16 Sept - Episode LowLights

Oops😲...oh no 🤔 ..finally we are at it 👏 by hook or by crook , surrogacy is thrown at our faces like anything , well done I mean, fans are the ones who are giving the real test by being patient and trying to find something hopeful and positive everyday.

I can't understand what I have seen or where have I been

Why adoption idea in the end meets the bin

Kuhu has bo idea she is close to committing a sin

Is track ko khatam hone mein bachhe aur hai kitne din ?

Today I have more bits I disliked than i enjoyed so let's start putting #GiriHuiBatti , I mean low lights on them :-

1. First the stupid * business * magazine goof up that prints radha Krishna photo on the front page without proof checks, that becomes the point of drama for weeks and now a certain Mrs Rajvansh makes a call and adoption centre cancels everything over night and hands over baby to other couple without cross confirmation with the original applicants and getting a written confirmation to suit the same ? Is this how impracitcally things work with adoption centres? makers think sensible and out of the box to create drama because it makes no sense and the show gets reduced to a laughing stock which definitely the majority of fans have not signed up for.

2. Kuhu's insecurity no. 1 - kunal not being real rajvansh is targeted again , fair enough meenu knows everyone's insecurities, she makes mishti feel worthless because she couldn't conceive and she makes kuhu feel worthless because kunal is not a rajvansh.

But what I fail to understand is how exactly by giving a baby to mishbir does kuhu feel kunal will get his acceptance by meenu just like abir gets in fact to put things in perspective, as far as I know kunal , he will drift away from kuhu when he gets to know thaf her real intention to help mishbir is not out of pure concern for mishbir , but something which is not only selfish but foolish too , kuhu is yet again digging her own grave despite repeated warnings by abir who asks her very precisely on who is forcing her to say all this in today's episode.

I remember mishti running away in moment of weakness , abir brings her back, mishti does confess to abir that she got carried away and shares how meenu manipulated her , not only abir gives her an earful scolding but BP and BM also throw complete sense in her , it's their efforts that now she feels less burdened and insecurities have eased up .

Why can't kuhu share it with varsha that she met meenu and it's not just today that she is bringing the topic of kunal not being a rajvansh but time and again she uses it to demean kunal and kuhu . Varsha made it very clear to kuhu that meenu makes relation out of benefits , not even out of duniya daari or love but purely out of benefits. All the bhaari bhaari dialogues given to kuhu in last 2 episodes blew off the window , as I said rainbow's maturity lasts for 5 seconds.

3. I am not against the concept of surrogacy , it's as noble as adoption if I really think but the fact that the intent of kuhu behind being a surrogate is not to help a couple get a chance to cherish a baby but the real intention is to use the baby to get a certain status in the family and wrapping it all up by saying that she wants to do it because her siblings did so much for her, this makes it even more unpleasant. If makers really intended to give a redemption to kuhu through surrogacy and get it accepted by viewers to some level , this would have been an ideal way in my opinion:

Mishti's internal injuries are the result of a push she got by kuhu on jnamashthami, mishbir are clueless and believe it was an accident and fate played them badly however its kuhu who knew it wasn't an accident but an act done out of sheer insecurity and jealousy, in her attempt to burst out her anger on mishti she has knowingly unknowingly given her a pain for life , she can't go back to time and change the past but can surely work for a better future ...she feels extremely guilty for doing so , she knows apologies aren't enough but is keen to help them and get off her guilt, its difficult for her but she wishes to go through this as her self made punishment to get over the feeling of guilt ...she wants to help mishbir not because mishbir have helped her out of the way but because she has hurt them out of the way and wants to reconcile. The decision is still left on mishbir ....I don't completely agree with this too but this scenario would have been more digestible.

