thala thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i felt wierd when i saw roma in mini skirt ( i hope i am right)
a future IPS in such a dress, i felt awkward

i do agreee for parties such attires are must
but i cannot digest a trainee cadet so

she could have come in a jeans ( sorry for being too conservative)

a person who is going to be in a very highly responsible position and in such a dress sends a wrong message ( sorry if hurt)

to be frank i found it one of the reasons for the rogues to misbehave with her
correct me if iam wrong

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Posted: 12 years ago
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yes akka.
as per your post, she was wrong..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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u r ri8.. dey r future IPS officer... dey hav 2 think abt dat also..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I feel its personal choices all have. They are stil trainee hence its not bad iif they were officers then it was bit thinkable. But stil i dont think personal and official shld mix up. And they were off from training. Hehe. May be rich people are comfortable and bought up like this.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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May be rich people are comfortable and bought up like this

may be ramya
Edited by thala - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Every person has the right to wear and do what they deem to be appropriate as long as they are not physically hurting or harassing anyone. What Roma decides to wear is her personal choice, just like being an IPS officer is her own choice. I see nothing wrong with what she is wearing.
I applaud Roma for showing she is the type of women who can be strong, courageous, hard working all while wearing heels and looking stellar.

BTW if Roma wearing a dress is such a big deal... then perhaps the guys should not have been drinking alcohol as that severally hinders your ability to make good decisions, and as a Cadet should you not be in full consciousness?
Edited by chocolatefreak1 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Rama I think it is the point cvs want to make
No one has a right to harass u for the way u look or for the way ur dressed
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I too feel the same thala... But it is about her choice... May be she could have worn some decent dress as she has come to a pub... She must be aware about the condition in the pub... There will be drunken guys like tis guy... I too felt awkward... She got into the trap by herself...😕😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I had actually sworn that I would never ever comment in the main forum..But extremely sorry to say,I would actually be a shame on womanhood ,if I do not voice my OPINION STRONGLY HERE.
I Have always maintained that Life is always about the CHOICES WE MAKE AND CHANCES WE TAKE.Dressing has NOTHING to do with STATUS.
Why bring in the question about a woman's CHOICE HERE.Sandhya walks in a saree in a night club...It's HER CHOICE ,Roma decides to WEAR a mini dress..It's her choice.
What is so IMMODEST here?She is not on the training field nor walking in the TA.She is also not on DUTY...
What a person wears and SPECIALLY what a WOMAN wears is HER CHOICE...RIGHT ? apart from her PROFESSION OFFICIAL DRESS WHEN ON DUTY..SHE IS BORN FREE TO WEAR WHATEVER SHE WANTS RIGHT??
I actually SHOOK my head when I read Roma Invited that harassment due to her DRESS???
REALLY??Do you think Women who WEAR saree are not molested ,RAPED ?
Do you really think women INVITES people with wearing such dresses*shakes head in disbelief*
  • Why don't we teach MEN NOT TO LECH ,MOLEST AND RAPE instead of asking questions about WHAT A WOMAN SHOULD WEAR OR NOT?
  • Why Don't We stand up for our RIGHTS instead of TRYING TO ASK WOMEN TO STAY AT HOMES...try checking their dress ...

When the entire nation is RAISING THEIR VOICES AGAINST PARTIAL BEHAVIOUR TO WOMEN;issues like RAPE AND MOLESTATION ARE RAMPANT-Instead of ASKING MEN TO BEHAVE we are MORAL POLICING and CURBING A WOMAN'S RIGHT TO HER DRESSING OFF HER DUTY PREMISES??

Sorry to say...But I nearly FELT OFFENDED AS A WOMAN...So the APOLOGY stated in your post was much needed.Thank you for that...

ONE MUST BE CLEAR ON THIS---

  • A WOMAN SHOULD BE FREE TO MAKE HER CHOICES WHETHER IN DRESSING OR HER LIFE'S DECISIONS...
  • No girl INVITES molesters or sets a trap for herself
  • Thousands of girls face sexual harassment even after dressing modestly
  • Categorizing women who wear short dresses as TROUBLE INCITERS is like issuing a statement as one of the so called custodian of the society gave in the Nirbhay case..(As if dressing modestly and calling the molester brother would really help)

To each his own..but here the DEBATE is not about VIEWS...it's about a MUCH MORE SERIOUS ISSUE


Edited by manzilmukul - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I understand your point my Rama ji..😳

Personally,i didn't feel bad or awkward seeing Roma in that midi outfit..She's an IPS Trainee Officer in her professional life,but in her personal life,she can do whatever she wants to! Only one thing i don't agree with is that..Her dress didn't make the rogues to misbehave with her! Badtameez ladke humesha badtameez hi hote hai..Nowadays,girls get eve-teased even if they wear proper Salwar-Kameez or Sarees!!! It depends on the niyaat of the guys..If a guy is good,no matter how short dress a girl wears & comes in front of him,he won't look at her with buri nazar..But if a guy is bad(like in today's epi),they'll even ogle at properly dressed girls!!! This is unfortunately the fact of India!!

Anyways,today,those rogues attacked Roma because they saw that her Birthday was being celebrated!! Hence their attention was caught towards her!!

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