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Posted: 4 years ago
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This is a grieving post, if I may, for all the could have been's. For all the things we wanted to see and often thought, it should have been this. And now we have lost that chance.

All good bye’s are hard but some of them sting the most;especially those which forced on the two involved parties by a third one. And, now that we are almost there at the end, the most dreaded one, despite the recent negativity in the show; it has left us heartbroken. In less than 2 weeks we will not have few things to look forward to, no more waiting for new episodes to load on Hotstar, no more live updates discussion, no more spoilers and us waiting impatiently for them to turn out true or false and for many of us, no more any reason to log in to IF for a long time!

Its time to say “mehefil mein teri hum na rahe jo gum toh nahi hai. Kisse hamari nazdikiyon ke kam toh nahi hai. Kitni dafa subah ko apni tere aangan me baithe humne sham kiya”. ❤️


And while we are there, let’s summarize what all we had and what we could have had and what will be lost forever!

1. MishBir: First and foremost Mishbir! They have become such an important integral part of the day that I look forward to seeing them onscreen every day, no matter what. (e.g.I have an exam next week and I am still here, writing this). And now we are losing the chance to see Mishti and Abir onscreen 6 days a week (irrespective of the screen time) and will most likely never see them again.

2. Marrital bliss: We have seen them progress from friends to soul mates and beautifully so. We saw him courting her with his shayaris, we saw her fighting the world to be with him and we saw them glow in marital bliss. But now we are losing a chance to see what happened then? Their story unfold post marriage, their lighthearted fights, some serious issues, face offs with some difficult characters in their home, maybe misunderstandings between them for a while but still managing to find their ways back to each other.

3. The Rajvanshs: We saw Naanu, ketki, mamu, parul maasi and even jugnu bhaiyya always rooting for mishbir. But we lost a chance to see their own individual subplots and mishbir helping them in their lives.

4. Naanu being coolest parnaanu : We had naanu being the first one to see sparks between mishbir and fieriest supporter of them. But now we lost a chance to see naanu’s happiness when he learns he will be a great-grandfather (parnaanu), we lost chance to see him pampering them personally and then the baby, the happiness on his face.

5. Meenu’s face off with Karishma (mishti's mom): Many of were waiting for this. Some powerhouse actor in Karishma's role and then mishbir and Meenu's face off with her. Uff this would have been alag level aag scenario. So many possibilities were here to explore, but it is just could have been

6. MishBir’s work: We saw Abir being passionate about his work, NGO, apps and so was Mishti’s passion for social work. But we lost a chance to see what happened after they got married. Did they have any hiccups in their professions? Any ‘Abhiman’ type moments, where she was more successful than him? Or did they face any financial losses, got bankrupt (favorite track of many itv shows) and had to ask help from Maheshwaris but ego clashes did not let them? Or Mishbir joining family business?

7. MishBir’s baby: And finally something that was only shown in dream sequences. Their baby! 😳We lost a chance to see mishbir expanding their family and the infinite happiness that possible new life would bring to RJV and Maheshwaris. The baby being aankhon ka taara, them handling new parenthood, their own bonds changing with that new member and so much more.


All the ‘could have been’s’. The list can go on. Nannu's return, Ketki's marriage etc. Could have easily provided 6 months worth of story without dragging. Brings tears to my eyes, by just thinking about it and realizing what we have lost! Don't know who's bigger loser here, us, actors or CVs.

Probably, with time, we will forget about this pain of an abrupt closure, pain of something so special being snatched away from all of us, pain of losing something when neither actors nor audience were ready for it. But this one is going to sting for a long time!


P.S. On the off screen side we also lost a chance to see this show getting so many awards that they deserved, and a proper dignified farewell the least it deserved at this point.


P.P.S Of course this is a TV show and it had to end one day. The issue is not that it is ending, issue is HOW it is ending and that’s why the mourning!

Sorry for the long post. Could not help it.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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This is a Replica of my feelings. I want to see rhesha again on screen . No matter what the screen time was maybe for few seconds but that was magical. My day would start at 6:00 am for the updates. Can't hold now . I am crying .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: m4manju

This is a grieving post, if I may, for all the could have been's. For all the things we wanted to see and often thought, it should have been this. And now we have lost that chance.

All good bye’s are hard but some of them sting the most;especially those which forced on the two involved parties by a third one. And, now that we are almost there at the end, the most dreaded one, despite the recent negativity in the show; it has left us heartbroken. In less than 2 weeks we will not have few things to look forward to, no more waiting for new episodes to load on Hotstar, no more live updates discussion, no more spoilers and us waiting impatiently for them to turn out true or false and for many of us, no more any reason to log in to IF for a long time!

Its time to say “mehefil mein teri hum na rahe jo gum toh nahi hai. Kisse hamari nazdikiyon ke kam toh nahi hai. Kitni dafa subah ko apni tere aangan me baithe humne sham kiya”. ❤️


And while we are there, let’s summarize what all we had and what we could have had and what will be lost forever!

