Anni...🤗 for letting me know abt Neela's interesting post of comparison between ZGH and KYY...
well I honestly feel it's really not fair to compare the two shows as cultural background played a very major role in ZGH where as that is not the case for KYY...
BUT BUT BUT... having said that I agree TRUST is KEY issue in both the love stories.
Kashaf was always an insecure person to start with... she was insecure about her looks, about her social status (to some extend ashamed too) and her being worthy of any good thing in her life... it was very difficult for her to put 100% trust in people around her... As much as I like her on the show I always felt she always had her one foot out ready to take off even before she started her married life with Zarun... at a time I felt she was just waiting for Zarun to make a mistake so that she can call him out on it and take off ... for eg her hiding abt taking loan to buy a house for her mother; her pointed question to Zarun what if babies she is carrying are both girls and her reaction to Asmara issue to name the few...
Zarun was a male chauvinist to start with ... and he was ready to accept a very limited dominance of a woman in his life or the decisions that are to be made... but having said that he did accept Kashaf completely and made lots of efforts for making the relationship work...I would say he was more emotionally involved in his relationship compared to Kashaf...
As a collage going student Kashaf and Zarun both were shown immature, impulsive and egoistic... for me their love story actually started once they got married... and by that time both of them had some level exposure to the outside world... still they lack communication in their relationship which was the reason for their differences...
This is probably the only complaint I have with ZGH writing wise... I admire Kashaf's character but I still feel they could have made her a little more open and expressive her love towards Zarun...
Coming to Manik-Nandini...
Nanini Moorty is 180 degree opposite of Kashaf... She is young beautiful courageous teenage girl... she is naive at a times with a very positive outlook towards life ... she always believes to see good in people and giving them second chances... in spite of whatever Manik Malhotra put her through she did see the goodness in him... even before falling in love with him or getting into relationship with him Nandini has put her 100% trust in Manik being a good person at heart and as their beautiful journey progress foundation of that trust just got strengthen...
whether Manik and Nandini are together or apart they never lost that TRUST in each other... and communication is the strengths of their relationship... Manik is not comfortable expressing his thoughts ... but for Nandini he has learned to do so... they even talking abt intimacy with so much sensitivity.. that is the first time I have ever seen it happening in Hindi or Marathi serial...
Both Manik and Nanidni kowns when to draw the line and stop fighting... which is one more quality I like about them...
Manik has always treated Nandini as his equal... he never dismissed her being a girl / woman... he wanted to start their journey as a couple by giving Nandini opportunity to do all the horrible things he did to her so that they can be on equal footing... and that just makes him stand out...
"Manik we can not be equals by repeating each other's mistakes... together we can learn from them to be better... we both are flawed dono main kamiya haine... We both are imperfect but when we are together... we are PERFECT" ... This moment just captures the essence of this relationship... and that's just makes this love story UNIQUE for me...
Just want to say... these two love stories are UNIQUE... and can not be compared IMO...😊
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