4. While I am happy to see abir trying his best to throw sense into kuhu's head and all the points he raised were bang on to the extent that he made it clear the baby won't belong to her, kuhu's face gives it away that she herself is not ready for surrogacy and she is doing it out of pressure and not with a noble thought, same goes for kunal, he is happy to help his brother , can't he really see his brother is clearly not happy lol ! The only saving grace in the track is it's not mishbir begging kuhu to be a surrogate but yahan ganga ulti beh rahi hai 🤔

5. Lack of abir's proper outburst was disappointing . Yes, he was super mad at Mrs Rajvansh for ruining his plans but the moment he realised its kuhu not meenu , his reactions were toned down , he did call out kuhu but not up to the mark ...I know consent is something that none of RV members understand and it applies to abir too but they all get called out expect kuhu , mishti was slapped by kuhu for trying to sneak into her cupboard and roaming around with divorce papers , forget slapping, kuhu wasn't once made to understand that she had no rights to call adoption centre just because she feels now she has hriday parivartan and is ready to help and become mahaan 🤓

6.From the beginning of the track , abir was passionate about having a baby , it was his long lost dream , he didn't want to give up even after it was revealed that mishti can't conceive, he went out of the way to convince mishti for adoption to the extent he asked BM and BP to support him over mishti, when mishti says we will put the plan on hold he still convinced her saying life doesn't stop anyway so let's get going , not just because of his ethical reasons for opposing surrogacy but also because how poor meenu thinks of adopted babies that include mishti kunal and kuhu too , he was shown to be more passionate about adoption for various reasons, so now when finally his dream is shattered mercilessly, his world comes crushing down in a moment because of a random phone call , does this character get a moment to express his emotional outbursts please ? Is that all , doesn't he really feel he should state it out to kuhu the pain she gave him? I am 100% sure had the call been done by meenu kunal or mishti, aaj udd chala moment zarur milta after series of intensity shots of course 🤓 if he calls her his bro , he isn't just responsible to bring her on right track , he is also responsible to tell her that she hurt him badly beyond repair even if it was done under meenu's influence , sorry but just sitting in NGO with a sada hua face doesn't make it up for *outburst* ....he is the male lead of this show .... show his emotions please , he often gets misunderstood because there are hardly scenes that profoundly show his emotions and reactions expect his scenes with meenu and mishti.

Phew I have ranted a lot 😆 I just hope my rants aren't falling into deaf ears ..anyways few bits that I liked:-

1. Meenu's being a silent spectator in the whole episode happily enjoying her cards being played out and then shamelessly saying kunal is my savings and I am happily using him and kuhu for my motives Rupal ma'am does it so convincingly that you can't help but feel like giving a tight slap to Meenakshi rajvansh and her pathetic se bhi pathetic soch. Loved the bit where abir almost figured out its meenu and gave a sarcastic reply to meenu for which meenu had no answer other than saying "abir" and going away ..abir's last dailogue to meenu that its ghaate ka sauda and you will never get what you desired was bang on , the confrontation scene was spot on and makes me hopeful again that when time comes abir will not shy away form playing his card too , unfortunately meenu hasn't left any door for him to run but now he will stay there and beat her. You literally asked for it meenu.

2. Mishti questioning meenu on why she is ruining it all and falling weak with her cold behaviour, her outburst on kuhu and then later trying her best to remain strong for abir and trying all sorts of happy things to cheer him up was so so good, I may not be happy with story line but mishbir scenes were so on point. Mishti's funny garba and abir's hearty laughter, the pakda pakdi session that ends up with a close hold ( fingers crossed on the sequence getting bolder tomorrow) was like a rainbow in today's episode and made it enjoyable in the overall disappointing episode

I am happy for one thing here , it's not mishbir forcing kuhunal, its kuhunal who are actually taking pressure from meenu and putting them on mishbir for their own reaosns and of course I blame mishbir too for agreeing to it in the end ....much opposite to what was indicated in the promo but it still leaves you with a bad state. Wish they show mishti doubting kuhu's real intentions.

All I hope is kuhu is pregnant with kunal's kid and the end game is meenu doesn't get what she desired . Poetic justice deserves to be served. Period.

I still want to remain hopeful and positive with the 1.2 kg twist! 😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Oops😲...oh no 🤔 ..finally we are at it 👏 by hook or by crook , surrogacy is thrown on our face like anything , well done I mean, fans are the ones who are giving the real test by being patient and trying to find something hopeful and positive everyday

TBH, I am rather pissed off; I stayed on because I had hope; because I thought there would be something worth watching in this track; that there would be a major twist and everyone would be happy in the end. Most importantly I stayed on because this show in order of importance has 1. a brilliant ensemble cast and I like to watch their performances especially my Nainowale Ne, ahha (yes, new name!) 2. the same PH as my other fav show that I started watching with my mum and then for the last 4 years has been a show that has held me on as a viewer.

