Anupama single-handedly ruined Aadya's life

Shayad ab bhi Upamaa bhootani ko chain nahi pada hoga. Although makers to upper caste regressive mentality se inspire hokar jo kuch bhi garbage dikha rahe hain wo anjaane me unhi long held studies aur puraane kai darshaniko ki baato ko sach sabit kar raha hai ki "Maa baap ke karm baccho ko bhugatne padte hain."

Agar ise thoda modern vocabulary ke hisab se kahe to Anupamaa ko intergenerational trauma pass karke bada maja aaya. Ek ko criminal banaya, dusre ko ghamandi aur nalayak... Teesre ko scapegoat bana kar paala aur us bechare ka murder ho gaya. Fir bachi Aadya.. to Sara experiment usi ke saath kar dala. Apne Paakhi, Toshu ko isne adult age me bhi toddler ki tarah treat kiya aur Aadya se na sirf bachapan me hi bade ho jane ki umeed ki, use separation anxiety, abandonment aur fir emotional abuse diya balki use to competition bhi kiya.

To lo... Anupamaa Maiya ki ek aur jimmedari shuru hue! Abhi ladki jaise survive kar rhi hai. Achhe-bure tareeke se. Maa ke lifestyle ke hisaab se to Aadya me sanskar ki kami hai. To Maa independent aur akeli Aadya ko wapis laayengi aur Dependent, traumatized aur again akeli banakar chodegi. Anupamaa verse me Shah house ke bahar koi Banda choti si bhi galti karta hai to maa use bhar bhar kar lecture deti hai, criminal declare karti hai. Lekin ab wo Aadya ko sikhayegi ki beti aise ulte pulte tareeke se paise naa kamao, tum ghar aao aur Parivar (Shah House) ke logo ke crime ko chupane me apni jindgi basar karo.

Not only Aadhya , she ruined Anuj , samar , Shruti and mukku life too . Joh bhi anupama ki life se jutha hai uski life ruined ho jaati hai

Not just Anupama, even Anuj has ruined Aadhya's life. This shameless cheater Anuj had ditched Sruthi by breaking the engagement with her. Anupama broke the happy family of Anuj, Sruthi and Aadhya.

She was like Vanraj after marrying Anuj. Aadhya was forced to compromise on each occasion. Why did she propose to marry Anuj when she did not want to cut off ties with her toxic ex family? Anupama had the opportunity to say NO for adoption. Even though she had failed as a mother to her 3 bio kids Toshu, Samar and Pakhi, she had adopted Aadhya. Anuj had high expectations from Anupama after their wedding but Anupama could not live up to the expectations.

If the makers had really wanted to get Anuj and Anupama married, they could have written the story as follows.

01. Anupama not accepting any gifts from the toxic Shah family after divorcing Vanraj.

02. Anupama becoming well educated and speaking good English (With Anuj funding Anupama's education and her English classes).

03. Anupama preparing her kids for the life ahead and the challenges it had to offer, telling them that you 3 have to become independent and I might not be there every time like before.

Anuj deserved a better wife than Anupama because Anupama's character did not get the elevation that it really deserved.