29th August - Episode Highlights - Page 3

Thank you for the highlights! It's a pleasure to read your take as usual.

I just wanted to leave my 2 cents here as well:

Today, Abir fell on Meenu's kandha the way he fell on Mishti's post Ketu-Ved wedding fiasco. Mishti gave Abir what he always wanted from Meenu. Unconditional care or celebrity status as Abir liked to put it.

He also indirectly sought Mish's love and care when he laid his head on Mishti's lap in Kunal's bachelor party and told her that he used to do this in his childhood with Meenu (in happier times) and she used to caress his head and then Mishti does the same.

Abir and his Meenu-Mishti parallels are getting one too many. 😂😂😂

It's okay as long as it is for the right reasons. Unlike when he blamed her for the fight with Kuhu.

Originally posted by: Onyourface

5. This might be unpopular opinion here, but kuhunal scene was superbly executed, I like the seedhi baat no bakwas style in the convo , where kuhu was open about how jas and varsha are trying to influence her the wrong way and kunal says he isn't ready as his responsibilities and priorities are different at this stage of life but he won't deny if kuhu agrees , well it feels how easy it is for them to communicate on this level without much thought or filters , that's the constant this couple adds in the story telling, don't know what future holds for them though , keep it separate is what I want , don't merge it makers like you merged their divorce track 👎🏼

6. Varsha and jas are gone cases 😆 Whether it be first or second kid, that will still remain kuhunal ka kid and parul ka pota first, nothing is gonna change it 😆 Inspiring kuhu to enter the race for bigger motives, there can't be anything foolish than this 😆 I never felt before , but today I felt BP's speech for mishti was too OTT from his side , I feel to BP , kuhu reminds him of his bad upbringing to shaurya and his galti ,may be that's why BP is not able to openly express his love or even his disappointment with kuhu because the base of connecting with someone emotionally is missing with kuhu ...while mishti reminds him of the trust and confidence someone had on him with his upbringing ( devyani handed over mishti to BP and BM cuz she trusted them as mishti's parents ), mishti as his daughter reminds him of akshara and that's what makes him easily love mishti and get disappointed too at times.

Only quoting points 5 and 6 because the post is long and I only wanted to address them.

5.I completely agree with point 5. I actually, for the first time, thought that Kuhu was at her heights of maturity in this scene. It made me realise that in "most" situations, where she is burning with jealousy over Mishti, she always seems fine and only after repeated doses of instigation does she act on her insecurities. And this KuhuNal scene happened before Meenu announced that she'll be giving her share in the business to the "not yet conceived baby."

Her doubt and her take was very articulately put across. She acknowledged that the very mom who forbade her from competing with her "sister" is being manipulated by Jazz to turn this baby making into a competition, just when things between Mishti and her were actually cooling down for real. And she is wondering aloud to Kunal ki aisa kyun? See, her insecurities regarding Mishti haven't yet taken over her yet. And then the next scene happened which is going to be followed by more Varsha/Jazz bharoing her kaan and then we are yet to see how she goes back to square one.

6.Coming to your point 6 on BP-Mish and BP-Kuhu dynamics, it is a very, very interesting take. A very fresh perspective that I could not have come up with by myself but makes a lot of sense. If YRHPK were a well written novel, this would add a profound layer to the story. I don't know if it's the case here. It could just be what it is: Mishti is the sensible one and BP expects her to handle Kuhu and forgive her for her mistakes. Maybe even after seeing Kuhu break the doll house, he thought the "sisters" need time to cohabitate and that things would get better with time.
From your viewpoint, I did realise though that BP definitely seems to jatao more haq on Mishti because he considers her like Akshara, who he can speak plainly to. And that even if he was being an extremely lenient grandparent to Kuhu, he could've confided in Shaurya.

But I do believe he loves Kuhu a lot. He has equally done a lot for her happiness too. When he realised that she loved Kunal, he thought of Mishti initially, but when Meenu asked him saamne se and Kuhu said yes instantly, he accepted the rishta (though he was still very wary about it). And likewise, he was disturbed when he found out that Mishti loves Abir and was vacillating over his decision, again thinking about Meenu and Kunal, but when Abir made the world's most beautiful proposal speech and clarified his doubts, he accepted this rishta as well with the same misgivings regarding Meenu. I felt that in both situations he had balanced his love and responsibilities for Mish and Kuhu very well.