And what do I get in return for my patience...zero zilch nada. Who cares though, I am an overseas viewer and me watching or not does not matter because I do not contribute to TRPs. I was not even this disillusioned when Alex left Jo on GA and went back to his first wife. Anyways, I digress.

Today I have more bits I disliked than i enjoyed so let's start putting #GiriHuiBatti , I mean low lights on them :-

1. First the stupid * business * magazine goof up that prints radha Krishna photo on the front page without proof checks that becomes the point of drama for weeks and now a certain Mrs Rajvansh calls and adoption centre cancels everything over night and hands over baby to other couple without cross confirmation with the original applicants and getting a written confirmation? Is this how impracitcally things work with adoption centres? makers think sensible and out of the box to create drama because it makes no sense and the show gets reduced to a laughing stock which definitely the majority of fans have not signed up for.

This is not how adoption services work. There are legal ramifications of decisions made and MishBir can actually sue them for going back on their word and not cross checking who made the phonecall. Also no one other than the couple adopting the child can even speak to the adoption agency about such a big thing. However, the adoption agency is also right about not giving a baby to a couple who live in a home where someone calls and says NO in a jiffy. Legally that becomes a safeguarding issue because how sure are they that the child is going into a safe environment if the family has some people wanting the child and others calling to say Oh sorry we changed our minds.

2. Kuhu's insecurity no. 1 - kunal not being real rajvansh is targeted again , fair enough meenu knows everyone's insecurities, she makes mishti feel worthless because she couldn't conceive and she makes kuhu feel worthless because kunal is not a rajvansh.

But what I fail to understand is how exactly by giving a baby to mishbir does kuhu feel kunal will get his acceptance by meenu just like abir gets in fact to put things in perspective, as far as I know kunal he will drift away from kuhu when he gets to know her real intention to help mishbir is not out of pure concern for mishbir , but something which is not only selfish but foolish too , kuhu is yet again digging her own grave despite repeated warnings by abir and asking her very precisely on who is forcing her to say all this in today's episode.

I remember mishti running away in moment of weakness , abir brings her back, mishti does confess to abir that she got carried away and shares how meenu manipulated her , not only abir gives her an earful scolding but BP and BM throw complete sense in her , it's their efforts that her burdened and insecurities have eased up now .

Why can't kuhu share it with varsha that she met meenu and it's not just today , she is bringing the topic of kunal not being a rajvansh time and again. Varsha made it very clear to kuhu that meenu makes relation out of benefits , not even out of duniya daari or love, purely out of benefits . All the bhaari bhaari dialogues given to kuhu in last 2 episodes blew off the window , as I said rainbow's maturity lasts for 5 seconds.

Kuhu does not realise that Meenakshi is pretty capable of further manipulation just to suit her motive. Kuhu can also share it with her OWN HUSBAND, not so difficult to say "Kunal, Ma said if i do this then we will get something out of this property that YOU have worked so hard for". What I fail to understand is that Abir is super rich on his own. He does not need Meenu's $$$££££££ so he can be the sahara Kuhu needs and he will anyways give his share to Kunal because he does not need it and knows that Kunal has worked for this business to be where it is. Why is all this so complicated? It does not have to be but i somewhere feel that in trying to give us a different story, this has gone so far along that there may not be any way to salvage it and to make Kuhu see sense or to ask Abir for security for Kunal.

Instead of falling into Meenu's trap, all Kuhu has to do is say "Abir bro, $$$ de ya ££££ de de, cash de de, cheque bana de); and if that is against her self respect then it is not like this is such a great way to keep self respect intact.

3. I am not against the concept of surrogacy , it's as noble as adoption if I really think but the fact that the intent of kuhu behind being a surrogate is not to help a couple get a chance to cherish a baby but the real intent is to use thr baby get a certain status in the family and wrapping it up by saying that she wants to do it because her siblings did so much for her makes it even more unpleasant. If makers really intended to give kuhu a redemption and really get surrogacy accepted to some level , the ideal way would have been in my opinion:

This track should have been well researched. There are very few countries in the world that will agree to a first time mother as a surrogate. Normally, the law ESPECIALLY in India requires that the mother has children of her own so that it is easier for her to give the baby away.

