Raman's Behaviour as per spoiler - Page 2

@ All

Originally posted by: vids231

Sorry to say, nowhere i said he should shout or jump the gun ready for firing, but when wife is being slapped by the sister or her dignity and character being questioned one would at least expect the husband to support her dignity, rather than remain silent throughout. No woman would respect a man who lets his family treat her like the dirt, as is gonna happen as per spoiler.

Originally posted by: shinus

@ All

Please dont forget why this marriage was happen.. Its only for Ruhi. I don't know why everyone forget the fact that this marriage was not accepted by the both ISHRA.. so please dont jump ahead.. Please give them sometime to express their feeling first. then think of Raman being a good husband

Nice post. I don't care a damn abt Raman. But what abt ruhi in all this drama? If ishu is thrown out of home tat poor child will,again have a heart break. Won't Raman atleast consider that? Also..if there is a pervert alert in the family, parents should first take care of their daughters...I don't want parmeet to stay coz today his victim was ishu..tomorrow it could be ruhi. ...I wish Raman thinks abt it...

Well to all that believe that this post means Raman should shout around or be the romeo to Ishita's Juliet i would like to say that i did not mean any of that,here. And as for they married only for Ruhi, yes they did, but their relationship has developed much beyond that even if its not reached to love, as yet!

As well after all that she has done for all the members of that godforsaken and most ungrateful family including the so called Raman, least one could expect is support when she is being SLAPPED( pathetic! i don't know how Ektaa being a woman loves to promote physical violence in her serials)! that too for fighting for her rights and dignity!

I seriously don't understand how it would be better to stay married to a rapist, rather than break the marriage.(for Simmi). There was a post by someone who said Infidelity is by no means same as being a rapist!! Definitely agree 200% with that. But, its sad that many don't seem to realise that!! It would be better to throw out such a pervert from the house, where there are girls like Rinki and Ruhi! One should also think to protect them from this pervert guy! As for his own daughter, cannot expect such a guy to not try and spoil her life, as well in the long term!

Its very sad that in this century serials are promoting regressive thoughts that a woman's life is spoilt if she is separated from her husband and should stay married to him( even if he is a rapist who has already spoilt one or more lives), and there are actually viewers who support that view.

For me it is not the characters of the serial or what they are going through that made me put up this post, but the fact that serials ( being to an extent, influential in many peoples life are promoting such regressive thoughts!) and there are viewers to support this view point.

Now i understand why Ektaa loves martyrdom by her heroines, seem like all prefer that! Someone said Ishita is no typical Ektaa heroine, but i beg to differ in that when it comes to her In-Laws, she definitely has been the typical sacrificial lamb, symbolic of Ektaa heroines till date. She may be independent, educated and smart, but she's always taken all rubbish the Bhalla family threw at her after marriage, silently!

Lol! seem like my reply post is longer than my original!! But my blood boils, at all this crap and regressive mentality being promoted by this serial! Chiefly, sad that i used to love this serial ( as to some extent, had a bit of different expectation from it, than the usual)

(I hate this track!
Raman wont support ishu...
Ishu leaves home... I guess Shagun will try to get back in Ramans life!
Why ishu has to suffer always dammit! :

Originally posted by: vids231

Sorry to say, nowhere i said he should shout or jump the gun ready for firing, but when wife is being slapped by the sister or her dignity and character being questioned one would at least expect the husband to support her dignity, rather than remain silent throughout. No woman would respect a man who lets his family treat her like the dirt, as is gonna happen as per spoiler.