1. MishBir: First and foremost Mishbir! They have become such an important integral part of the day that I look forward to seeing them onscreen every day, no matter what. (e.g.I have an exam next week and I am still here, writing this). And now we are losing the chance to see Mishti and Abir onscreen 6 days a week (irrespective of the screen time) and will most likely never see them again.

2. Marrital bliss: We have seen them progress from friends to soul mates and beautifully so. We saw him courting her with his shayaris, we saw her fighting the world to be with him and we saw them glow in marital bliss. But now we are losing a chance to see what happened then? Their story unfold post marriage, their lighthearted fights, some serious issues, face offs with some difficult characters in their home, maybe misunderstandings between them for a while but still managing to find their ways back to each other.

3. The Rajvanshs: We saw Naanu, ketki, mamu, parul maasi and even jugnu bhaiyya always rooting for mishbir. But we lost a chance to see their own individual subplots and mishbir helping them in their lives.

4. Naanu being coolest parnaanu : We had naanu being the first one to see sparks between mishbir and fieriest supporter of them. But now we lost a chance to see naanu’s happiness when he learns he will be a great-grandfather (parnaanu), we lost chance to see him pampering them personally and then the baby, the happiness on his face.

5. Meenu’s face off with Karishma (mishti's mom): Many of were waiting for this. Some powerhouse actor in Karishma's role and then mishbir and Meenu's face off with her. Uff this would have been alag level aag scenario. So many possibilities were here to explore, but it is just could have been

6. MishBir’s work: We saw Abir being passionate about his work, NGO, apps and so was Mishti’s passion for social work. But we lost a chance to see what happened after they got married. Did they have any hiccups in their professions? Any ‘Abhiman’ type moments, where she was more successful than him? Or did they face any financial losses, got bankrupt (favorite track of many itv shows) and had to ask help from Maheshwaris but ego clashes did not let them? Or Mishbir joining family business?

7. MishBir’s baby: And finally something that was only shown in dream sequences. Their baby! 😳We lost a chance to see mishbir expanding their family and the infinite happiness that possible new life would bring to RJV and Maheshwaris. The baby being aankhon ka taara, them handling new parenthood, their own bonds changing with that new member and so much more.


All the ‘could have been’s’. The list can go on. Nannu's return, Ketki's marriage etc. Could have easily provided 6 months worth of story without dragging. Brings tears to my eyes, by just thinking about it and realizing what we have lost! Don't know who's bigger loser here, us, actors or CVs.

Probably, with time, we will forget about this pain of an abrupt closure, pain of something so special being snatched away from all of us, pain of losing something when neither actors nor audience were ready for it. But this one is going to sting for a long time!


P.S. On the off screen side we also lost a chance to see this show getting so many awards that they deserved, and a proper dignified farewell the least it deserved at this point.


P.P.S Of course this is a TV show and it had to end one day. The issue is not that it is ending, issue is HOW it is ending and that’s why the mourning!

Sorry for the long post. Could not help it.


Word!

Beautifully written. .

Highlighted just the points that crossed through the heart....

Feel for the actors,.they put such hardwork on this in a pandemic time and in return ..

Sad.!

This is gonna sting for a long time..!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovelycolour

This is a Replica of my feelings. I want to see rhesha again on screen . No matter what the screen time was maybe for few seconds but that was magical. My day would start at 6:00 am for the updates. Can't hold now . I am crying .

Sorry to make you cry. My eyes were moist too while writing this.

bold - I wish and pray.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: suryavni


Word!

Beautifully written. .

Highlighted just the points that crossed through the heart....

Feel for the actors,.they put such hardwork on this in a pandemic time and in return ..

Sad.!

This is gonna sting for a long time..!

Thanks dear. I just penned down the overwheliming feelings this good bye has brought, glad they resonated. Yes, the end's gonna sting very bad!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Emotional post, the imminent Judai from Mishbir is making us all feel the same things! The only consolation is we are all in this together, thousands of fans grieving the sudden and ruinous ending to a beautiful, unique show!

My biggest heartaches are number 1,2, 3, 4 and 7

The very thought that we won’t see fresh scenes of this gorgeous couple everyday, even if for a few minutes, is depressing.

I will miss them and I know probably we won’t see them paired again.

They deprived us of so many sweet, cute Romantic scenes of MishBir’s post marital blissful stage.

We never got Mishbir happy pregnancy moments, and never will 😭
The lockdown definitely killed our show. Alongwith the slot change and other scheming by PH.

None of the other family members got a proper ending especially poor Ketu who didn’t get a happy ending after 2 failed rishtas. Nanu couldn’t return because of current health situation. Jugnu, Mamu all roles ended before actual end. Only the negative characters are left behind.

Worst is how they are ending with utter negativity and leaving a bad taste in the mouth with this forced surrogacy. Mishbir were deprived of a proper storyline and real happiness of Mishti’s pregnancy.