Originally posted by: Onyourface

As grandparents if BM and BP are still having that illegitimate thing in their mind if that is making them neglect kuhu , not giving her importance or showing their disappointment towards her when she goes wrong, than i would still say more than kuhu its BM and BP's fault , kuhu is illegitimate and she is born that way with no fault of hers , BP should be neglecting Shaurya in that case not kuhu .. looks like they forgave Shaurya but didn't forget the incident

Also I believe varsha wasn't raised by BM or BP so her parvarish and soch was different , she was shown to be disappointed with Shaurya and neglecting kuhu but later realised it's not kuhu's fault to be born that way and of course she loved her husband and wanted to give their relationship a 2nd chance , parvarish had nothing to do with it

I know we all dislike kuhu because of her actions and thought process towards mishti, I dislike her too but saying ashram mein padi rehti was quite insensitive and demeaning to kids born under such circumstances ... whether its kuhu or mishti, no one should be made to feel that mahs have adopted them and it's an ehsaan done to them so they should be thankful and give in all their life

I never said that it's kuhus fault.. I was talking about how shaurya disappointed Rajshri n vishambhar.. Look at one hand they have Akshara who was so perfect n balanced all her relationships perfectly. And then they have shaurya who inspite of having a wife and a teenage daughter had an affair with someone who was a third wheel between Akshara and naitik

I don't agree that Rajshri n vishambhar r useless grandparents.. The way they loved and showered their care and affection on ananya Naksh n Naira is just so amazing.. After Akshara Rajshri was like a mother figure to Naira n now they are like parents to mishti.. They are someone who even loved kartik and treated him like their own child when he used to live in mahesheshwari house as a PG..When they can love outsiders n treat them like family then why won't they accept kuhu n love her? The thing is kuhu wants everybody's 100%attention, n Rajshri vishambhar couldn't give her that bcoz of mishti that's why she hates her, but it's not like they completely neglected kuhu, whenever she needed them they were there to support her.. But kuhu isn't satisfied

Regarding varsha lol. She was aksharas childhood friend. Apne ghar se zyaada woh Akshara ke ghar pe rehti thi.. Rajshri vishambhar ne hi uski parvarish kiya hai, woh toh vishambhar ko bauji bulati thi shaadi se pehle.

And about kuhu being adopted, Akshara bought her back n made sure everybody accepts her.. Akshara is the reason why she is in mah house in the first place, the way Akshara bought her to mah house the same way Rajshri bought mishti to mah house so that means they both are adopted so why does she always blames mishti n says that she's a charity case bcoz this thing is applicable to her as well. When mahs never made kuhu feel like she's an illegitimate child then why did she made mishti feel like an outsider n someone who's a bhoj on the family.. Disliking kuhu had nothing to do with it.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Yes but which star plus or colours prime time ITV show will be like YJHD or K&S.

I have not seen a show on ITV that mirrors any of this. I do not think even BFF had any friends and his career is also not self-made it is just "look daddy has this huge business and I must help out"

Even BFF's destination wedding was not like the destination wedding in YJHD.

I think that would have been amazing; or Kunal should have stepped up then become Abir's brother more than Meenu ka munna and taken his brother with him to get bhabhi back. SP are rich. They sent a previous show to Oz and London. Heck DKP took BFF to Switzerland and Greece.

Separation happened before COVID-19 ruined everything...

Also, I think DKP should seriously consider taking the show to Netflix. Then again will the actor we go gaga over move to Netflix or does he like ITV only?

I hope DKP manage to save the show...DKP, you saved BFF's show 4 years ago. Please let us have MishBir for a while also.

There are some shows which have shown this professional side and its importance too ...I have seen them, mostly star shows stick to this ghar parivaar mera partner mera sab kuch mode , Sony shows are way too progressive.... they don't push forward mera family mera sab kuch agenda on the face, they show better strong competitive MLs and FLs anyway...

