Compromise- that was the word which was the deciding factor for Mishti to leave him. Abir said in every relationship and for every problem one needs to compromise! Wrong word to use, Mishti remembers Meenu saying that Abir will try to show he’s fine with not becoming a dad but he will be living a life of samjhauta, compromise. Gradually his resentment will grow at Mishti and their childlessness.
Originally posted by: Rope_of_Hope
Yaar You know adoption is a very big process..when you book for adoption you have wait for years to adopt..my friend sil tried all means of treatment even 2 times they went for IVF..but kuch nahi hua..after some time she concieved naturally..but after few months miscarriage happened
Then they went for adoption..they booked for adoption there also lambi list hai .. after 5 years they adopted 6 months old baby girl
Adoption is not easy there is so many rules and regulations
I know but don't you think they should have applied together? Mishti should be as much involved in her new house and adopted baby as Abir, she needs a diversion too, she needs to be a part of her new life.
My point wasn't that Abir is wrong or setting scores but what if Mishti doesn't want a child by adoption because she was adopted and didn't lead a good life, even though she had loving parents?
She knows how it feels to be in a place and live a life of "Ehsan"
Abir applying for adoption doesn't leave a choice for her, does it? Can she say "No" now?
It is a huge decision and I believe it should have been taken together, the conversation and realisation should have been Mishbir not BM-Abir
Just my expectation from writing departments
What if bigben has kept her anticipatory bail ready 🤔🤔 as she knows if mishti leaves bp will go for police complain??
Originally posted by: Onyourface
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Happy teacher's day yaara 😃🤗😃
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Mujhe na aaj telepathy ho gayi thi ki tu aisa kuch zaroor karegi Teachers day pe 😆
Thank you Thank you dear 🤗🤗🤗
Waise log samjhege ki main teacher hoon, jab ki main bilkul nahin hoon 😆
Aur ban bhi nahi sakti... patience jo nahin hai 😆
Accha hai, Teacher ke spelling main P nahin hai... tu patience likh deti toh?! 🤣
Tu hi hai jisne mujhe Teacher bana diya hai! Amit to my Modi 🤗🤗
Tere peeche pad gayi thi na post ke presentation ko leke 🤣🤣
Originally posted by: SheThought
100 varsh ni buddhi thaish tu 😆
That time too just remain your OnYourFace self 🤗
Haan, ab Mah family + the 3 bros will get to have a gala time outdoors!
Dhoondh ne ka dhoondhna aur picnic ki picnic 🤣
Mishti ko bhi pagalkhane se mukti mil jaayegi! Khuli hawa main maze karegi thode time 😆
I too hate memory loss tracks re! Chaa! So cliche and faltu!
Par apne naseeb main cliche hi likha hai yaar! 9pm slot main ittaich milega 🤔
I will try to stay the way I am 🤗
Sahi hai na 🤣 sabko thoda break chahie life main 😆 3 bros n mishti ki pakda pakdi shuru 😆
memory loss is really silly nahiiiiiiio ...in that case I want abir's memory to go 😆 swe he fell in love first and made mishti realise n all , now it should he reversed 😎
Finally convinced myself to watch the episode. It was surprisingly amazing! I loved all the conversations. Even Kuhu-mishti mini convo about their childhood. I am actually enjoying this slightly reformed Kuhu, not overly sweet to cause diabetes 😆
I personally think all characters are justified in how they are dealing with the crisis (except for Meenu).
But I wish he'd also suggest the idea to get second opinions. Maybe he didn't expect his bhai-bhabi to only talk to one doctorPhew, sorry for the long post. I was having a terrible day and this episode made me feel better. I just wish we never had surrogacy promos then I could have enjoyed this track a lot more 💔
The whole process of adoption is an extremely long and harrowing procedure from what I heard. They'll need all sorts of details besides background check like career, finances to know that the child won't be neglected. Don't know if they'll show the reality on ITV but it can take a minimum of two years. (Even tougher for single people.) Starting the process 'immediately' is the way to go. Also, adoption ke baad is another headache. Inspections and stuff. Biological kid ko kuch bhi karo ghar pe (illtreat, physically abuse etc), as long as no one lodges a complaint, parents are safe but adopted kids are watched.
All of that is absolutely worth it once the baby/child is home, ofcourse. And Abir will obviously have ample time to discuss the whole thing with Mishti. Haan, but if anybody is thinking ki Abir should have contacted the agency along with the mother of their future child, then I agree with you. Bade bade kadam saath mein uthani chahiye. I don't know why MishBir are operating separately. Ye TRP dramey ke chakkar mein, there is some disconnect seen in the relationship. They do have heart to heart talks and then next thing we find out ki dimaag mein kuch aur hi internal conversation chal ra hota hai.
I wrote adoption thing in the post where I was highlighting problems in writing from not getting Mishti treated to Mishbir going nuts for Kids, wouldn't have mentioned it otherwise, I just felt it was odd that they didn't show Mishbir applying for adoption together
Especially because Mishti is adopted, she has so many complications and insecurities, she had loving parents in BP-BM still she felt it was all "Ehsan" and no love
It is possible that Mishti doesn't want to adopt kids but the possibility is lost now, that's it
Such a huge decision should not be taken without consent of both parent, that's it.
Its not Mishti vs Abir
Pata nahi I get involved in this every time
Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me
What if bigben has kept her anticipatory bail ready 🤔🤔 as she knows if mishti leaves bp will go for police complain??
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I missed you calling out both of them, I am sorry
Although I did call out Mishti for not thinking about people who love her, Mishti's decision is not a stand-alone decision, it stems from emotional and mental harasment from her mother in law
Yes, Mishti also tried to find out Abir’s feelings about not being able to be a papa and she saw his pain, she saw him struggling to accept the harsh truth.
Especially that word Compromise triggered her to leave him. BB’s words came back to her how Abir will just be living half a life, Mishbir relationship will become a samjhauta, a bondage. That Abir will hide his pain behind his smile which he was clearly doing in front of Mishti today. He doesn’t want Mishti to be sad, she doesn’t want him to live an incomplete life so she left him.
I know but don't you think they should have applied together? Mishti should be as much involved in her new house and adopted baby as Abir, she needs a diversion too, she needs to be a part of her new life.
My point wasn't that Abir is wrong or setting scores but what if Mishti doesn't want a child by adoption because she was adopted and didn't lead a good life, even though she had loving parents?
She knows how it feels to be in a place and live a life of "Ehsan"
Abir applying for adoption doesn't leave a choice for her, does it? Can she say "No" now?
It is a huge decision and I believe it should have been taken together, the conversation and realisation should have been Mishbir not BM-Abir
Just my expectation from writing departments
He said na he received application from them..he said I will send my and my wife details immediately he called mishti..without her signature in the application how he will process..he might discuss with her yaar..why cant she say No if she wants she can..but makers wont show that
Yaar makers has gone nuts..they always show that their love is strong then why cant they share their problems with each other
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