Anupama instead of becoming an inspiration to other battered woman in life is becoming an test case to avoid in life
Reasons are in plenty
1) One is Anupama never changes in life - See your parents may accept you as simple dressed without knowing english but a spouse has expectations from you. Like vanraj had or anuj had from anupama or kids like pakhi, toshu had. atleast to some extent you have to change in life not be rigid like anupama. So if husband vanraj and kids wanted modern mom why anupama did not dress better and nicely and groomed herself going to beauty parlour etc that is least she could do in life. also why she could not learn a bit of english going to english classes or online etc or from her own kids samar or toshu. You cannot behave like rigid like anupama that i will never change or learn anything new in life.
Like when our parents were born there was no computers, mobiles, whatsapp do they not learn it now. Did they say why after 40 years i should learn mobile or whatsapp no they learnt or uber app usage. Even in food competition she refused to change only cooked gujarathi dishes never learnt anything new cuisine in life. Atleast do masala dosa from south or upma from south or rasgoola from west bengal no. If not french toast or mexican or italian pasta/pizza
One biggest problem of anupama is shes struck in 1980s when she was in school/college never progressed in life never wants to change never wants to learn anything new in life. I mean 70 year olds are passing 10th now or going to college in india because they could not as kids.
2) Anupama thinks shes perfect in everything - in reality she is zero in everything. I am not sure anupama thinks shes perfect in everything. Compared to even pakhi or kavya or devika or barkha or dimpy or shruthi shes a zero in life. These woman have atleast gone to college did college can work in any company all over world thanks to their qualification. But anupama has not learnt a single thing in life after leaving college at 18 years anything new. Atleast learn south india coooking east india cooking delhi mughal cusine atleast no. If not interested in college or education or english.
3) Anupama has God complex. Anupama thinks she knows everything in life so she starts giving bashans on every topic on life. That bashan is absolutely useless. Its like a uneducated shepherd giving bashan about theory of relativity to Einstein. I mean why she thinks she is an expert in all topic baffles me. She catually is bad at handling family relationships too so her giving bashan to barkha, adhya, dimpy, shruti, toshu actually is useless. Because these ppl may praise her on face but never follow her bashans or believe in them as they know her bashans are useless. But because they are family and friends they bear with her God complex
4) Anupama is highly unprofessional by nature. Like school she went late so fired. All of us cook for family than go to office. Do we reach 5 mins late also salary gets cut. Or in appraisal we will be given low ratings and throw of job. Anupama thinks oly she has house and family to take care. But nooo every woman does these jobs at home from india to usa to africa yet go to work 122 hours a day.
My mom gen would wake up at 5am than cook clean home feed kids hubby in laws etc pack tiffin for full family than go work 8 to 10 hours in company than come home at 6pm and than do all house work till midnight alone. No maid no mom in law no human to help only hubby helps to take care of small kids and aged parents or bring grocery etc. Alone full house work that gen woman would do plus go to work from 9am to 6pm with 1 hour travel to go and come back total 10-11 hours away from home. Now adays we have maids washing machine dish washer online banking mobiles internet etc but woman in 90s and 2000s early could not have all that too
If anupama thinks shes done some great job doing house work 26 years sorry shes not done 20% of work my mom gen woman did at home plus gone to work (and my mom is anupama/anuj gen only). Imagine doing back breaking house work than leaving kids to school than going to own company working 9 to 6 pm than picking up kids from school and going back home plus again doing back breaking house work this for decades alone. Thats what most of the 55-60 year olds of 2024 have done for 30 plus years alone mostly without maids or any family help. Are they going around praising themselves?
Anupama basically has no interest in doing any outside job in life professionally. Because she cannot work 9 to 6 like rest of us. You get salary in company or hotel so cannot act slack like home is it not? But anupama does all personal work and activty from 9 to 6pm work time. She calls at will family members on calls, she walks off to toshu or anuj home at will and wish leaving job at hotel. She basically cannot handle one single responsibility at job. Imagine this woman was kapadiya empire head and owner. No wonder it got closed and sold.
Its like bandar ke haath man adrak dena. Anupam acharacter is such shes unfit to be management or employee of any company forget kapadiya empire kind of corporate. With her ability to handle work even office boy clerk job or receptionist job no one will give. Because she cannot sit in one place and work from 9 to 6 in any place. She will run every 10 mins to family or take calls of family and gossip etc
I wonder how she passed school as school also you have to sit from 9am to 3pm
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