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Originally posted by: angelfire78

You know I write my comments on the WU thread as I watch so by the time I process what I've seen, I feel differently compared to my initial reaction. 😊

Haha that happens with me too 😆 Its much better to take time , understand and then react though

1. Sha and emotional scenes are just ❤️💔, so I'll put aside how much I disliked the timing of the doctor's call. I agree that there was some logic to asking first about accident and then mentioning the main conclusion, but I guess if she had said come and let's talk, he would have been tense anyway. His reaction, as always, is first to shelter those he loves from pain, which he did. Then to find out more and he did think to ask the doctor for details and went to ask her questions. I would trust a doctor to know what they're talking about as well. It's true that before making any decisions, we might get a second opinion, but baat sunke toh dil baith hi jaata hai thodi der! And he's also worried about how to share this news with Mish because he knows how much she'll be hurt. Abir is like that.

I understand, as doctors they should have been a bit easy in revealing the news and shouldn't have given the news in such a way that it causes panic to the one receiving the news I get your point

2. Meenu-Parul ki back story toh mil gayi, and we finally know that Parul was the second wife 😊. Baaki, while she can still flip, I think Meenu is at least ready to try with Mish now after the whole Varun fiasco.

Haha daya the new promo says it all 😆

3. Kaisa theory? Kounsa theory? Humein bhi toh batayiye!!

I have written it in today's highlights 😆 Though I wrote it in AT a lot of times when I I active here 😆

4. Mishti cares about what BM/BP/Abir think but even so, if it's an issue that really matters to her, she will do what she wants (main problem Meenu has with her). She has shown that time and time again. She does fall for emotional blackmail, but even for that won't do things she fundamentally disagrees with, and she always finds a workaround. She really doesn't care what other people think of her. For the magazine matter, she gave in because she promised Abir she would fix things, and then got mad and went another way which created a lot of ruckus. Aur bacche ke baare mein ek hafta toh socha na 😆.

By the time she gets her voice back, bohot raita phail jaata hai daya , I don't blame her because abir ke saath bhi aisa hi hota hai , perks of being ITV leads, seesaw khelna pasta hai

5. KuhuNal scene was amazing. I actually liked the last 2 days' scenes.

I liked today's scene also , mentioning abir made kunal fume up like anything 😆

6. I hope that's not true about BP, because how is a child to blame for the circumstances of her with? Also, he's the one who keeps reminding Mishti her birth parents have nothing to do with her behavior, so it would not be in character na?

Don't get me wrong , I am not saying he blames kuhu neither I am saying he wasn't a good grandparent , I was only saying that he dosent feel that connect with kuhu like he does with mishti , that's why he isn't quick enough to praise her when she started her own business, and he isn't quick enough to scold her when she goes wrong too , he has no expectations from kuhu , good or bad, that's quite a different kind of feeling , they don't share the usual grand father grand daughter bond as well , dosent it surprise you at times ?

7. This was the highlight of the episode, and made me feel for both Meenu and Abir. For the first time she told him straight out he was lying to her, acknowledged she has been wrong before, and asked him to share with her. This is why I want to believe her. If she tricks him now, and in this matter, it would be too big a betrayal. But yeah, that uneasy feeling won't go away.

Meenu is smart, I agree only she was the one who recognised his son is in trouble , not just now but in varun track also but the thing is she goes overboard when she attaches her own ulterior motives in the adventure of solving things for him

Well I hope meenu has left her planning plotting ways and it's truly a team meenu standing United with abir and mishti and she suggests something that is genuinely good for the whole family

Anyways,

How will the pregnancy complications affect mishbir as couple and as individuals?

Is meenu the protector or the real manipulator ?

Are kuhu and kunal going the right way or kuhu's insecurities and kunal's love for family and brother will change things for them ?

Will sisters dynamics get a real closure and balance or we have to live with band aids all our life?

How will surrogacy be introduced, and how will each character react to it ?