As for Karishma I never expected her to return as she had abandoned her daughter so long ago, But it would have been nice to have a half brother or sister who would come to find Mishti and reunite with her. ❤️
Meenu ka pata nahin, I don’t think control addicts like her can ever reform. But yes, if Mishbir had their own kid, she might have become kinder towards Mishti, who knows.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Aww Manju please lemme give you a virtual hug for this post 🤗😭


Your post has made me emotional..I am gonna miss waiting to see glimpses of mishbir 6 days/week, I am gonna miss watching RheSha together, I am gonna miss this forum: the LU and the amazing posts you and others have written ❤️


Ending of YRPHK feels like a terrible break-up: someone/something very dear to us is being taken away on a such a rough note tearing us apart in the process 🥺


List for what we could've had is endless but there's no point of writing a wish list anymore. It's only gonna hurt more 💔


These lines you've added perfectly summed up our current feelings:


“mehefil mein teri hum na rahe jo gum toh nahi hai. Kisse hamari nazdikiyon ke kam toh nahi hai. Kitni dafa subah ko apni tere aangan me baithe humne sham kiya”. smiley27

Edited by Sumaiya27 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Emotional post, the imminent Judai from Mishbir is making us all feel the same things! The only consolation is we are all in this together, thousands of fans grieving the sudden and ruinous ending to a beautiful, unique show!

My biggest heartaches are number 1,2, 3, 4 and 7

The very thought that we won’t see fresh scenes of this gorgeous couple everyday, even if for a few minutes, is depressing.

I will miss them and I know probably we won’t see them paired again.

They deprived us of so many sweet, cute Romantic scenes of MishBir’s post marital blissful stage.

We never got Mishbir happy pregnancy moments, and never will 😭
The lockdown definitely killed our show. Alongwith the slot change and other scheming by PH.

None of the other family members got a proper ending especially poor Ketu who didn’t get a happy ending after 2 failed rishtas. Nanu couldn’t return because of current health situation. Jugnu, Mamu all roles ended before actual end. Only the negative characters are left behind.

Worst is how they are ending with utter negativity and leaving a bad taste in the mouth with this forced surrogacy. Mishbir were deprived of a proper storyline and real happiness of Mishti’s pregnancy.

As for Karishma I never expected her to return as she had abandoned her daughter so long ago, But it would have been nice to have a half brother or sister who would come to find Mishti and reunite with her. ❤️
Meenu ka pata nahin, I don’t think control addicts like her can ever reform. But yes, if Mishbir had their own kid, she might have become kinder towards Mishti, who knows.

bold - yeah. we're in this together, thats the only saving grace at the moment.

I would have loved to see meenu at least toning down on her negativity for a while (they tried to do this towards the end of PTSD but again switched her back) and some other person taking that place, enter mishti's real mom. anyhow, lost that chance too

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

Aww Manju please lemme give you a virtual hug for this post 🤗😭


Your post has made me emotional..I am gonna miss waiting to see glimpses of mishbir 6 days/week, I am gonna miss watching RheSha together, I am gonna miss this forum: the LU and the amazing posts you and others have written ❤️


Ending of YRPHK feels like a terrible break-up: someone/something very dear to us is being taken away on a such a rough note tearing us apart in the process 🥺


List for what we could've had is endless but there's no point of writing a wish list anymore. It's only gonna hurt more 💔


These lines you've added perfectly summed up our current feelings:


“mehefil mein teri hum na rahe jo gum toh nahi hai. Kisse hamari nazdikiyon ke kam toh nahi hai. Kitni dafa subah ko apni tere aangan me baithe humne sham kiya”. smiley27

Hug you back Sumaiya 🤗 though, this pain isn't easing away today, no matter what.

bold - exactly. a break up that none of the two wanted but zalim zamana💔

I have been hearing that song on loop, thats why included those lines ❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I am not as active on this forum anymore BUT I saw this post and had to respond.

This post has made me really sad.

We did not get anything we wanted and that will always be a sore topic.

Manju, all the points you mentioned above would have had AMAZING stories and screenplay and in the hands of writers in a different country (I won't even say a different PH because ITV is all the same- the fandoms of KHKT, Ishqbaaz etc will all agree), would be the thing of dreams.

To Mishti - numerous ITV watching girls would have been inspired by your character. Well done to Rhea for playing her so well.

To Abir - What do I say to you - ITV leads like you are hard to come by; you were different from all the run of the mill angry young man broken in love types we see and you will always be VERY VERY special. Bye Ajeeb Rajvansh🥺😭 -- oh that I could tell you how much i'll miss you. I am so happy I have hotstar and I can watch you and reminisce when I want.

And to add to the song Manju and Sumaiya are singing for you: tere rukh se aapna raasta mod ke chaliiii,, O Piya." (Gosh, I just got teary eyed writing this)

P.S. To my superstar with the caramel eyes - so much to say but not the right place to say it; and cannot find the right words to say it all....all I will say is thank you for Abir; just know that I secretly will fangirl over you for life; regardless of if it is low key fangirling or full on crushing. Till we meet again.....bye❤️

P.P.S to my friends on this forum - told you we would sing channa mereya when this show ended.

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