This is just silly. So let us listen to Abir because he does not want a stranger to be his child's surrogate but then let us not listen when he says he does not want surrogacy at all. SELECTIVE LISTENING.

4. While I am happy to see abir trying his best to throw sense in kuhu and all the points he raised were bang on to the extent that he made it clear the baby won't belong to you, kuhu's face gives it away that she herself is not ready for surrogacy and she is doing it out of pressure not with a noble thought, same goes for kunal he is happy to help his brother , can't he really see his brother is clearly not happy lol ! The only saving grace in the track is it's not mishbir begging kuhu to be a surrogate but yahan ganga ulti beh rahi hai 🤔

Abir said 100 taka sachi vaat as did Varsha and BM; Kuhu has no idea what pregnancy is like. She will have to deal with so many changes for 9 months. Is she even ready for all this? Shopping and Selfies and followers are shallow things but hormonal changes, risk of complications, labour etc these are real things that Kuhu has no idea about. Abir is right Kuhu; LISTEN TO HIM!!!

5. Lack of abir's proper outburst was disappointing . Yes, he was super mad at Mrs Rajvansh for ruining his plans but the moment he realised its kuhu not meenu , his reactions were toned down , he did call out kuhu but not up to the mark ...I know consent is something that none of RV members understand and it applies to abir too but they all get called out expect kuhu , mishti was slapped by kuhu for trying to sneak into her cupboard and roaming around with divorce papers , forget slapping kuhu wasn't once made to understand that she had no rights to call adoption centre just because she feels now she has hriday parivartan and she is ready to help and become mahaan 🤓

I am not impressed by this either. Does Abir think oh Kuhu is immature and she is nadaan and doesn't know what she is doing so let me go easy on her? WHY? This is exactly why you should not go easy on her, Abir. This is exactly why she is not ready for this. Someone needs to really knock some sense into this girl. and I want the Abir who did it when she tried to hurt Mishti with those letters.

6.From the beginning of the track , abir was passionate about having a baby , it was his long lost dream , he didn't want to give up even after it was revealed that mishti can't conceive, he went out of the way to convince mishti for adoption to the extent he asked BM and BP to support him over mishti, when mishti says we will put the plan on hold he still convinced her saying life doesn't stop anyway so let's get going , not just because of his ethical reasons for opposing surrogacy but also because how poor meenu thinks about adopted babies that include mishti kunal and kuhu , he was shown to be more passionate about adoption for various reasons, so now when finally his dream is shattered mercilessly, his world comes crushing down in a moment because of a random phone call , does this character get a moment to express his emotional outbursts please ? Is that all , doesn't he really feel he should state it out to kuhu the pain she gave him? I am 100% sure had the call been done by meenu kunal or mishti, aaj udd chala moment zarur milta after series of intensity shots of course 🤓 if he calls her his bro , he isn't just responsible to bring her on right track , he is also responsible to tell her that she hurt him badly beyond repair even it was done under meenu's influence , sorry but just sitting in NGO with a sada Hua face doesn't make it up as *outburst* ....he is the male lead of this show .... show his emotions please , he often gets misunderstood because there are hardly scenes that profoundly shows his emotions and reactions expect his scenes with meenu and mishti.

He has managed to piss off a LOT of fans in this baby obsession I can tell you that. That is always my issue with the way his emotions are handled. It is as if: chalo, give him 10s ONLY to feel bad and let Nanowale Ne, ahha show the pain in his voice with some emotion and voice modulation and then he can walk around with a sad face and Mishti can do some bakwaas steps (YES, they were weird dance steps because no one twirls a dandiyaa like that; i have been twirling dandiyaas during Navratri since i was a child and that is NOT how even in jokes you twirl dandiyaas. Like you could have inserted something else if you wanted a funny scene guys. I just cringed. I know this is an unpopular opinion BUT better luck at being humorous next time, writers) However, the trip->catch->hug-> eyelock was CUTENESS. Although, erm these two are married..can we give them more than this? Not saying because I am NOT LIKE one of those on other SNS begging writers for romance, but it looks very teenybopper/college flirty types and not what married 20 somethings would do. (Isn't Abir 30 though??)

