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Posted: 1 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

After seeing today's episode I am thinking now he will be ready to marry haya if maa begum asks him after seperating from meerab.

The fact that he immediately said yes when he was suggested to take haya along with him.

No hesitantancy, no thinking, nothing.


this would RUIN it for me.. if murtasim ever agrees to mary haya or does!!! I wouldnt able to enjoy tere bin anymore.

Today’s murtasim made no sense to me. Completely out of character!! Even ma begum.

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Posted: 1 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

First will talk about meerab

She didn't even considered rohail as love interest. She clearly told him that she sees him as just friend.

And SHE DIDN'T TAKE THE RING

Yes it's so wrong of her to tell rohail about her marriage being name sake relationship.

But I want to defend her.

Rohail already knows her marriage is forced. So she might have thought her marriage being name sake isn't new information for him.

She sees him as good friend. And the way he talked about her personality. Everyone will feel he is good man who wants to help the girl he loves. We know his psycho ness. But she didn't.

She needed someone to vent out her feelings. So she said everything what she went through to him in flow.

Even if we say her actions are wrong.

Murtasim also talked to haya about his relationship with meerab when she was sitting on his BED, ready to feed him.

Both knew the other person loves them still discuss their marital relationship with them.

U all can share ur opinion too.

Meerab somewhere has my sympathy, I guess she always will have. Even in her conversation with Rohail today, her sadness was more evident then before.

Murtasim is trying his all, but the fact is she is not really happy and secure.

Haya is managing to pull Meerab away from Murtasim farther than he has not even imagined.

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Posted: 1 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: Heeba

Same i want to defend her on that. I think she just felt overwhelmed with everything thats happening, being adoptive, her marriage and now this whole pregnancy drama. I think she just needed a friend to talk.

She clearly sees rohail as a friend and confined in him. When you think about it, she has no one to talk to and she doesnt trust anyone in the Khan family after everything that happened.

So seeing her friend from university, with whom she spent 4-5 years, she simply needed to open up.

Opening up is fine but telling about her bedroom secret is not fine. Esp to a guy she clearly knows likes her. I have not seen even in western dramas where a female character openly speaks about her sexual life with her husband/bf to a male friend. It only happens when the girl is attracted to the guy friend and they end up having an affair or when the guy friend is gay.

She never even called this so called close friend of hers when she needed someone the most and now she is spilling the biggest secret of her marriage to him. He has been calling her for so long and she never picked up his calls or saw his messages.

Also this happened before she came to know murty left with behaya. So she was also enjoying all the flirting and attention murtu has been showering on her lately. So what exactly does she want. She is all smiling shyly on murtu's advances and showing haq over him openly when it comes to haya and then she goes and tells her guy friend who just proposed her with a ring about her contract.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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I think Murtasim and Haya actually had a friendly relationship before. They probably used to go out a lot together. You can tell that by how Haya talks about the past. I’m pretty sure Haya didn’t lie to Meerab on the wedding day. But I’m pretty sure their relationship changed before Murtasim got married. I don’t understand how he can change so much. I get that he might have some sympathy for her. Maybe he is afraid that she is going to do something stupid again, but I just don’t understand how he can be this stupid. He knows Hayas intentions, everybody in the house does (maybe not Anwar) so why did this happen. How can anybody think it was a good idea to send her with Murtasim. This was just stupid. He said no to taking Anwar, no to taking Meerab and no to taking his mother with him. Then what is the logic behind taking Haya with him. So she can keep maa begum updated on the situation. Like there aren’t servants there that can talk to her. The whole situation is stupid and illogical. And a huge turn off.

At Least he makes it clear to Haya that he loves his wife and she loves him too. But how can he think this is ok? And how can he be ok with not talking to his wife for a whole day? So many illogical things happened in this episode.

I think that Meerab didn’t want to tell the family that she isn’t pregnant because she is afraid that they will know why. You can see throughout the episode her stressing about it. But she could probably tell the truth that her stomach is bad because of something she ate or take a pregnancy test and say it was negative. I mean so many things she could do. But I think she is waiting to talk to Murtasim before she does anything because she hasn’t said anything to clarify the misunderstanding.

