt supposed to
7. women should always cover their body
8. even salwar kameez is nt worn properly... dats y women r inviting trouble
9. women should nt b feminist.. else der husband may slap them
10. women should listen to their husbands

i was so disturbed by this discussion... these guys r very much educated... i tried hard to make them understand d importance of equality... bt dey wer nt able to understand... i am frm a city in kerala... i thought dat people here r much modern ... bt after this i am nt able to think rationally... healthy discussions r welcome.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Didn't they said dowry is must 😆

In kyunki show baa said to tisha that
Modern kapde pehanane se insaan modern nahi hota lekin modern vicharo se hota hai

Our education is giving us to learn monetary system and ignoring moral and value system. In school we learned about basic value and ethics but it was limited to marks only not related to practical life and here we lack and in home also we can see parents treat male child and female child differently. They don't do intensively but unintentionally and stop girls from freedom and don't say anything to their male child

Moreover our surrounding also have influence on us.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Just stay away from this guys of your college
They are born this way and no matter how much you try to make them understand...they are never gonna get it
Bunch of hypocrites that they are
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Didn't they said dowry is must😆

In kyunki show baa said to tisha that
Modern kapde pehanane se insaan modern nahi hota lekin modern vicharo se hota hai

Our education is giving us to learn monetary system and ignoring moral and value system. In school we learned about basic value and ethics but it was limited to marks only not related to practical life and here we lack and in home also we can see parents treat male child and female child differently. They don't do intensively but unintentionally and stop girls from freedom and don't say anything to their male child

Moreover our surrounding also have influence on us.

i knw society still works dis way... bt is dis the right way? shouldn't v change?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelic567

this topic is nt related to d show... still i felt like sharing... today i had a group chat wid my frnds... it was abt discussion abt boys n girls... i was shocked at wat the boys said... they were repeatedly saying dat
1. men r stonger dan women

Ask them on what basis they are saying this

2. women r equally at fault for rape because they dress provocatively

Lol even girl who wear Burkha they also get rape and 6 years old girl get raped why?

3. girls should not go out at night... it invites trouble

Boys should locked at home at night rape rate will decrease to and rape happend in day time too


4. women should knw cooking and other household chores... its mandatory

Lol we are independent in this matter. Boys are dependent on us in this matter


5. after marriage even working should do d house jobs because they are supposed to

6. there is no need for men to do house jobs because they are nt supposed to

This point prove that how much they are dependent on us and they said they are strong

7. women should always cover their body
8. even salwar kameez is nt worn properly... dats y women r inviting trouble

Lol don't they look at short skirt girls and port site 🤢


9. women should nt b feminist.. else der husband may slap them

Ohho they mean they are strong in this manner. If we girls are weak than slapping girls they are proving that how much strong they are


10. women should listen to their husbands

I do agree in this point. They should listen to their husband but don't follow their invalid decision 😉


i was so disturbed by this discussion... these guys r very much educated... i tried hard to make them understand d importance of equality... bt dey wer nt able to understand... i am frm a city in kerala... i thought dat people here r much modern ... bt after this i am nt able to think rationally... healthy discussions r welcome.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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the discussion is still going on between them... one guy just one guy... actually had sensible reply... he even said sorry for other guys reply... he said y shud guys lose their control seeing a girl's body? r boys dat weak?
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Originally posted by: angelic567

i knw society still works dis way... bt is dis the right way? shouldn't v change?


It depends on how much girls react to this. At somewhere girls ignorance towards this type of guy and acceptance of their invalid demand make them more confident on their act and it's happening from ancient days. Just because of that I am disappointed with sita ji agni pareeksha. I so wish she did not give agni pareeksha. If a husband can't trust you than what is the need to prove ur innocence in front of that person
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelic567

the discussion is still going on between them... one guy just one guy... actually had sensible reply... he even said sorry for other guys reply... he said y shud guys lose their control seeing a girl's body? r boys dat weak?

Sensible guys do exist but rarely
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well at this rate, men upholding such regressive views should be obliterated from d face of this earth ...
But jokes apart, u should stop associating with such "friends"(?) asap...
They r not good for your psychological as well as physical health ...

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