Phew I have ranted a lot 😆 I just hope my rants aren't falling into deaf ears ..anyways few bits that I liked:-

I am happy for one thing here , it's not mishbir forcing kuhunal, its kuhunal who are actually taking pressure from meenu and putting them ul on mishbir for their own reaosns and of course I blame mishbir too for agreeing to it in the end ....much opposite to what was indicated in the promo but it still leaves you with a bad state. Wish they show mishti doubting kuhu's real intentions.

All I hope is kuhu is pregnant with kunal's kid and the end game is meenu doesn't get what she desired . Poetic justice deserves to be served. Period.

I still want to remain hopeful and positive with the 1.2 kg twist! 😆

THIS !!!!

My answers in blue

Originally posted by: Stardust91

My answers in blue

I fail to understand that if we as viewers can feel aAlok this and analyse the show in depth, why are makers in the show not able to get what is going so wrong in the show..

loved everything you wrote

Originally posted by: Arjst

I fail to understand that if we as viewers can feel aAlok this and analyse the show in depth, why are makers in the show not able to get what is going so wrong in the show..

loved everything you wrote

I wish I knew the answer to this Q-- like this show is just for entertainment for us; i mean yes we might have attachment to some people e.g. Nainowale Ne ahha❤️, caramel akhiyaan❤️, superstar tv actor, etc etc..you get the gist😆 and we may fangirl BUT it is REALLY easy to just FFed and watch his scenes only coz well ACTING ON POINT.

Either 1. this track has interference from the channel or 2. In the ardent need and desire to make this show SO different from where it originated, they have ended up going so far along this track that now they just cannot go back OR 3. This was always the vision for this show because they did not want to show Meenu playing silly games to create MUs between MishBir and maybe nainowale ne, ahha did not want to be a part of the same same saas bahu saga and wanted to do something different. There is so much they could have done: Dragon saas says Abir is obsessed with his wife and chairty work and doesn't care about her business, Mish feels bad and lets him do his own thing and tries to go to maayka but he refuses to let her go. They try to get Mishti treated. BB creates differences between AbiNal and uses Kuhu for that i.e. Hum Saath Saath Hai types. People want to watch simple relatable things. What demographic are they targetting? Like I have Netflix and Prime to watch complicated shows. Also, i hardly watch weird Indian things on Netflix or Prime that act like they are from BW but are like superwannabe shows. N E HOO.....

But what do I know...it isn't my job to write or garner TRPs; although Grey's anatomy has medics on their writing team. I've seen that on their end credits😆 Perhaps I should ask Shonda Rhimes if they need advisors for Greys😛😆

Uru🤗🤗

I think there is twist in the tale and surrogacy may not happen😆 I know am being too optimistic 🙈

Just thinking that if kuhu becomes surrogate as it's being shown.. what's next??🤪one year leap with baby coming into their lives where kuhu becomes meenakshi and mishti as parul?? I don't think so...itna disgusting hein sochne mein😑

Meenu from day one did only planning and plotting. She won temporarily like mishti agreeing to insult kuhu with her illegitimate birth truth but at the end kuku got married and MishBir confessed their love , second time in baba track she was successful in separating MishBir but eventually they got married😆

Even now she is planning to bring her asli waris and looks like see has won according to precap..but I think there is more to what is happening...and some twisting awaiting us..

Episode was okay for me , only thing I disliked is no one reprimanded kuhu for calling adoption agency as it was not her business..😡

Frankly mujhe e surrogacy track itna bura nahi lagta kyunki I sat through even more shitty surrogacy track in YHM🤪 where shagun (they made her Character complete white from black) becomes surrogate mother of IshRa and Ishitha was unaware of it as far as I remember...infront of that track I feel this is much better 🤣🤣 but still I wonder why do writers choose such stupid tracks....and wrong person to be surrogate ..

Anyways what if kuhu is pregnant , she may not be aware of it now..but later gets to know but keeps it as a secret and fools everyone that the baby in her womb is Mishbir's so that her kid gets all the love and attention from meenu thinking it's her asli waris 🤔 !????

