Blast From The Past: Saif Leaves Amrita Singh out in the cold - Page 2

Originally posted by: desigal90

This article fails to mention that the fight was form both sides.

1) Amrita threw Saif outta the house, he left the house for his kids and wife and didn't fight for it
2) He froze his accounts in retaliation coz Amrita wouldn't let him see the kids, so the lawyer suggested till the divorce proceedings go through they freeze the account.

Obviously Sara feels otherwise. She's wise enough to know that divorce is ugly and both parents fight and things get messy. But of course on this forum; one side is always made out to be the villain.

Saif was f**ked up for cheating, and was f**ked it to Amrita.
But he was fair to his kids and Sara's behavior on the show is proof.

Originally posted by: Nishita123

Reading all those articles...seems like Amrita went through some really difficult time...It's very nice of Sanjay Dutt, Jackie Shroff to offer her financial support...even though Amrita didn't take it. Its nice to have supportive friends around in such situation.

I just came across the video when they appeared on Simi's show and so ironical that Saif used to Ask Amrita - why are you so calm and not annoyed with me - are you having an affair with someone ? will you run away ?

Originally posted by: crispsy

As if Kareena waa the reason why Saif left Amrita.. Its not wrong if someone moves on in life rather clinging on past. There werent even blinds that Kareena despise Saif's other kids.
Amrita had to restart career? I know she struggled but one shouldn't just give away career just becoz they are married & have kid. Dont that every other women do? Its upto you to believe or not if families are still in feud, but things changed a lot. Its people who will still continue to gossip & spreading things like they are just pretending. & its not indian tv anymoee where step mom & kids will keep hating each other for the rest of the life. Peace.

Originally posted by: Golden-dew

The phase just before and after separation was messy. Saif handled it all wrong. It was very juvenile of him to be frivolous about marriage. He probably felt very guilty but tried covering it up with retaliation than simple understanding. Pataudi's always stayed away from Saif-Amrita's marriage just like they did/does with Saif-Kareena's. Two adults got into a relationship n marriage so its their responsibilty to handle it not their family's. He was an arse to cheat and later being defiant and unapologetic about it but he did eventually turn a new leaf and tried to redeem himself. Amrita was wronged so was bitter but once the anger subsided she did what was right and let go of the bitterness and became a bigger person. The respect she instilled in her children her own conduct in public vis a vis Saifeena and her kids equation with them is very commendable. Theirs is true case of jo hua acche ke liye hua. Breakups are sad n painful especially when it involves marriage, kids n family but its way less painful than living with someone whom u neither love nor respect. Sara put it very well..its better to have two loving homes than one unhappy n loveless house.

Kareena never had anything to do with Saif-Amrita's relationship. She came in much later and if anything she actually worked as a catalyst in normalising the complicated equations they all had at that point in their lives.

Originally posted by: 4thPrincoholic

Wow .. if that's how things unravelled, then all good things heard on KWK from Sara about Said and Kareena shows Amrita's bigger heart and good upbringing! Sad what she went through ... divorces are tough even tougher on a lady with two kids in her mid 40s!