Who is Imlie's plastic surgeon?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Her wound on her upper chest just below the shoulder is healed completely, without even a tiny scar to show where the bullet went in.


Absolutely amazing!!! I want to meet her plastic surgeon! Also, she is totally fine in less than a week. Super amazing.


Also, this show is stupidly regressive. 😕 In all these years of serials, Indian TV has not progressed when it comes to women: it shows women's worth is ultimately tied to a husband. Aditya's female cousin is angry because she doesn't have a husband to pray for! Seriously? she should be bloody grateful she kicked him to the curb for cheating!


Imilie is now doing shit with sindoor and stuff because her only worth is being Aditiya's secret wife. What happened to Imilie from Pagdandiya who didn't want to marry???? Besides, she is the product of a single unmarried mother. This doesn't jive with her background.


I am done!😔

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Posted: 3 years ago
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It's Frictional ITV Show🤣Yaha Sab Chalta Hai Jab Tak Trp Aati Rahe😆

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Indian tv patnis/bahus are superwomen. Even if a blue whale falls on them,.they will come out through the nose of the whale,with a single scratch on head🏋️

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To be honest I think Imlie's obsession with marriage and husband comes from her being the product of an unmarried woman only. It has psychologically scarred her. All her life she's seen her mother being humiliated by the society and Nakli Nani for an act for which two people are responsible but only her mother paid the price for it all her life . If she was a wife , even if her husband would have left her and ran away, she'd still have some respect and social standing. Growing up, Imlie also must have faced her share of her mother's shame , being called product of liaison all her life . People asking her father's name and she having no answer. During Adini marriage when Anu asked her about her father it snapped her into demanding rights from Aditya , when earlier she was okay with letting his 2nd marriage happening. Because it's her trigger point. The humiliation she faced at not being able to answer Anu's questions reminded her of all her humiliations at home because of being a love child.

She thinks if a woman has sindur in her maang and mangalsutra and a Pati, she has social acceptance and respect. It's based on her life experience at Pagdandiya. She needs to understand there is a world outside of Pagdandiya where people think very differently. Where who she is ,her own achievements will matter more to them than who's name tag she carries. And for that realization or understanding she needs to venture out to the world, meet new people , make new friends, most importantly she needs to study. Education is the real eye opener for a girl. The moment a girl finds her own footing in the world it empowers her , makes her realize she's enough for herself. She doesn't need validation from a husband to be validated by the world. But Imlie is trapped in a vicious cycle. Her sense of self worth is at rock bottom. She can't see beyond her Patni dharm and one sided marriage. She has a loooonnnnggg way to go.

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Originally posted by: MusicMuse

To be honest I think Imlie's obsession with marriage and husband comes from her being the product of an unmarried woman only. It has psychologically scarred her. All her life she's seen her mother being humiliated by the society and Nakli Nani for an act for which two people are responsible but only her mother paid the price for it all her life . If she was a wife , even if her husband would have left her and ran away, she'd still have some respect and social standing. Growing up, Imlie also must have faced her share of her mother's shame , being called product of liaison all her life . People asking her father's name and she having no answer. During Adini marriage when Anu asked her about her father it snapped her into demanding rights from Aditya , when earlier she was okay with letting his 2nd marriage happening. Because it's her trigger point. The humiliation she faced at not being able to answer Anu's questions reminded her of all her humiliations at home because of being a love child.

She thinks if a woman has sindur in her maang and mangalsutra and a Pati, she has social acceptance and respect. It's based on her life experience at Pagdandiya. She needs to understand there is a world outside of Pagdandiya where people think very differently. Where who she is ,her own achievements will matter more to them than who's name tag she carries. And for that realization or understanding she needs to venture out to the world, meet new people , make new friends, most importantly she needs to study. Education is the real eye opener for a girl. The moment a girl finds her own footing in the world it empowers her , makes her realize she's enough for herself. She doesn't need validation from a husband to be validated by the world. But Imlie is trapped in a vicious cycle. Her sense of self worth is at rock bottom. She can't see beyond her Patni dharm and one sided marriage. She has a loooonnnnggg way to go.

She wasn't trapped before, this patni jaap is out of nowhere. Totally unfitting to her character.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: MusicMuse

To be honest I think Imlie's obsession with marriage and husband comes from her being the product of an unmarried woman only. It has psychologically scarred her. All her life she's seen her mother being humiliated by the society and Nakli Nani for an act for which two people are responsible but only her mother paid the price for it all her life . If she was a wife , even if her husband would have left her and ran away, she'd still have some respect and social standing. Growing up, Imlie also must have faced her share of her mother's shame , being called product of liaison all her life . People asking her father's name and she having no answer. During Adini marriage when Anu asked her about her father it snapped her into demanding rights from Aditya , when earlier she was okay with letting his 2nd marriage happening. Because it's her trigger point. The humiliation she faced at not being able to answer Anu's questions reminded her of all her humiliations at home because of being a love child.