MishBir scene was beautiful❤️ Mishti's new hair style is making her look even more pretty😳 I want the scene to continue with romance , atleast a cheek kiss 😭....but I know mishti will push abir and run 😈

Originally posted by: Just_Smile

Uru🤗🤗

I think there is twist in the tale and surrogacy may not happen😆 I know am being too optimistic 🙈

Just thinking that if kuhu becomes surrogate as it's being shown.. what's next??🤪one year leap with baby coming into their lives where kuhu becomes meenakshi and mishti as parul?? I don't think so...itna disgusting hein sochne mein😑

Meenu from day one did only planning and plotting. She won temporarily like mishti agreeing to insult kuhu with her illegitimate birth truth but at the end kuku got married and MishBir confessed their love , second time in baba track she was successful in separating MishBir but eventually they got married😆

Even now she is planning to bring her asli waris and looks like see has won according to precap..but I think there is more to what is happening...and some twisting awaiting us..

Episode was okay for me , only thing I disliked is no one reprimanded kuhu for calling adoption agency as it was not her business..😡

Frankly mujhe e surrogacy track itna bura nahi lagta kyunki I sat through even more shitty surrogacy track in YHM🤪 where shagun (they made her Character complete white from black) becomes surrogate mother of IshRa and Ishitha was unaware of it as far as I remember...infront of that track I feel this is much better 🤣🤣 but still I wonder why do writers choose such stupid tracks....and wrong person to be surrogate ..

Anyways what if kuhu is pregnant , she may not be aware of it now..but later gets to know but keeps it as a secret and fools everyone that the baby in her womb is Mishbir's so that her kid gets all the love and attention from meenu thinking it's her asli waris 🤔 !????

I want a cheek kiss😭😭 MishBir scene was beautiful❤️ Mishti's new hair style is making her look even more pretty😳 I want the scene to continue with romance , atleast a cheek kiss 😭....but I know mishti will push abir and run 😈

If they are competing with shows like KKB in the 9 PM time slot they might not bring the leap, instead show how Mishti is made miserable by Kuhu during pregnancy ( In KKB, the pregnancy track of antagonist lasted more than an year). while Abir gives Kuhu full attention due to the baby.

Originally posted by: Arjst

If they are competing with shows like KKB in the 9 PM time slot they might not bring the leap, instead show how Mishti is made miserable by Kuhu during pregnancy ( In KKB, the pregnancy track of antagonist lasted more than an year). while Abir gives Kuhu full attention due to the baby.

yeah longest pregnancy track on itv 🤣 where she fooled everyone about the baby's father😆 but am sure humare show itna stupid nahin hoga....I know they go overboard with misthi getting tortured and abir not catching a break on meenu's planning and plotting but I don't think yeh log itna stupidity dikhayenge 🤪if they wanted kuhu to be surrogate they would have shown it directly like they promoted .. Mishti asking kuhu to be surrogate..but they changed it completely so there might be some significance..let's see

For me, the main issue here is why Mishbir aren't livid at Kuhu for calling off the adoption without consulting them? This is a very important decision in any couple's life, and NO ONE has the right to interfere, whatever the intention might be.

Abir suspects Meenu, but I really hope he discovers the extent of her scheming and that he is saying yes to Kuhu just to get the bottom of this. Going for surrogacy instead of adoption by forcing their hand doesn't really give a good social message. Also, which adoption agency randomly accepts someone else's message over the phone instead of the parents themselves about the adoption process. Ugh.. lazy writing.

If they show Mishbir going ahead with surrogacy in the current surroundings, the eventual battles that will come up in that family will be unbearable for everyone.

Kuhu will likely not want to let go of the baby once it's born because she will get attached to it as well as not wanting to stop being the center of attention after the delivery. I also expect her to always make Mishti feel insecure about the baby and try to exert her rights over it as a surrogate mother. The fact that she would use a baby to advance her own agenda in the family is sickening to think about. Let's hope it never gets to that.

i think 2 of the most important questions are why doesn't abir confront kuhu strongly for calling adoption agency ? nation wants to know 😳 and secondly when will mishbir realize they can do much more than eye contacts and hugs 😛 i think they were more romantic than this before marriage 😆

I don’t have any hope on 1.2 kg weight rise. But as usual ambe Ma, Meenu ke plans ka last minute flop kara de! Itna kaafi hai