Too much on the plate , let's see how much can be eaten and digested by us 😆 Over all a good episode and I kind a enjoyed it not keeping in mind the annoying promo and sister equation in mind for my own sanity Kya din aaye hai dimag adjust kar ke show dekhna padta hai lol 😆

Interesting things to look forward to 😃 One day at a time 😆

Yesssssssss 😃

PS: kisi ne meenu ke earrings notice kiye? 🤣🤣🤪🤣🤣 Nahi kiye ? Arey nahi kiye toh karo na , episode mein kya dekha phir , kya choice hai apni meenu ki 😆

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Originally posted by: Su94

Thank you for the highlights! It's a pleasure to read your take as usual.

Thank you ❤️

I just wanted to leave my 2 cents here as well:

Today, Abir fell on Meenu's kandha the way he fell on Mishti's post Ketu-Ved wedding fiasco. Mishti gave Abir what he always wanted from Meenu. Unconditional care or celebrity status as Abir liked to put it.

He also indirectly sought Mish's love and care when he laid his head on Mishti's lap in Kunal's bachelor party and told her that he used to do this in his childhood with Meenu (in happier times) and she used to caress his head and then Mishti does the same.

Abir and his Meenu-Mishti parallels are getting one too many. 😂😂😂

Oh I love these parallels Keep them coming, definitely I mentioned this point when lap scene was aired , I did write how abir misses that emotional warmth , care and concern in his life and mishti definitely fills up those gaps in his life

It's okay as long as it is for the right reasons. Unlike when he blamed her for the fight with Kuhu.

😆 You will hit me for this but I will say this , he compares her to meenu , I really feel happy 😆 He probably hints at how mishti gives a kaante ki takkar to him and is definitely not an emotional fool but a tough nut to crack just like hamari meenu 😆

Originally posted by: Rashi23

I never said that it's kuhus fault.. I was talking about how shaurya disappointed Rajshri n vishambhar.. Look at one hand they have Akshara who was so perfect n balanced all her relationships perfectly. And then they have shaurya who inspite of having a wife and a teenage daughter had an affair with someone who was a third wheel between Akshara and naitik

I don't agree that Rajshri n vishambhar r useless grandparents.. The way they loved and showered their care and affection on ananya Naksh n Naira is just so amazing.. After Akshara Rajshri was like a mother figure to Naira n now they are like parents to mishti.. They are someone who even loved kartik and treated him like their own child when he used to live in mahesheshwari house as a PG..When they can love outsiders n treat them like family then why won't they accept kuhu n love her? The thing is kuhu wants everybody's 100%attention, n Rajshri vishambhar couldn't give her that bcoz of mishti that's why she hates her, but it's not like they completely neglected kuhu, whenever she needed them they were there to support her.. But kuhu isn't satisfied

Regarding varsha lol. She was aksharas childhood friend. Apne ghar se zyaada woh Akshara ke ghar pe rehti thi.. Rajshri vishambhar ne hi uski parvarish kiya hai, woh toh vishambhar ko bauji bulati thi shaadi se pehle.

And about kuhu being adopted, Akshara bought her back n made sure everybody accepts her.. Akshara is the reason why she is in mah house in the first place, the way Akshara bought her to mah house the same way Rajshri bought mishti to mah house so that means they both are adopted so why does she always blames mishti n says that she's a charity case bcoz this thing is applicable to her as well. When mahs never made kuhu feel like she's an illegitimate child then why did she made mishti feel like an outsider n someone who's a bhoj on the family.. Disliking kuhu had nothing to do with it.

Don't get me wrong , I am not saying he blames kuhu neither I am saying he wasn't a good grandparent , I was only saying that he dosent feel that connect with kuhu like he does with mishti , that's why he isn't quick enough to praise her when she started her own business, and he isn't quick enough to scold her when she goes wrong too , he has no expectations from kuhu , good or bad, that's quite a different kind of feeling , they don't share the usual grand father grand daughter bond as well , dosent it surprise you at times ?

Originally posted by: Su94

Only quoting points 5 and 6 because the post is long and I only wanted to address them.

5.I completely agree with point 5. I actually, for the first time, thought that Kuhu was at her heights of maturity in this scene. It made me realise that in "most" situations, where she is burning with jealousy over Mishti, she always seems fine and only after repeated doses of instigation does she act on her insecurities. And this KuhuNal scene happened before Meenu announced that she'll be giving her share in the business to the "not yet conceived baby."