She thinks if a woman has sindur in her maang and mangalsutra and a Pati, she has social acceptance and respect. It's based on her life experience at Pagdandiya. She needs to understand there is a world outside of Pagdandiya where people think very differently. Where who she is ,her own achievements will matter more to them than who's name tag she carries. And for that realization or understanding she needs to venture out to the world, meet new people , make new friends, most importantly she needs to study. Education is the real eye opener for a girl. The moment a girl finds her own footing in the world it empowers her , makes her realize she's enough for herself. She doesn't need validation from a husband to be validated by the world. But Imlie is trapped in a vicious cycle. Her sense of self worth is at rock bottom. She can't see beyond her Patni dharm and one sided marriage. She has a loooonnnnggg way to go.


This has been beautiful put and I could not agree with you more. It’s easy to say for everyone for imlie to move forward but there are some scars and experiences one cannot let go overnight.😌


she is still naive and really has not seen the world for what it can be and what it is. The darkness and lack of confidence is the change of scenery and worth. You name me one person that can jump from a fire and expect change overnight. The world is not full of roses and unicorns.

For all the arguments we present of she should know better how could she when she has never seen her mother fight the jibes of society. Her freedom is linked to herself and she will become the imlie we know once she freed from the promise she has made to people in the past and present.

she loves to make her mother proud and say what we will when it comes to there wishes we all tend to bow down and one should not forget her believes are her own. The path she took was the value she holds for the teaching. The sindoor she wore as much as we hated the event happening holds value for her because it was one right her mother never got and longed to see. 🙂

It’s priceless in her eye even if the beholder doesn’t deem her worthy of it because in his eye he is used to his routine and his believes. For is he not educated and does he not speak of morality and truth. Trust me it’s easy to preach but hard to follow. At least we should give Imlie a award for being true to her routs. She had lived by her teachings and held up to her values.


For some that might be a sign of weakness but for me it a sign of strength that she will one day walk away and want more. She will become the girl that lived upto the promise of her dada one rupee which will ripe to become gold.

Furthermore the lack of a male figure and a stable home contributes to the situation she creates. It’s not why she does what she does but what has lead her here for roses do sting and this is what she is learning. For a change of scenery doesn’t change how people react it once ability to hold there own that matters. Especially when it comes to her and Aditya. 😔

She is to learn that just because people are sweet doesn’t mean they are pure at heart at least with anu we get to see the woman for what she is. She speaks her mind and fears for that can be said less for some. 😒

It’s not a case of whom is her plastic surgeon but what does she want to move forward. I just hope the makers show us how she will go and study.

I don’t believe she needs another male lead to help her realise this. I feel rupali can be the lady to help her be free for she had suffered from deception and a divorce. Why cannot she be her mentor and educator.😏


Thank you for bringing some positivity to this episode😊 for it was much needed.









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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: MusicMuse

To be honest I think Imlie's obsession with marriage and husband comes from her being the product of an unmarried woman only. It has psychologically scarred her. All her life she's seen her mother being humiliated by the society and Nakli Nani for an act for which two people are responsible but only her mother paid the price for it all her life . If she was a wife , even if her husband would have left her and ran away, she'd still have some respect and social standing. Growing up, Imlie also must have faced her share of her mother's shame , being called product of liaison all her life . People asking her father's name and she having no answer. During Adini marriage when Anu asked her about her father it snapped her into demanding rights from Aditya , when earlier she was okay with letting his 2nd marriage happening. Because it's her trigger point. The humiliation she faced at not being able to answer Anu's questions reminded her of all her humiliations at home because of being a love child.

She thinks if a woman has sindur in her maang and mangalsutra and a Pati, she has social acceptance and respect. It's based on her life experience at Pagdandiya. She needs to understand there is a world outside of Pagdandiya where people think very differently. Where who she is ,her own achievements will matter more to them than who's name tag she carries. And for that realization or understanding she needs to venture out to the world, meet new people , make new friends, most importantly she needs to study. Education is the real eye opener for a girl. The moment a girl finds her own footing in the world it empowers her , makes her realize she's enough for herself. She doesn't need validation from a husband to be validated by the world. But Imlie is trapped in a vicious cycle. Her sense of self worth is at rock bottom. She can't see beyond her Patni dharm and one sided marriage. She has a loooonnnnggg way to go.