I feel like people are kind of overreacting on the whole Rohail thing. Her meeting her friend is ok. But she should lie about it. But it wouldn’t look good if she met a male friend. I mean she got slapped when she danced at her waalima. If i was her I would be afraid of the family overacting again. She obviously didn’t want to meet him and was reluctant to talk to him on the phone. Eventually she gave in and met him because he was pleading with her. I mean that her friend and he are worried for her and came all the way to meet her. She probably felt like she owed him that. When he confessed to her she said sorry, but she never took him more than a friend. When he tried to convince her, she clearly said nothing can be done now and gave him the ring back.

Her revealing the truth about her relationship with Murtasim, about the contract is because of the pregnancy drama. She is stressed by the situation at home and doesn’t know what to do. The only person she can talk to isn’t at home. She knows that soon everybody will know and need her husband to help her figure out what to do and how to handle the situation. But he is not there. Because of the stress and having nobody to talk to she tells him the drama at home and everything that is happening to her and tells him that it is not possible because they don’t have that type of relationship. No, this is not ok. You shouldn't talk to a guy who just confessed to you about these types of things. You shouldn’t talk to a guy about types of things period. But she is stressed and needs someone to talk to and the only person she has right now is her friend that she has known for 4 years. It was extremely stupid and it is going to bite her butt later, but get why she said it.

The things Rohail said about Murtasim is probably going to affect her after the Haya drama. She will probably think that he doesn't love her and just married her for his izzat. If I don’t remember it wrong she did one time say that she is not going to get fooled by Murtasim. So maybe she doesn't truly believe that he loves her. I mean we as the audience have plenty of time wondered whether he is lying and pretending.

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Posted: 1 years ago
#76


I am not surprised by this.

this is the difference between "Ghar Ki Beti" and "Bahu"


Even Murtasim will defend all crimes of Haya cause she is there ghar ki beti , and if Meerab does mistake she will have to prove her innocence

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Posted: 1 years ago
#77

This is exactly what I send here. They think meerab's dancing in her walima is a dabba on their khandan but gives a blind eye to behaya's besharmi ka nanga naach all over murtu.

Itna nanga to deepika bhi nahi thi besharam rang song mein jitni behaya ke irade hai🤣. But everyone gives it a blind eye and gives her opportunities on a golden platter to be with murtu 🤪

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Exactly. And people called her emotional cheater yesterday when in today's episode she made it clear to rohail that she always see him as friend. Now will the same people call murtasim names?

She does not have any romantic inclination towards Rohail. She respectfully returned his ring. Even now, if she meets Rohail, it will not be because she wants to consider him an option, it will be because she might reconsider her life again. My heart actually went out for her when Rohail told her that the girl who used to be so vocal and active about women's rights could not fight for her own. That is the extent of damage Waqas, Anila and Anwer have managed to do. She is a mess internally.

Haya is definitely a bigger trouble than these two can ever imagine. She is pushing Murtasim away from Meerab by creating that emotional barrier, by deepening that sense of insecurity. Murtasim again is at major fault here. Even if she is your cousin, physical boundaries are a thing, especially when you are taken and claim to love your wife. Put that love into actions.


Just the way she runs to the village as soon as he hears Haya is with her husband, it must have really rattled and hurt her that her husband is with a woman who claims to love him obsessively. It will also be the first time she sheds tears for Murtasim.

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Posted: 1 years ago
#79

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

Meerab somewhere has my sympathy, I guess she always will have. Even in her conversation with Rohail today, her sadness was more evident then before.

Murtasim is trying his all, but the fact is she is not really happy and secure.

Haya is managing to pull Meerab away from Murtasim farther than he has not even imagined.

The way she talked to rohail by sitting as a lifeless soul really made me pity her.

And she left to village on the night itself when she got to know murtasim is with haya.

The girl who made her heart stone when her adopted parents closed their door on her face is again crying now for the man whom she started developing feelings and trust.

How can one not feel for her.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: spnfan

This is exactly what I send here. They think meerab's dancing in her walima is a dabba on their khandan but gives a blind eye to behaya's besharmi ka nanga naach all over murtu.

Itna nanga to deepika bhi nahi thi besharam rang song mein jitni behaya ke irade hai🤣. But everyone gives it a blind eye and gives her opportunities on a golden platter to be with murtu 🤪

And the murtu who indirectly defended his mother slap to his wife by saying u too shouldn't have danced, u too shouldn't have talked back is now ok with haya being obsessed with him. Cherry on the cake he is feeling pity for her. Wow.
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