Her doubt and her take was very articulately put across. She acknowledged that the very mom who forbade her from competing with her "sister" is being manipulated by Jazz to turn this baby making into a competition, just when things between Mishti and her were actually cooling down for real. And she is wondering aloud to Kunal ki aisa kyun? See, her insecurities regarding Mishti haven't yet taken over her yet. And then the next scene happened which is going to be followed by more Varsha/Jazz bharoing her kaan and then we are yet to see how she goes back to square one.

Absolutely agree with you, I always say kuhu doesn't lack empathy, that's something popular narrative says but that is not true , kuhu has selective sympathy, she is someone who understands but mishti becomes her blind spot, she doesn't mind mishti taking responsibility for bigger share of problems but she feels insecured when her struggles and problems aren't given importance, she also feels insecured to see mishti's gets better share of the things she feels should have been equal, like the shares thing ...its not unrealistic, ppl are quite touchy on property issues trust me 😆 Whether its varsha jas kuhu or meenu .....they seem to be antagonist but they aren't someone you wouldn't see around

6.Coming to your point 6 on BP-Mish and BP-Kuhu dynamics, it is a very, very interesting take. A very fresh perspective that I could not have come up with by myself but makes a lot of sense. If YRHPK were a well written novel, this would add a profound layer to the story. I don't know if it's the case here. It could just be what it is: Mishti is the sensible one and BP expects her to handle Kuhu and forgive her for her mistakes. Maybe even after seeing Kuhu break the doll house, he thought the "sisters" need time to cohabitate and that things would get better with time.
From your viewpoint, I did realise though that BP definitely seems to jatao more haq on Mishti because he considers her like Akshara, who he can speak plainly to. And that even if he was being an extremely lenient grandparent to Kuhu, he could've confided in Shaurya.

But I do believe he loves Kuhu a lot. He has equally done a lot for her happiness too. When he realised that she loved Kunal, he thought of Mishti initially, but when Meenu asked him saamne se and Kuhu said yes instantly, he accepted the rishta (though he was still very wary about it). And likewise, he was disturbed when he found out that Mishti loves Abir and was vacillating over his decision, again thinking about Meenu and Kunal, but when Abir made the world's most beautiful proposal speech and clarified his doubts, he accepted this rishta as well with the same misgivings regarding Meenu. I felt that in both situations he had balanced his love and responsibilities for Mish and Kuhu very well.

Don't misunderstand me , BP is not a bad parent or a bad grandparent in my opinion, he has done the best for mishti and kuhu , I was talking about the emotional connect here, not the connect that you get out of responsibility, when was the last time you say BP kuhu have grand pa grand daughter talks ? He never praised her when she started her business, she never says anything emotional to her , he never even scolds her when she goes wrong , to mishti BP is always like aap hamara guroor thi apne tod diya , shouldn't he be saying the same to kuhu also when she goes wrong? Of course being the elder and experienced one , he knows kaun kitne paani mein rehta hai , mishti or kuhu

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You will hit me for this but I will say this , he compares her to meenu , I really feel happy He probably hints at how mishti gives a kaante ki takkar to him and is definitely not an emotional fool but a tough nut to crack just like hamari meenu

@underlined: I also feel the same way though. 😂

As long as he doesn't call her a "problem creator," I'm just fine with the comparison. One facet of the significant other's personality that people gravitate towards resonates with their parents. It's just the psyche.

Originally posted by: Su94

You will hit me for this but I will say this , he compares her to meenu , I really feel happy He probably hints at how mishti gives a kaante ki takkar to him and is definitely not an emotional fool but a tough nut to crack just like hamari meenu

@underlined: I also feel the same way though. 😂

As long as he doesn't call her a "problem creator," I'm just fine with the comparison. One facet of the significant other's personality that people gravitate towards resonates with their parents. It's just the psyche.

I never get a feeling that he says it in terms of problem creator way , he says in arguements he literally says it cuz mishti behaves as if vo sunegi nahi bas kahegi aaj , same attitude meenu has when she argues with abir 😆 it comes out in argument that's why mishti and janta ko bohot bura lag jaata hai

Hi fi 😆 mishti also sees a bade papa in abir ...its just the psyche like you said