Great points!! I love your analysis.👍🏼

So Imilie's background must mean that she is seeking that one thing her mother was denied: marriage, a husband, and all that ensures. So while rejecting the whole idea of marriage as a teenager, she is subconsciously craving for that very same thing! Brilliant!! . And she had it, fleetingly, only to lose it again. Now that her marital status is in limbo, it must make her very confused, not knowing how to move forward! And she is only 18.

She is at a crossroads; double-down on her patni dharam and continue as a secret wife, or venture out. Go to school, meet other people, learn about the world. The real Imlie must not be bound by tradition. I don't want her to seek only normal safe things; I want to see Imlie break the mould!

Are you listening CVs?😊

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Posted: 3 years ago
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It’s not a case of whom is her plastic surgeon but what does she want to move forward. I just hope the makers show us how she will go and study.

I don’t believe she needs another male lead to help her realise this. I feel rupali can be the lady to help her be free for she had suffered from deception and a divorce. Why cannot she be her mentor and educator.😏


Thank you for bringing some positivity to this episode😊 for it was much needed.





Hi raaz,


I didn't mean it quite literally. smiley4

My point was that this show has no continuity. She is dying from a bullet one week and is completely recovered without a scar the next week!

Also, it is just my unique sense of humor and style of writing. smiley36 Very evident in the previous forum I participated in. Takes me a while to warm up!

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Hi raaz,


I didn't mean it quite literally. smiley4

My point was that this show has no continuity. She is dying from a bullet one week and is completely recovered without a scar the next week!

Also, it is just my unique sense of humor and style of writing. smiley36 Very evident in the previous forum I participated in. Takes me a while to warm up!

Sorry didn’t mean to come across so forward 🤓 a error on my part like yourself I took got carried away.

I know you didn’t mean it literally 🙂 I just loved the metaphor for you may have been focused on the bullet wound but you did highlight the fact very well that’s she had got scars which have not healed and need healing. Especially the emotional once she has suffered because of social issues of acceptance etc. we as viewers want romance acceptance and education and so much more but at the same time we cannot expect her to become someone she is not in a night and it doesn’t help when Aditya and malini whom have seen the world in a different light cannot offer any support. 😒


For one doesn’t always need the guide of a farther or mother but can get these from others too..

And yes please do keep making such post it’s nice to see what everyone has to say 😊


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Great points!! I love your analysis.👍🏼

So Imilie's background must mean that she is seeking that one thing her mother was denied: marriage, a husband, and all that ensures. So while rejecting the whole idea of marriage as a teenager, she is subconsciously craving for that very same thing! Brilliant!! . And she had it, fleetingly, only to lose it again. Now that her marital status is in limbo, it must make her very confused, not knowing how to move forward! And she is only 18.

She is at a crossroads; double-down on her patni dharam and continue as a secret wife, or venture out. Go to school, meet other people, learn about the world. The real Imlie must not be bound by tradition. I don't want her to seek only normal safe things; I want to see Imlie break the mould!

Are you listening CVs?😊

And by her village experience she's not wrong either, if we see in that perspective.

When the villagers saw her with Aditya as his wife , standing by her husband, accepted and acknowledged, during their recent Pagdandiya trip and Aditya doing all the rituals and even in other activities that he needed not necessarily, like participating in the kite flying competition or visiting Imlie's school on her teacher's request , all these definitely increased her social standing in the eyes of the villagers and gained their respect and regard. Let's not forget the villagers still think that they did sleep together on that stormy night ,at least most of them does. But since they're married and together now, they're brushing out all aside and what was then treated as a shame is now being treated with utmost reverence and almost worshipping , many times the villagers literally called Aditya as Devta treating him like God for giving Imlie the respect her mother was denied .

We can tell about right wrong progressive regressive all day. But this is how it is in many places of Rural India and yes India is 70 % rural area still. India is not confined to it's megacities, cities and towns and suburbs, it actually starts beyond them . And the matter of the fact is , in those places a married woman has far more regard in the eyes of the society than an unmarried one , after a certain age especially.

This is why she's so hung up on Sindur mangalsutra and this unacknowledged marriage. It's not like she's lost all her self respect. In fact just the opposite. Inside her mind she associates the marriage and her married status with some thing that she yearns for more than anything and never got - respect in the eyes of the society. She did consider throwing away all signs of marriage but she's psychologically programmed to not being able to let go.

It's easy for us, sitting in our comfort of home life , where we've social respect and position as well as name of our fathers, simple things that we don't even think of consciously since we're having them from birth to judge a girl who never had any of these and never had any chance to have a life either where these things won't matter to her anymore.

In the city also she gets asked by every one who is her father and she's no answer ,must be acutely humiliating.

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